Ubusuku bokutshata bokuqala: izithethe kunye nosuku

Ukucwangcisa ubusuku bomtshato akufanele kunikwe ingqalelo ngaphantsi komtshato. Kungakhathaliseki ukuba wawukufuphi kangakanani, lo busuku buya kuba bubusuku bakho bokuqala njengomlingane. Kufuneka ukhunjulwe kuwe ngobomi kunye nemfesane yakho yothando, ukufudumala kunye nokunyamezela. Ngoko ke, qiniseka ukuba uxoxe ngeenqwenela zakho ngesigamu, ulungiselele izipho ezintle kwaye, ngokwenene, qaphela ukuba akukho mntu uphazamisayo.

Indlela yokuchitha ubusuku bomtshato

Okokuqala, kufuneka unqume ukuba kuza kubakho ubusuku bokuqala bomtshato. Zininzi iindlela zokukhetha:

Indlu okanye indlu

Ukuba ukhetha ukuba neyakho yokuhlala okanye indawo yokuhlala yokuhlala emva komtshato, uze uzame ukwenza igumbi lokulala libukeke njengothando. Musa ukukhawuleza emva kweeholide ukuze ubuyele ebomini. I-Rose petals ebhedini, ikhandlela, ukukhanya okukhethiweyo ngokufanelekileyo. Ngokuqhelekileyo, lungiselela ilinen ekhethekileyo yelinen. Unokukhetha i-silika okanye ikotoni epholileyo yembala engavamile, engavamile kuwe kwimpilo yemihla ngemihla.

Kwifriji, faka ibhotile ye-champagne kusengaphambili kwaye ucinge ngokutya okulula. Kuya kuba yinto engabonakaliyo kunye kunye kunye nokuhlamba kunye ne-foam ecocekileyo eyokukukhulula kwaye ulungelelanise ngendlela efanelekileyo. Thatha ixesha lakho, nwabelane, nidle umxhwele wesantya ngosuku oludlulileyo.

Inombolo ehotele

Ngokuqinisekileyo, igumbi labantu abasandul 'ukutshatyalaliswa yinto ekhethekileyo yohlu lokuqala lomtshato. Okokuqala, igumbi lihlotshiswe ngokwemiba. Okwesibini, awuyikukhusela nayiphi na ingxaki yendlu: akudingeki ucinge ngantoni na, ngaphandle komnye nomnye. Yintoni enokuba yinto enomtsalane emva komhla wokutshatyalaza womtshato ukuya ekamelweni elihle, uphuze i-champagne uze uqhubekele kwi-caresses. Kwasekuseni isidlo sakusasa sokuhamba okanye ukuhamba ngokukhawuleza ukuya kwikhobe yekhofi.

Kubalulekile ukunyamekela izinto ezilandelayo kwangaphambili:

• ukhethe kwaye ufunde igumbi. Sombulula yonke imibuzo yephepha ukuze ungabi nokuma kumgca wokuthatha umhlalaphantsi okanye ukukhawuleza ekhaya emva kwepasipoti yakho kwixesha elingenakwenzekayo;
• cinga ngemenyu yobusuku. Ndikholelwe, ngokuqinisekileyo uya kufuna ukuba ne-snack. Kwaye ikishi lehotele, elingaqhubi ebusuku, lingakucasula;
• fumana ukuba idizayini yeli gumbi ifakiwe kwixabiso kwaye, mhlawumbi, xubushe ngokuhlobisa kunye nabasebenzi.

Eyona nto yonyusa ubusuku bomtshato ehotele - yindleko ezongeziweyo. Kodwa, ekugqibeleni, ngeendleko zomtshato, ukuhlawula inani aliyi kuba nzima.

Uhambo lomtshato

Ubusuku bokutshata bokuqala, njani ukuba emva kokubhiyozela kwakho ugqibe ukuhamba? Kunene, kwizothutho, ingaba yindiza, uqeqesho okanye imoto. Kwaye ukuba kusengaphambili ulungelelanise yonke into ngokufanelekileyo, ukuguqulwa okugqithiseleyo ukusuka kwiholidi ukuya kwi-honeymoon kuya kuba lula kwaye kuyamnandi.

