Inomdla kakhulu kukuba emva kweminyaka emininzi, ndiyakhumbula kakhulu uhambo lwam lokuqala. Kwaye ndahamba nobaba, kwaye ndandineminyaka engama-7 ubudala. Ngoku ndiyayiqonda indlela eyingozi ngayo. Hayi, ndandingenangqondo, kodwa, ngokuchaseneyo, ndaze ndazimela ngokukhawuleza ukulibaziseka kwesitimela ixesha elingaphezulu kweeyure ezingama-4 (kwakungeyona into enkulu kum: ndilala ebusini). Emva koko, ndonwabile, kwaye kwimibuzo yam ipapa yaqala ukuyivumela. Kodwa isiqingatha seengxaki: Ndandinomqolo, ngaphantsi kweenqeni, iinwele, kwaye apho, ngombono wam, uTata wayenokuthatha izifundo ezimbalwa ngokubeka izibilini ngaphambi kokushiya. Ndiyabulela uThixo ukuba sinabantu abanobubele (nabamaMama) kunye nomntu wonke emotweni ngokubhinqa iibrasi zam, ngoko ndaya eRiga ngehle kakhulu. Epho ndavuya kakhulu, ndahamba ngeenwele ezivulekileyo, kwaye ubukhulu obunokuba ubaba wayifunde yi-ponytail. Kodwa kwakukho uhambo olungalibalekiyo: ngexesha lokuqala ngaphandle komama, ulwandle, ilanga, isanti, ice cream, amathoyizi. Ndiyabulela kakhulu ubaba ngenxa yokuba ndingesabi ukundithabatha, kodwa kumama ukuyeka ukuhamba.
Ngoko, njengoko kubonakala kwisekuqaleni kwam, unakho kwaye kufuneka uhlale nomntwana wakho. Kuphela kufuneka ulungiselele kwangaphambili kwaye ucinge ngokucokisekileyo malunga nento yonke ukuphepha ukuphazamiseka kwindlela kwaye wenze konke kungabunzima, kodwa ujabulele kuwo wonke umntu. Khumbula ukuba ilizwi elidumile "abantwana abancinci abantwana" akufanelekanga apha. Xa uhambahamba, okuchaseneyo kuyinyani: umncinci umntwana, ngakumbi kunzima ukuphumla. Kodwa musa ukucaphuka. Ngoko, sihamba ngeholide nomntwana omncinci. Uqala phi uqeqesho?
Into yokuqala okufuneka uyenze isigqibo malunga nendawo yokuphumla kuyo.
Ukuba unquma ukuhamba nomntwana kwihambo elide, ungabikho ngaphandle, ngokokuqala, kufuneka ukhethe ilizwe elinesimo sezulu esifanelekileyo. Khumbula: i-mozulu efanelekileyo kakhulu ayifanele ihluke kwizinto eziqhelekileyo okanye ukungcola komoya, okanye utshintsho lokushisa. Ukuba ugqiba ukuphumla kweli lizwe elinesimo sezulu sahluke kakhulu kwinto eqhelekileyo, kungcono ukuya "kwixesha le-velvet" xa kungabi kushushu kakhulu. Ekuhambeni kokuqala kungcono ukhethe ilizwe ngeeyure eziyi-3-4 zendiza, ukuze umntwana angagqithanga. Ukuba uya olwandle, gcina ukhumbula ukuba iilwandle ezihle kakhulu ezilunxwemeni zincinci ngakumbi kwimpilo kunye nococeko kunxweme kunye namacwecwe amancinci.
Ukuba ufuna ukuphumla nokuphucula impilo yakho kwi-resort, khumbula: abantwana abangaphantsi kweminyaka emi-4 yonyango lwe-spa ayithandeki! Kuphumla kuphela.
Kubalulekile ukuba ngumntwana womntwana. Ootitshala bezilwanyana abacebisi uhambo ukuya ekupheleni komjikelo wokugonywa. Abantwana abaphilileyo bayagonywa ngeenyanga ezintandathu. Ukuba akusiyo zonke izitofu ezenziwe, uhambo kufuneka luhlehliswe.
Ukuba uhamba nomntwana, cingisisa malunga nendlela ukutya okusemgangathweni okusemgangathweni kubantwana kuya kufumaneka ngayo - akunakwenzeka ukuba ubeke yonke into kwisitulo.
Ukuba uphumla kwiholide, nceda ucacise iimeko zokuhlala kwakho kwangaphambili kwaye -baluleke kakhulu - ungakulibala ukuba ulungiselele ngokufanelekileyo onke amaxwebhu ahambayo ngaphandle.
Umba wesibini obalulekileyo apho uza kufika kwindawo yokuphumla.
Imoto.
