Abaninzi abafazi, behamba eholide, bafuna uthando emphefumlweni: ngokungathi udibana nomntu oyedwa kunye noyingqayizivele ojikeleze nge-caress kunye nokunyamekela nokuqwalasela. Kwaye ndinqwenela ukuba olo thando lube lunqamle intloko yam kungekuphela kweholide, kodwa luhlala ngonaphakade.
Ngoko njani ukuba nexesha elihle kwaye ungayi ekhaya ngehliziyo ephukile?
Into yokuqala ongayikwenzayo isetya injongo: phantsi kweyiphi na imeko, fumana iveli. Yonke into iya kwenzeka ngendlela emele ukuba yenzeke ngayo, ngokubanzi, ujabulele ulwandle, ulwandle, ukuphumla.
Khumbula ukuba okokuqala nangakumbi, abantu abaya kwi-resort yokuthabatha amabali, kufuneka baqonde ngokucacileyo ukuba olu lamano kunye nexesha elichithwa yi-resort yiyona nto ikhethileyo.
Kubalulekile ukwazi ukuba ulwalamano lwenkcazo yowesifazane wesilisa luhluke kakhulu.
Njengomthetho, amadoda adinga kuphela iintsasa ixesha elithile, afuna ukuphazamisa, ukusinda ebomini. Iinkemba zabo zilula, zivumele ukuba ziphuhlise ubudlelwane ngaphandle kwanoma luphi na uxanduva.
Umfazi ucinga ngendlela eyahlukileyo, ngombono wakhe, ufanelekile nantoni encinci yolonwabo, kwaye ufuna ukubonisa ubungqina bendoda eninzi kakhulu. Unokuhlwa ngobusuku obuhle bukhule ekhanda lakhe yonke inqaku kwaye ukhumbule iminyaka emininzi.
Indoda iyindawo yonke kwaye yonke indawo ngumzingeli, injongo yakhe kukunqoba ibhinqa, ufuna ukubonisa ubungqina bakhe. Ngoko ke, makhe sizinakekele, sibonise ukuba sinikwe ithuba lokuba sizithande, ngokuzilinda.
Kodwa akukho nto ibhetele kumfazi ngaphezu kwexesha apho ekhwaza, ekhangelele kwaye ebamba iimbono zabantu, ekhangela izibopho zesikhashana. La mabhinqa agijimela echibini kunye neentloko zawo, kuphela emva kokuva ukuncoma kokuqala kwivenkile yokutyela.
Kule nqanaba, sifuna ukuvavanya zonke izinto ezintle kunye neempembelelo zobudlelwane obunjalo ukuze sihlolisise amandla ethu engqondo, kwaye, ukuba kuyimfuneko, mququzelele iminqweno.
Ziziphi iinkalo ezintle zokuthandana kweeholide kwabafazi?
- Iholide yeholide yemihla ngemihla. Leli yithuba lomfazi (njengendoda) ukuba abe yinto abahlala behlala ngayo emphefumlweni-onobubele, onobuqili, onobukhulu, onomdla. Nangona kunjalo, ngesizathu esithile, ngokwenene, umntu akafumani ukuzithetha: kuyabiza, kunzima, kwaye kudibaniswe nobomi. Kwaye i-resort ingaba nendima enye, indima ecinga ngokude.
- Ukuphumla - ininzi ye-svidaniy yothando, iimvakalelo ezimnandi, ukuhamba ngothando ngesiqhekeza kunye neentlanganiso kummandla wolwandle.
- Unokudlala ngothando ngaphandle kokucinga, uthetha nawe ngokwakho konke okufunayo kuphela. Akukho mntu uya kujonga!
- Mhlawumbi i-holiday romance iya kuba yilolu hlobo luthando lokwenene, okanye mhlawumbi, ukuze ufumane ikusasa lakho.
- Ukuba iholide ubudlelwane nomntu buya kuphumelela, unokufumana uvuselelo olutsha ebomini, uya kunqoba ukuxinezeleka kwe-office!
- Izabelo kwi-resort zingonakalisa ulwalamano nomntu othandekayo okanye umyeni. Awudingi ukuthetha ngohlobo lwakho olutsha kwiintombi zakho.
- Ngelishwa, kwiindawo ezinxwemeni awukwazi ukuhlangabezana nabantu abathandanayo kuphela, kodwa kunye nomtshato, abaphanga. Bayakwazi ukunqongophela, ukuphelisa intloko, kwaye uhlala nje kwiindleko zakho okanye ezimbi - ukuphanga.
- Ngobudlelwane obungenangqondo, ungabuyela ekhaya kunye nesifo senereal okanye ukhulelwe, ngoko kufuneka uhlale ukhuselwe.
- Ukwabelana ngesondo ngaphandle kothando kungabonakala bubi, awufuni ukuhlangabezana neamehlo akho, intliziyo yakho ayinanto, ufuna ukuphosa ngokukhawuleza yonke into, phuma intliziyo yakho ...
- Nangona kunjalo, isondo ngothando sinokushiya intsalela enzima, ngoko ungayithandi kakhulu iholide yeholide.
