Izipho zihlala zihlukaniswe zibe ziimfuno ezihlukeneyo zezidingo: ukuqala kungabalulekanga kwaye ngezinye izikhathi ziyakhathaza - kwaye ziphela ngokubaluleka kakhulu kunye nokugcinwa kwirekhodi. Kubalulekile apha: musa ukulahleka. Ekubeni bonke abantu banqwenela izinto ezahlukeneyo, kwaye nangakumbi ke izinto ezikhethwa ngabantu zivela ezintweni ezithandwa ngabasetyhini. Ngako oko umbuzo: yintoni indoda enokuyinika umfazi woNyaka omtsha - njengoko akunakwenzeka ngokwenene. Kwaye, mhlawumbi, ufaneleke kakhulu kuthi, abafazi, kunokuba abafana ngokwabo. Kutheni? Ewe, kuba ngubani, ukuba asikho thina, ngeengcebiso kunye nezibongozo "ukucela" into efunekayo kwaye ebalulekileyo yeholide? Kwaye abo bangenabo, mhlawumbi, baninzi bafumana ubunzima bokuba amadoda abo akakwazi ukwenza isipho esihle soNyaka omtsha.
Nangona, uyazi, konke oku kuxhomekeke kwindlela ephuculwe ngayo imfesane yakho, indlela ekukuzi kakuhle ngayo kunye nendlela ephethe ngayo isikhwama. Emva koko, zikhona izipho ezihlala ziwela kwiinjongo, kodwa iindleko zabo ngokuqhelekileyo abanye abantu bazisa kwi-half-faint. Mhlawumbi sele uqikelele into esiyithethayo ngayo: i-stylish "trinkets" ezothambileyo ezenziwe ngegolide ecocekileyo kunye nokufakwa kwamatye anqabileyo. Nangona apha nakhona kukho iip punctures - emva kwayo yonke into, akuyiyo yonke imboleko eya kuba yintetho yowesifazane. Kodwa kukho enye ebalulekileyo kunye: igolide ingancibilika, ithengiswe, ishintshwe ekugqibeleni ize ithole oko umphefumlo unqwenela khona. Ngoko igolide yiphosi enye yesipho kwintlu yento umntu anganika ngayo umfazi oNyaka omtsha okanye nayiphi na iholide.
Nangona kunjalo, njengoko sithe satsho, igolide ayinakuhlawuleka kumntu wonke, ngoko makhe siqwalasele ezinye iindidi zezipho. Kodwa siza kubaqwalasela kwinqakrazo yendlela esenzelwe ngayo amantombazana ukuba enze iingcebiso malunga nesipho esingathandekiyo okanye esifiselekayo.
Indlela yokuphepha izipho ezingafunekiyo?
Kukho uluhlu lwamadoda abakholelwa ukuba bonke abafazi baya kwintlalo engenakulinganiswa nakwezinye iintlobo zangaphakathi. Kwaye ke banika abo bathandekayo kuzo zonke iiholide zeetekisi, izigidi zeepasesi kunye neebhokisi zeekhandlela ezicocekileyo. Kodwa nangona intombazana imthanda zonke ezi zinto, ngoko yonke uthando inomda - kungekudala uza kudinwa njani ngokufumana ezi mifanekiso, ezi khandlela ziqhamo? Yaye ukuthozama komzimba akuyi kuvumela ukumisa umntu oye wazinikela ngokuzikhethela ukuba ngokunika zonke iintlinkethi, uyazibetha ngqo ngqo ekujoliswe kuyo.
Ngoko, ungayigcina njani into yokuba umfana wakho oNyaka omtsha uza kukunika kwibhokisi ye-chic ukuba awukwazi ukumela umoya? Qalisa kusengaphambili ukukulungiselela ukuba iinqweno zakho zihamba kakuhle. Ukuba kwenye indawo kwiqela uza kubona into apho uya kugutyungelwa ngumtsalane wokuhlambalaza - qiniseka ukuba indoda yakho, kuqala, ibona le nto, kwaye, okwesibini, yaqonda ukuba awuyithandi neze. Mxelele malunga noko ungathanda ukukubona ekhaya lakho-kwaye indoda elumkileyo kufuneka uyikhumbule le nto. Mane ungathuli - kungekhona wonke umntu uyakwazi ukuqaphela izinto ozikhethayo emehlweni. Nangona kukho. Ngoko ke, ukuba ucinga ukuba indoda yamaphupha awayi kukwazi ukuqaphela ukuba isiphi isipho sephupha lakho libukeka kwaye, ngaphezu koko, unokukubonisa into enokukugxotha kwiimeko zokuxhatshazwa nokuxinezeleka, ngoko ke indlela efanelekileyo yokukhusela isipho esinjalo ukumxelela malunga oku akuthandiyo. Kuphela kungekupheleni kweNyaka entsha.
