Nceda uqaphele, kukho iindlela ezininzi kunye nezindlela zokukhulelwa


Ngubani na omele acinge nge-contraception in pairs, indoda okanye ibhinqa? Abantu abadala kufuneka babe nexanduva kule nkqubo esondeleyo kwaye baqonde ukuba ingaba yintoni imiphumo engaba yinto ukuba ingahoywa imithetho elula yokukhulelwa. Nceda uqaphele, kukho iindlela ezininzi kunye nezindlela zokukhulelwa, kwaye sikhululekile ukuzikhethela thina, ngaphandle kokulinda iqela elivela kumntu!

Thina sonke ngabantu abadala, ndingathanda ukucinga ngoko, nokuba isondo siqhelekileyo kuthi, kwaye ngoko kuya kuba kuhle ukuba uqale uvumelane kwizicwangciso zekamva. Ngako oko, njengoko izicwangciso zomlingani ngamnye zingahluka, kwaye ingxakini ayifuni nantoni na, khawuqwalasele iindlela ezininzi ezikhoyo kunye nezindlela zokukhulelwa ngaphambi kokuba uthathe isondo.

Ukuthenjwa - okokuqala

Khetha okuthembekileyo, ngoko ke apha apha amaphutha ayifanelekanga. Ngelishwa, abaninzi abakucingi njalo. Amadoda kaninzi ayicingi ngendlela iimeko ezinokuthi ziphuhlise ngayo ukuba intombazana (intanda okanye umlingane wesini) ukhulelwe. Kuphela xa le yinto eyenzekayo, loo mntu ucinga malunga nento enokuyenza. Yaye indlela yokuphuma, njengommiselo, ngowona kuphela - isisu. Madoda, ngaba ufuna iimfuno ezinjalo? Kwaye ngokukhawuleza uya kuthatyathwa kwiinkwenkwe zamantombazana, kwaye uya kufuneka utshatile, kodwa oku kwakungenxalenye yezicwangciso zakho? Oku kwenzeka,. Ngoko ke, kunomdla wakho ukuqiniseka ukuba isondo sihlala ngumsebenzi omnandi, kwaye asiyiyo ingxaki yeengxaki. Ngokukodwa ukuba isondo senzeke ngengozi. Ubulili obungaswelekanga - oku kuyinto eqhelekileyo kuluntu lwethu, ngelishwa, ufumana ukuguqulwa kwesondo "ngesondo".

Kodwa kunjalo, ekubeni kuphela umfazi onokukhulelwa, okokuqala kufuneka acinge indlela yokuzikhusela kwimiphumo engathandekiyo yesondo esingakhuselekanga.

Ziziphi iindlela zokukhulelwa kwezinto ezifanelekileyo ezifanelekile ukuthobela ingqalelo, kuzo zonke iindlela, iziyobisi kunye neendlela, eziphi na iintlobo ezahlukeneyo? Nguwuphi na okhethayo? Nceda uqaphele ukuba kukho iindlela ezininzi ezahlukeneyo kunye nezindlela zokukhulelwa, ngoko kukulungele ukubonisana nodokotela wezifo zegazi kwaye ungazami kumava akho.

Ukuqala, kulungile ukufunda ukuba ezo ndlela zokukhulelwa komzimba, njengokuthi "ziphazamise ukuziphatha ngokwesondo" kwaye "indlela yekhalenda" ayikho, ukutshatyalaliswa emva kokulala ngesondo akuyi kunceda. Kufuneka kukhunjulwe ukuba umfazi akanalo suku olukhuselekileyo kwinyanga xa engakwazi ukukhulelwa. Oku, akunjalo, akuthethi ukuba isenzo ngasinye sezesondo kufuneka siphele ngokukhulelwa, kodwa le nto ihlala ikhona.

Sibeka "imiqobo" - siyazikhusela kuyo yonke into!

Inkqubo efikeleleke kakhulu kwaye isetyenziswe ngokubanzi yokukhulelwa kwayo yindlela yokukhawulela. Qaphela ukuba kukho ezininzi iikondom - ngeendlela zokuphucula iinjongo, kunye neendlela ezongezelelweyo zokukhulelwa komzimba - umzekelo, ukuhlanjululwa kwe-spermicide lubrication. Kubalulekile ukuba iikhondom, ngokungafani nezinye iindlela, zikhuselwe ekukhulelweni okungafunekiyo, kwakunye nezifo ezithathelwana ngesondo. Kwaye akukho nto ihlazo kuloo nto ininzi ukunikezela ikhondom kumlingane (ngokukodwa-ngokungaqhelekanga)-ayikho. Ngaphezu koko, unokuyijika ibe ngumdlalo okanye umnandi, uthi "ngaba nguwe othanda kakhulu." Zama uphinde ufunde ubunzulu bakho - kuquka abo bafazi abangaqhelekanga njengamakhondom, unokukhetha ezininzi iintlobo ezingayi kunciphisa ulonwabo lwesini, kodwa ngokuchasene noko, ukwandisa.

Iimimoya kunye namahomoni

Abo bathembekileyo omnye komnye bafanele baqwalasele ezinye iindlela ezikhoyo kunye nezindlela zokukhulelwa kwezinto zokuzala, ezi zizinto ezininzi. Izibini zeentsapho ezisele zinezingane, kunokucetyiswa ukuba zikhusele ngokwasemithonjeni yokukhulelwa komzimba (i-spirals). Le ndlela ayifanelekile kwabasetyhini abanezifo ezivuthayo ezitho zangaphakathi zesini. Kule meko kunokwenzeka ukuba ucebise i-hormonal contraceptive.

Iseluleko esilumkileyo sogqirha ...

Abavelisi bokukhulelwa kwe-hormonal bayacetyiswa ukuba bafumane uvavanyo olupheleleyo ngaphambi kokuba baqale isiza. Abasetyhini abakhuselwe yile ndlela, ngubani na owenziwe uphando? Ndiqinisekile ukuba enye. Kwaye, ugqirha nje wabhala kwiphepha elithile lamachiza amaninzi, enye yazo (!) Ingasetyenziselwa ukukhusela ekukhulelweni okungafunekiyo. Ingaba ugqirha uyakholelwa ukuba umphumo wecala awunandaba kwaye awuthumeleli uviwo, okanye kukho umbuzo malunga nokugcina imali yononophelo lwonyango ... Ndingathini?

Wonke umntu kufuneka acinge ngempilo yakhe yokuqala aze alalele iingcebiso zoogqirha. Kwabo sele benabantwana kwaye abanqwenela ukuba bakhulelwe baze babele, kukho indlela ekhuselekileyo yokukhusela - inzalo. Inzalo ingathatyathwa kwindoda kunye nomfazi, kodwa, ngenxa yokusebenza okunjalo, abantu abaqapheli kakhulu. Kutheni? Kubonakala ngathi asifuni ukuba nabantwana abaninzi, kodwa kufuneka sihlale sinokuzikhethela, kwaye ngokukhawuleza sitshintsha ingqondo yethu, kwaye inzala iyinto engavumelekanga ... Ngoko kuvela ukuba sibonakala sithandana ngesondo kuphela, kodwa ekugqibeleni sizama ukulahlekelwa ithuba eliphambili kuphela kwisithuba sokugqibela kwaye ngokungqongqo ngokungqinelana nobungqina bogqirha.