Kakade, kuyilinga ukulungiselela ukumangaliswa okuthandayo kwaye kunokumthabatha indlu emva komtshato kwisikhululo-moya. Kodwa, phawula ukuba yonke intombazana idinga iimpahla, izimonyo nezinye izinto ezincinci. Kwaye nangona imali yakho ikuvumela ukuba uthenge konke oku kuleyo ndawo, cinga ngendlela elula ngayo ukuthenga ezithengweni zomtshato. Ngoko kungcono ukunikezela intombi yakho okanye umama kwisicwangciso sakho, ukuze bancede ukuqokelela i-suitcase kwaye ulungiselele iingubo eziza kutshintsha umfazi wakho.

Ukucwangcisa uhambo ngokukhawuleza emva komtshato, gwema iindlela ezinxulumene nazo ezininzi zokuhamba kunye nokulinda ixesha elide phakathi kweenqwelo. Emva kweholide, kwaneentsapho ezonwabileyo zidinwa ngokunyanisekileyo. Kwaye, mhlawumbi, kunengqiqo ukuchitha ubusuku ehotele, kwaye uhambe uhambo olulandelayo.

Yintoni oyenzayo ngobusuku bomtshato kunye nalapho ungayichitha khona, uyagqiba. Into eyona nto kukuba iimeko zokuthandana nothando kunye nolwazi ngokubaluleka kwezinto ezenzekayo zidibeneyo.

Kwiinkcubeko ezininzi zomtshato zomhlaba, ukuhlaselwa komtshakazi nomyeni womtshato wobusuku kuhamba kunye nemikhuba ekhethekileyo. Ngaphambi kokushiya iindwendwe, umtshakazi uphosa i-bouquet. Ngokweempawu, intombazana eyamthatha iya kuba ngumtshakazi olandelayo.

Ungakwazi kwakhona ukwakha itraki ye-impromptu esuka kwilweleni, apho abantu abaselula kufuneka badlule khona, baye ebomini obatshatileyo.

Nangona ungabandakanyi ukubaluleka kumasiko omtshato, ngoko kuyimfuneko ukudlulisela umtshakazi emngceleni, nokuba ingaba igumbi okanye igumbi ehotele.

Ubusuku bokuqala bomtshato kumaSulumane

Yintoni ekufuneka yenziwe ngobusuku bomtshato, ukuba abasandul 'ukutshata banamaSulumane, kwaye umtshato usenzeka ngokuhambelana nezithethe ezifanelekileyo? Ukuqala, ngaphambi kobuhlobo, umtshakazi nomyeni kufanele bathandazele baze bacele uAllah ukuba abusise umtshato. I-Namaz eyenziwa ngokwahlukileyo ngabafazi kunye namadoda. Emva koko umyeni uphatha umakoti kwieskese, mhlawumbi ukumnika isipho esimnandi.

Kuze kube ngoku, kukholelwa ukuba izalamane zimele zilindeleke phantsi komnyango ade umyeni abonise onke amaxwebhu kunye nobungqina bokungabikho komntu ongenamntu. Nangona kunjalo, isithethe esinjalo sichasene nezithethe zamaSilam. Emva koko, imiyalelo ithi awukwazi ukuhlola abantu. Yaye indlela yokuphumla, ukuba imfutshane nabaselula ngabadala.

Kulo lonke, ubusuku bomtshato waseMuslim buya kudlula, kunye nabameli bezinye iicawa. Ukuchaneka, ukunyamekela, ukuthabatha, ukunyamekela iimvakalelo zomnye nomnye - oku kubalulekileyo ekusebenzisaneni ngokuphumelelayo kwabatshatileyo abasanda kuzalwa.

Ngoko, ukuze uchithe ngokufanelekileyo ubusuku bomtshato, kuya kufuneka ukhethe indawo ngaphambili, yenza izipho ezincinane kunye nexhala, ube nomonde, ngakumbi ukuba lo ulwabelana ngesondo lokuqala kunye nothando. Abanye baya kulandela. Khumbula ukuba indawo yangaphandle ayibalulekanga njengemvakalelo yakho.