Usuku lwabathandwa bonke luphawu lweemvakalelo ezivakalayo, ukufudumala nokunyamekela. Ngaloo mini, izibini zothando zilungiselela kwangaphambili, zakha ngezandla zazo ezithandekayo, ziqulunqa izibongo zothando kunye neengxaki ezikhethekileyo ezicinga malunga neprogram yothando lwangokuhlwa. Ngokuqinisekileyo uyazi ukuba i-Valentine Day Day iyabhiyozelwa, kodwa ingcamango edabukisayo yeeholide ayinakuvakala. Ukuba awuqhelanga neeholide yokuthandana konyaka, qiniseka ukuba uqaphele umhla wokubamba kwayo kwikhalenda, ukuze ungakhohlwa ukukholisa abantu abathandekayo ngezipho ezingalindelekanga kunye neentlungu.
Ngumhla woSuku lukaValentine ugujwa kwaye yintoni le nkcubeko evela kuyo?
Ngamanye amazwe kumazwe amaninzi kwihlabathi jikelele ukubhiyozela iholide yabathandi bonke ngoFebruwari 14, kodwa kwintsimi yezinye iindawo, ngenxa yezizathu zonqulo, Usuku lwe-Valentine aluvumelekile ukuba lubhiyozele. Ngokomzekelo, e-Saudi Arabia ngenxa yokwephulwa kwabathandwayo banqabile ukujongana nempahla.
Ekupheleni kweveki yesibili kaFebhuwari, iSonto lamaKatolika lihlonipha uSt. Valentine, uMartyr, omkhulu uKolowudiyo II wanikela isigwebo sokufa. Umlawuli waseRoma wayenombono wokuthi amadoda asemtshatweni ayengafuni ukujoyina umkhosi aze alwe nomlawuli wawo, ngoko ke wakhupha umyalelo owenqabela abameli bezesondo ezinamandla ukutshata. Umbingeleli, ngokuchaseneyo, waphatha ngokufanelekileyo ukudalulwa kwentsapho - wabathandana ngokufihlakeleyo, abaye bahlawula.
Ngokuqinisekileyo akwaziwa ukuba ngaba ibali elingenhla liyinyaniso. Kodwa inyaniso ihlala: namhlanje iholide yabathandi bonke abhiyozelwa kumazwe amaninzi ehlabathi. Lo ngumhla xa unokuzibonakalisa ngokukhuselekileyo iimvakalelo zakho ngoncedo lwentetho enobumnandi, engabalulekanga. Ngomhla kaFebruwari 14 unakho ukuhalalisa abahlobo beValikov ngeentsuku. Ngaloo mini ngumhla ka-Valentine.
Izipho zomdabu zoSuku lweValentine
Ukongezelela kwiintyatyambo kunye neesekese, impawu ezibalulekileyo, ezifanekisela iholide ngoFebhuwari 14, yikhadi elihle ngendlela yentliziyo, ebizwa ngokuba yi-valentine. Ingqungquthela yobugcisa bephepha lokuthandwa kwi-18th century, kwaye umdali we "ntliziyo" yokuqala ubonwa njengombusi waseFransi, obhala kwiimveliso zemiyalezo yothando kumfazi wakhe.
Ubuhle beholide kukuba akuyimfuneko ukubonisa isipho esibi kakhulu kumntu othandekayo. Qinisekisa ukuba inqwelwana elinqwebile okanye ikhadi elenziwe ngesandla liza kubiza ngaphezu kwesigqithatha sesibini kwisihlandlo, kunokuba isipho sesinikwe kwisitishi.
Ukongezelela kubamkeli beli holide kukho nabachasi bakhe abanomdla, ababizwa ngokuba ngumkhosi "wamahedeni", abanenzuzo kuphela kwimibutho yezorhwebo: iifowuni zeetroleta, iivenkile zeentyatyambo, abanikazi bokutyela (ukugxininisa). Abemi baseKazakhstan kwaye baqwalasele, ukuba izenzo zesikolo zinikezelwa kwimthendeleko enikeziweyo, ukuziphatha kubomi bokuqala besondo babantwana.
NgoFebruwari 14, unokuphatha ngendlela eyahlukileyo, kodwa ininzi intsapho kunye nakwimibhangqwana yothando ayinakucinga ngomnye umnyaka kunyaka wokuthandana. Kule holide, ukuqaphela ngothando akubonakali njengento ethile, kodwa njengobonakaliso obungqina bemvakalelo efudumeleyo. Ukuba awuzange ukwazi ngaphambili, xa Usuku lukaValentine, lixesha lokucinga ngendlela oza kuchitha ngayo iholide kulo nyaka.