Izakhono zokuphuhlisa ubulili besini

Kuvela phi ukungabikho kokungalungi: ukuba umntu unabesifazana abaninzi, ungumntu ongu-donjuan, indoda yamadodakazi okanye, kwimeko embi kakhulu, i-femanizer. Kwaye ukuba ithe ibhinqa linamadoda amaninzi, ihenyukazi. Ngokuqhelekileyo kukholelwa ukuba ubulili kumfazi budibaniswa kuphela nothando, kwaye sigwema konke ukunqabisa kuyo, sijonge indoda nganye njengendoda enokuthi, sinoyiko lobulili obuphezulu, siyamgweba omnye umntu. Kodwa mhlawumbi lixesha lokuphinda lihlolisise iimbonezelo? Ukuphuhliswa kobulili besini ngumxholo wethu.

Ikhululekile kwaye i-sexy

Iintlobo ezahlukeneyo zesini kunye namaqabane ahlukeneyo ngaphandle komnqweno wokuseka ubudlelwane obuqilileyo bubuninzi bamadoda amaninzi kunye namancinci amancinci. Ibhinqa lithandekile kungekuphela kwesini, kodwa kunye nohlobo lwemiboniso - alufihleli izithandwa zakhe, kwaye zivela kummandla obalaseleyo phezu kwazo - kukumnandi kakhulu ukuba uqaphele amandla omzimba wakho, ibhinqa lakho, amandla angokwemvelo phezu komntu.

Indlela yokuphatha abafazi bakhe

Abanye bazolile: "I shishini layo!" Kwaye unomdla: "Ewe, kufuneka! Xelela kakhulu! "Abantu abaninzi - abangavumiyo, bambiza i-nymphomaniac, basolwa ngokuziphatha kakubi okanye banobubele obungathandabuzekiyo bathi bafanele batyhafile kwaye banovuyo, basinda ebuhlungu bentliziyo, bafuna abathandi abatsha ekubandezelekeni, kuba engazi indlela yokwakha ubudlelwane obuhle kunye namadoda Ngokukhawuleza okanye uzibophezele, okanye ugwebe, okanye ufumane umdlavuza ekudakaleni nokungazi mntu. Kukho izizathu ezibini zobundlobongela besifazane: umona nokudidanisa ngokunyanisekileyo - "siye saxelelwa ukuba le nto ayivunyelwe!" Umfuthana omncinci womhlobo oxoxwa ngokwesondo uhamba emphefumlweni nakwabo banelisekile ngokuphila kwabo ngokwesondo: uyaziqonda into abayiphuphayo, kodwa abanako ukukwazi ukufumana, ngenxa yokuba babophelelwe zibophelelo zabo. Ndamkhwele kakhulu abafazi bakhe, ndihlala okanye ndingalalani, okanye ndingenakuvuyela kuyo. Bathi: "Umntu ongenakuzixabisa andivumeli ukuba ndihlawule ukuxhamla." Kodwa isidima saso asinakuyenza naso. Abalali nabani na, ngenxa yokuba baxakeke kakhulu ngeendawo zabo, bayesaba ukubizwa ngokuthi "abantu abahambahambayo", balindele uthando olukhulu engcwabeni, abazi ukuba bangathetha njani nabantu, baze bahlale kude nabo. Okanye wenze iimfuno eziphakamileyo kwi-intellect, imilinganiselo kunye nesineke somlingane onokwenene ongenakunelisayo. Akaze afike kubo. Bonke aba bafazi, endaweni yokuqonda iingxaki zabo, bakhetha ukugweba umntu ongenalo le ngxaki, kodwa isondo. Ukuxutywa kunye nokugatya ngesimo esifanayo sobomi besondo ngaba bafazi abakhuliswayo benza ukuba baziphathe kakubi. Bafuna ukuziva ubunzulu obungasemgangathweni kunye nococekileyo, becinga ngesondo "ishishini elingcolileyo", eliza kulungiswa kuphela ngeemvakalelo zinyani, kwaye nangona kunjalo - kungekhona kuzo zonke izikhundla zesondo. Ingakumbi ixhala kakhulu ngabantu abasebenzisa isondo njengoluhlu lwe-lasso yokugcinwa nokuqeqeshwa kwamadoda: ukuba abanye abesifazana banomnqweno wokwenene ngesondo, indoda ayiyi kufuna ukuhlala nomnye "onika" kuxhomekeka kwizenzo zakhe, kodwa uya kufumana omnye ohlala evuya . Ukunyanzelisa kuya kuba nzima. Kwaye baqinisekisa ukuba ukulala ngesondo kuphela ngenxa yokwaneliseka ngokwesondo akuphosakeleyo kwaye kuyanyaniseka. Kulula kubo ukugweba abanye kunokuba bavume ngokunyanisekileyo ukuthengisa kwabo. Ukuba uyamkela, njengokuba kunjalo, umona obuhlungu uya kuba ngaphantsi, kwaye uvuyo - ngaphezulu.