Izipho ezifanelekileyo kubafazi ngoNyaka omtsha
Ngoko, yintoni indoda enokuyinika umfazi oNyaka omtsha, kangangokuthi ulahlekelwa ngumntu? Ukuba ukhetho ngamagugu kumntu alukho ehlombe, ngoko kufuneka acinge ngokucokisekileyo ngezinto ezithandwayo kunye neminqweno yentombazana yakhe, kwaye ukhethe isipho esekelwe kule ngcamango.
Intombazana inokukwenza lula ukuba umfana onqamlekileyo, onokungena kwimilo yezinto afuna ukuzibona phantsi komthi weKrismesi. Kodwa oku, uyabona, kuyamangalisa, i-pragmatic, ikhulile ngokupheleleyo. Kwaye uNyaka omtsha ndifuna ubuncinane buntwaneni! Ngoko ke, ndifuna ukukholelwa ukuba amadoda ethu ayazi kunye nezinto esizikhethayo.
Phakathi kwezipho eziza kuhlala zihamba ngokufanelekileyo ziisetyenzisi zokutya. Kodwa kukho "ezimbalwa" apha. Okokuqala, banokuba sele bebaninzi kakhulu, kwaye bajika indlu yentombazana kwivenkile ye-china. Okwesibini, kufuneka ukwazi ukukhetha ngokufanelekileyo imveliso yeesitya ukufanisa nombala weetile, izitya zekiti ozithandayo kunye neengxowa zerhasi. Abasetyhini banemilinganiselo efanelekileyo kwaye enzima kakhulu.
Ukuba ibhinqa lithanda ukupheka kwaye lidumiwe ngobuhle kulo mbandela, ngoko unako ukumnika i-chic isethi yeengqungquthela zaseIndiya zangempela-uya kuzixabisa! Ukusukela "kwiimfuno zesikhishini" kunokwenzeka ukuba kunikezwe isincinci, kodwa kuyimfuneko kunye nezinto ezifunwa zendlu. Umzekelo, i-juicer okanye i-blender. Kwaye ukuba uhlala kwisidlo-ke isipho esilungileyo siya kuba ngumqhubi.
Kwimeko apho intombazana - isilumko kunye nesidoda, ungathatha isethi yokudala ngezandla zakho. Ukukhanda, ukuthunga, ukudibanisa, ukucoca. Okanye into ayithandayo apho. Musa nje ukuxhamla, isipho sifanele sibe semgangathweni omhle.
Utywala kotywala - le nto into engekho mntu uya kuyenza. Ukusela, kunjalo. Ibhotile yotywala ebiza kakhulu iya kuba yinto efanelekileyo kakhulu yokubhabisa kwintombazana yebhodi yebhinqa: kuya kudala kuphazamisa i-swill efunwayo, ilinde isithuba esifanelekileyo ukuba singayifaki. Ndikholelwe, isipho esinjalo nomphefumlo uya kufudumala, kunye negazi, kwaye ixesha elide lizakuma, kuba intombazana ayifuni ukusela lo mqondiso ngokukhawuleza. Ewe, unikezelwa ngokucacileyo koNyaka omtsha, unakho ukulungiswa ngokufanelekileyo kwesi sipho. Ngokomzekelo, yenza "ikhava" kwibhotile ngendlela yomthi weKrisimesi. Unokuphinda unike i hookah, ukuba intombazana inqwenela ukukhupha "okumnandi".
Kodwa mashiye yonke le phantilism ngomzuzu! Cinga ngesipho, apho intombazana iphupha ngayo ....
Ngoko, uNyaka Omtsha ungenaxhomekeka ... Wayelokhu exaka iziqwenga ezinemibala ejikelezayo indlu ngeveki eyadlulayo, ngokukhawuleza wagqitywa zonke izibane, ezihlotshiswe umthi weKrismesi ... Wayexhala. Ukulungiswa koNyaka omtsha wanyunyiselwa kude kube mzuzu xa kuya kubakho ukulungiselela itafile yokuzonwabisa - kwaye le nkonzo yenkundla yesigwebo iya kuzisa negalelo layo kwimeko yabasetyhini abadibeneyo. Kwaye kuza, indoda yakho, idiniwe kunye nekhephu, ephuma emsebenzini. Ukusuka emngceleni, uyakubamba ngezandla zakhe, nangona yena ngokwakhe engayimi phantsi kweenyawo zakhe ... kwaye emva koko uthabatha into ephuma ephaketheni lakhe, edlala ngokubhinqa ngebhebhoni. Ba, ewe uhambo oluya ezintabeni zeNyaka omtsha !!! Iveki yeholide evuyayo kuyo yonke into ehotele konke okubandakanya. Lonwabo emva koko!
Ngoko, cinga, madoda, yintoni oya kumnika umfazi wakho uNyaka omtsha? Into ephambili: qaphela, ji kelela umphefumlo wakho ngononophelo kunye nothando-oku kuya kuba sisipho esona sihle kunobomi bakho obude kwaye obonwabileyo!