Inayo inzuzo eninzi:
- unako ukutshintsha indlela;
- unako ukuyeka ukuthanda.
Umntwana emotweni kufuneka alele ngenduduzo, kunye nemiqathango yokuphumla - ukuba ibe kufuphi nekhaya ngangokunokwenzeka. Ngoko ke, ukuba unayo intsana, thatha umkhumbi ukusuka kumgcini, umntwana osekhulile-isitulo esikhethekileyo semoto. Khumbula: indawo ekhuselekileyo emotweni imele umqhubi. Ngokuqhelekileyo ukuyeka, ukuze unwebe imilenze yakho, oku kuyimfuneko nje kuphela kumntwana, kodwa nakumntu omdala. Cinga kwangaphambi kokuzilibazisa komntwana: ungafundeli endleleni, njengokuba oku kuyingozi kwamehlo, amehlo akhathala ngokukhawuleza, kungcono ukuthatha iakhasethi ezilalelwayo kunye neengoma zakho ezizithandayo, iingoma onokuzifunda endleleni uze uhlabe kunye. Kwaye umntwana uncedo, kwaye uyonwabile. Musa ukulibala ukuthatha amathoyizi omntwana wakho ozithandayo.
Uloliwe.
Ukuba unesigumbi esahlukileyo, sumba zonke iindawo ezifumanekayo kumntwana (lungisa i-rag kusengaphambili ekhaya). Qinisekisa ukuthatha umntwana okhulelweyo ekhaya. Abantwana abaneminyaka engaphantsi kwe-12 ubudala bangcono xa belele ebhaleni elisezantsi. Igosa lakho kufuneka libe kwicala elithile, ukuze ubone umntwana, kwaye yena-wena, ukuba ngokukhawuleza uyavuka. Ungavumeli abantwana bahambe bodwa
imoto. Ewe, ukuba umntwana wakho unontanga emotweni, ncedisa abantwana ukuba bazi ukuba kuyamnandi kwaye kulula ukuyiphatha indlela. Musa ukulibala imidlalo ephuhlisayo: i-lotto, i-checkers, i-chess, i-dominoes. Kuya kuba mnandi ukuba nemidlalo embalwa esitokisini ongayidlala nomntwana. Funda isicatshulwa esilula esenziwe kwiphepha. Umntwana wakho uya kuvuyela ukujoyina nawe. Iipencilisi, ipenji evelele, iphepha liyizincedisi zakho ezinokwethenjelwa endleleni. Ungamvumeli umntwana ahambe yedwa kwindlu yangasese, hlamba izandla zakho rhoqo.
Isithuthi.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, kuyinto elula kakhulu - uhambo luhlala iiyure eziliqela, kwaye ngakolunye uhlangothi - ukulungiselela ukufika, ukubhaliswa kuthatha iiyure eziliqela, ezikukhathazayo kungekuphela komntwana, kodwa nakumntu omdala.
Kungcono ukuba umntwana uthatha indawo eyahlukileyo, ngaphandle koko uya kunyanzelwa ukuba awugcine lonke ixesha ezandleni zakho. Qinisekisa ukuthatha isiselo se salon, ukutya kwasebantwaneni, i-diapers, iipilbhu ezimanzi, iipilisi ngokuchaswa kwezifo. Xa uthabatha kwaye uhlalisa umntwana ubhetele ukutya, kuya kunciphisa imeko ngexesha loxinzelelo lwexinzelelo. Cinga ngethuba lokuphumla lomntwana endleleni.
Iingcebiso ezincinci zemihla ngemihla.
1. Thatha umntwana omncinci ngakumbi kunye neentambo. Ukuba kupholile, kungcono ukusebenzisa i-diaper, kwaye ukuba itshisa-unako ukumnika umntwana ukuba alele apha okanye e-panties.
2. Musa ukulibala izilungiso zeentongwane kunye neempukane kunye nokugqwesa i-gauze kwi-stroller.
3. Ungalibali iingubo ezifudumeleyo, kunye ne-panama kunye neebhotile zerabha.
4. Ukuba umntwana usemncinci, i-arna ingaba luncedo kakhulu, ingaqhutywa ngaphandle kwimihla. Umntwana omdala uya kuba neembozo ezaneleyo okanye umbhoxo. Makhe umntwana abe nethuba lokuhamba ngokuthula.
5. Ungabi ngongqongqo kunye nedama kunye nazo zonke iintlobo zamathoyizi: unokwazi ukukhahlela, kunye nokuloba iintlanzi, kwaye ulungele ulwandle lwangempela.
6. Ukuba uhamba ehlathini, khumbula ukuba yonke indawo yesikhumba kufuneka ikhuselwe. Kusemilenzeni kungcono ukugqoka iibhotile zerabha, i-headpiece iyimfuneko.