Uqikelelo lwendlela

Ukuziphatha kukaLarisa akukho nto iziphatha kakubi, kwaye akukho ngqalelo umntu onokukusola ngayo. Nangona uhlaselwa ngumsindo okanye uphuphuma ngentlungu, kodwa awukwazi ukumthiya ngehenyukazi. Akukho mthetho ongabhaliweyo woluntu owuphulaphula: indoda ethandekayo ayitshintshi ngenxa yokungabikho kwakhe, imali yesini kunye nezipho azifunayo, ngenxa yokuba ayifuni. Akukho namnye kwala madoda angamanga: uthetha ngokunyanisekileyo: "Ndiyathanda" - "Andifuni." Ngaphandle kokungabi mthethweni, awukwazi ukumgxeka: uyazixabisa kwaye ucofa ngokucokisekileyo amaqabane akhe.

Umbono weHereditary

Ngenxa yamandla okukhwabanisa ngokwesini kwabesetyhini kunye namadoda, i-hormone testosterone idibana. Kwindoda, iveliswa ngakumbi, kubafazi - ngaphantsi. Uwenza abantu bangabi ngesondo kuphela, kodwa banamandla, aqhubekayo kunye neenjongo ezijoliswe kuzo. Imvelaphi ye-hormonal yangasese iyahluke kakhulu. Elinye ibhinqa lizinzileyo ngaphandle kobulili ngonyaka. Omnye inyanga emva koko ukhuphukela eludongeni kwaye ulungele ukuhlasela umntu wokuqala ukuba awele. Iimpawu zezinga le-hormone, okanye ngaphezulu ngakumbi - uxanduva lomnqweno we-testosterone - linokudluliselwa kwintombi, kokubili kumama onomdla kunye nobaba okhulayo, ubulili bomzali abukhathazeki.

Iingcamango zempumelelo

Ngaphezulu kwempumelelo, uba sexier, kwaye kwinqanaba lomzimba, kunye nexesha elifanayo - ngokuzimeleyo ngaphezulu, obungozi kunye nesibindi. Umzimba wethu uphinde wakhiwe ukuze sikwazi ukufikelela eziphakamileyo. Kwaye ukuba umfazi udlalwa ukuba ulungile-ukhaliphile-unamandla kwaye uyamhlonela, ngoko ubulili bakhe buya kukhula kunye nokuzithemba. Kodwa gcinani engqondweni: kungakhathaliseki ukuba usebenze kangakanani, ukuziphatha ngokwesini kuya kukwanda, ukuba umsebenzi awuyi kuthokoza kunye nokuvunyelwa kwabanye, udumise kwaye umvuzo.

I-Karmic Theory

Kufuneka, kuzo zonke iziqu zethu zokuphila emhlabeni, sisebenzise ezinye iinkalo zobomi babantu. Kwaye ubukhulu bobulili obuphezulu bunikwa ukuze sikwazi ukufezekisa ubugcisa bokwenyama, thina sizithokozile onke macala kwaye sifunde ukuvuyisa abanye. Kuphela xa sizalisekisa ngokupheleleyo uthando lwenyama, isondo, siyakwazi ukufudukela kwesinye isigaba-uthando olungokomoya. Ngoko ke, ukuziphatha ngokwesini akunakunyulwa. Kufuneka nje ukwazi ukulawula. Ngamanye amaxesha ubulili obuphezulu bunxulumene nengxaki evela kwixesha elidlulileyo elifuneka lixazululwe. Ukuba wena kwisilwanyana esidlulileyo sashiya izinto ezithandekayo zenyama kwaye ulahlekelwa yiminqweno yendoda ethandekayo, namhlanje ufumana ulwabelana ngesondo ngokungenakulungelelaniswa ukuze uziva ukuba yintoni xa kungenayo isondo ngokwaneleyo kwaye ulungisa impazamo yakho.