- Ukudlala nomntu ongeyena mfokazi, musa ukuya kobusuku bokuqala ngenkobe yekhofi kwigumbi lakhe kwaye ungazibizi. Kufuneka siqale siqonde ukuba ngubani ojongene naye.
- Ngothando lweholide unokuzingca. Unokucinga kuphela ngawe, malunga nento oyifunayo nguwe. Unokufumana kwiqabane elifutshane elifunayo (ingqalelo, izipho, ngesondo). Kodwa into ephambili akuyikumvumela ukuba asondele kakhulu kumphefumlo.
- Kuze ude wazi kakuhle umhlobo wakho omtsha, ungathathi nzulu zonke izithembiso zakhe zokutshata, uqhawule umfazi wakho. Ukuba kwenzeka ngokwenene, kuya kuba mnandi ukumangaliswa.
- Ukwazi ukuzonwabisa, nwabe! Hamba namaqela akho omtsha, ii-discos, iindwendwe. Makhethe ngqo kwaye kulula. Khangela izihloko ezintsha zeengxoxo kunye nokuzonwabisa okuqhelekileyo.
- Kukholelwa ukuba iintombazana azithengi uthando, kodwa zithenga izinto ezikhunjulwayo, iimpahla, iziqholo kunye nokuhlawula kwiivenkile zokutya. Abantu baseVotov badlala indima yabathandi abathanda ukulungiselela inyama yabo ethandekayo ngaphambi kokuphela kweeholide. Ngobudlelwane awudingi ukuvumela ukuba kwenzeke oku, khumbula, kuphela umntu omele anakekele.
Unokugqiba njani ulwalamano olutsha?
Ukuba awukwazi ukugqiba isigqibo sokuqhubeka, ngoko kufuneka unqume ulwalamano oluqalise xa useholide. Tshela intsapho yakho entsha ukuba uchithe ixesha le-chic kunye naye, kodwa uthando lwakho lugqityiwe kunye nokuphela kokunye, akukho nethemba lokuqhubeka. Izizathu akudingeki zichazwe, kwaye akufanele ube neentlungu zecala.
Kodwa ukuba uthe wathandana kakhulu kwaye awuyikushiya umvakalelo wokuthi ngaphandle kwalowo mntu awukwazi ukuphefumula, ngoko ungaphila njani ukuhlukana kule meko?
Ingxaki kuphela yileyo ndawo ukusuka kwintsuku yakho yokuthandana kwiholide kuya kufuneka uhambe kwiidolophu ezahlukeneyo. Kwaye uhlupheke ukuba le nto ikunike inwaba evela kude.
Yaye yinto ehamba ngayo kwiplatifti, ubusuku bothando kunye nezithembiso. Kwaphelile, kwaye ushiywe wedwa. Ufuna ukuhlala ukhala, kwaye ukhumbule njalo imemori, khumbula ubuso bomdabu. Wonke umfazi okwangomzuzu ufuna ukwazi ukuba ubona ntoni, kunzima yena kunye nawe, okanye "Kuthe ukuba uthe wandilibala?"
Ukuze ungalokothi ulahlekelwe ithemba, kufuneka ulandele imigaqo:
- Umgaqo wokuqala: musa ukucinga ngokubi. Nokuba xa uhamba ukuya kwesinye isixeko ngesitimela, ungaphuthelwa, uthathe iphephancwadi elithakazelisayo okanye uqokelelo lwee-jokes ukuze uhlaziywe.
- Ungafaki umculo we-melancholy malunga nokuhlukana, uthando. Sifanele sikholwe ukuba awunaso isizathu sokudabuka, kulungile ukuba ubuhlobo obunjalo buphelile. Zonke izinto zakho zokubanga namazwi zazinyanisekileyo kwaye zaphuma entliziyweni.
- Akuyimfuneko ukwakha udonga lokungathembeki - kuya kuba kubi nakakhulu. Yithetha nje ngeemvakalelo zakho, ngaphandle kokugweba. Uya kubona oko ukhathazekile ngako, oko uhlala kuyo.
- Simele siziphatha ngesithunzi. Awudingi ukubiza umnxeba wokuqala, i-nikudon ayiyi kulahleka ukuba uyayithanda ngokwenene. Unxibelelwano lufanele lube luhle: ungakhathazeki uze ucele "Ngaba usandithanda?".
- Hlala ngokwenene: ulungiselele iholide kwizihlobo, qhelana nabantu abatsha, banomdla omkhulu kwinto yokuzonwabisa entsha, sebenze okanye ufunde.
- Ngaphandle kokuhlukana, akukho ntlanganiso. Cinga kwaye ukholelwe ukuba uthando lwakho luya kudlula ixesha lokuvavanya.
Kodwa nangona kunjalo, musa ukuzisola ngesithandabuzo sothando, ungaziveki unetyala okanye unobungozi, obunokutshatyalaliswa kwisilingo. Ukukhangela uthando ngumpazamo oqhubekayo kunye novavanyo.