Inkolelo yeenkwenkwezi

Ngokweenkwenkwezi zeenkwenkwezi, imfuno yethu yesondo ifutheke kakhulu kwindawo yeenkwenkwezi ekuzalweni - ngakumbi i-Venus, iMars, i-Sun kunye neNyanga. Kule miqondiso ye-zodiac, i-sexually-insistable ye-Scorpions ne-Aries. Funda konke malunga nawe kwisini kunokuba kwi-horoscope nganye, ihlanganiswe yure kunye nomhla wokuzalwa.

I-Wiccan theory

Bonke abafazi badalwe uthando. Kulo lonke ubomi, umfazi kufanele athande amadoda amaninzi, kuba aphefumlelwe ngothando lwethu kwaye athabathe kuwo amandla okusebenza, izibongo, umculo kunye nazo zonke iintlobo zobugcisa. Siyamthanda abantu ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo. Amanye amabhinqa anikwe amandla okuthandana nokudlulisela amandla kumgangatho ongokomoya. Bawela emthandweni, kodwa ngocansi bagcinwa, bahlala behlambulukile, bavuselele abantu ukudala ubugcisa. Amanye amabhinqa adlulisa amandla ngokunyamekela ngokwenyama kubantu. Bakhululeka kakhulu kwaye banike umkhululo womntu, ukukwazi ukuveza iimvakalelo zakhe. Bobabini banomdla ngokulinganayo kwaye akufanele bazinqande nakweyiphi na kwaye bayixhobise. Kwaye wonk 'ubani uya kuvuya - bobabini abasetyhini kunye namadoda.

Amadoda ngokwahlukileyo, ngesondo ngokwahlukileyo

U-Oksana waphenduka waba ngumfazi "onqabileyo" umbulelo kumyeni wakhe. Hayi, akazange afunde iTao yothando kwaye akazange adibanise intyatyambo yobundlobongela bakhe ngemizamo yobuqhawe kwintsibano yesini. Wathumela umfazi wakhe osemthethweni eJamani ukuba athathe imali yentsapho njengomphathi wehotele yangasese. Inkampani yakhe encinci yokuthengisa iifestile zefestile zefestile yatshiswa, kwaye u-Oksana, utitshala othulileyo, othobekileyo nothobekileyo wolwimi lwesiJamani, wayemele agcine indoda yakhe, intombi yeshumi kunye noninazala. Ngenxa yokunyamekela nokusebenza, ihotele yaqala ukuzisa inzuzo ngakumbi kumnini. Ngonyaka kamva uOksana waqala umthandi omncinane - unyana womnini. Kwaye ndafumanisa izilwanyana zesini. Ngomyeni wakhe iminyaka elishumi elinesihlanu yomtshato wayenemibhobho emithathu. Isenzo ngasinye sasihamba kunye nomthandi we-orgasm. Kutheni? Kwindoda yakhe yayingumntu omncinci, kwaye isithandwa sakhe sabantu besini esingazange senze ntoni kuye. Kwaye umthandi, umfana onqabileyo kwaye onamandla, owayefudula elala embhedeni ngamandla omvundla kwiibhetri, wayesabela! Emva konyaka nesiqingatha, u-Oksana wabuyela eRiga, kuba wayelithanda kakhulu intsapho. Ngokufakela umhlobo waseJamani wayenomsebenzi omuhle. Wabeka indoda yakhe phambi kweqiniso: kabini ngonyaka inyanga eLatvia kwaye idibana nomthandi wayo. Umyeni wam wamkele loo nto. Ngexeshana, u-Oksana wenza ukungahambi ngesondo kunye noogxa kwi-bathhouse yaseFinland okanye kwizifundo ezihlaziyiweyo. Akazivumi ukuzisola kwaye unelisekile ngayo yonke into. Izibonelelo zesimo sakhe: akadingeki ukuba axoke. Amadoda acinga: "Ewe, umyeni wakhe wabuya - wathumela umfazi wakhe ukufumana imali, wamnika isondo ezandleni zakhe. Kwaye ngoku-oko akufunayo! Wayengayi kundishiya-ndiyindoda yokwenene! "Kwaye abafazi bacinga ukuba:" Uyayithengisa indoda yakhe ngenxa yokuba engenzi njengendoda. " Kwaye baqikelela. Kuzo zonke, kubalulekile ukuba u-Oksana akafuni ukushiya umyeni wakhe, kuba uthanda ngendlela yakhe. Umntu: umyeni unokuvukela aze ayeke ukusebenzisana okunjalo.

Ephakamileyo isimo, ngaphezulu kwesondo

Oko kuyimfuneko ukufezekiswa kwesimo sengqondo esichukumisayo "sikhululekile kunye nesondo". Ukuzimela kwemali, ukubonakala okukhangayo kunye nokulungele kakuhle, ukukhupha umnqweno, nokuzithemba, ukuze ubekezele ngokukhawuleza ukungavumi kwamadoda enelungelo labo. Sikholelwa ukuba uhlobo olunjalo lwabesetyhini, ukuziphatha njengamadoda ngesini, kubonakala kuphela kwiintsuku zethu. Kwaye sichaza imbonakalo yakhe ngokukhululwa, okwenza kube nzima ukuxhomekeka kwisikhwama somntu, kunye nokuveliswa kweepilisi zokukhusela ezithintela ukukhulelwa ngengozi. Enyanisweni, abafazi abanomdla kunye nabasetyhini bahlala bekhona. Enyanisweni, badibanisa kwi-strata ephezulu yoluntu, kwiindawo eziphakamileyo zamandla kunye nozuko, apho uphumelele kwaye kwakungenakukucinga malunga nokokuhlala kunye nendlela yokutya abantwana. Ndiyakhumbula ukukhumbuza uCatherine oMkhulu, uSarah Bernhard, iGolda Meir, uMadeleine Albright. Kwaye ngoku, ukubonisa ubundlobongela ngokukhululekile kunye neepesenti ezilikhulu, ibhinqa kufuneka ukuba, ukuba kungekhona ukumkanikazi, ubuncinane ibhinqa, umphathi okanye umnini-mhlaba kwaye uphumelele kwimpumelelo ethile yentlalo. Wonke umntu kufuneka abone ukuba umfazi uthatha abantu bakhe ebhedini, kungekhona ngemali kungekhona ukuphakanyiswa kuluntu. Kwaye abantu baya kuwufuna, abafazi baya kuhlonipha, kwaye akukho mntu, nangona umsindo, uya kuthiwa ngumhenyuzo. Ingaba kubi? Mhlawumbi. Kodwa isebenza.

Ngubani-engqondweni, ngubani-ngenxa yobuhle

Ubulili obuphezulu bentombi yinto efunekayo yokulala ngokwesini kunye nokukwazi ukufumana ukuzonwabisa okukhulu. Yaye, yiphi indlela esicima ngayo imfuno yethu - le nto ibhizinisi lethu. Sifuna - sikhetha amahlakani ahlakaniphile. Ufuna - uxhotyiswe ngokugqithiseleyo ngaphantsi kwebhanti. Sifuna - sitshintsha izithandani njalo ngoLwesine. Sifuna-sihlala sithembekile kumyeni wethu okanye kumhlobo. Ndiyakhumbula ukuba izibalo ezinomdla zandihlasela kwiminyaka embalwa edlulileyo: ngokuqhelekileyo balala ngesondo kwaye bancinci banokutshintsha abayeni babo ngamaTaliyane abanomdla. Kutheni? Ngenxa yokuba abayeni babo abanamaTaliyane angathandekanga. Ukuba ulala embhedeni umfazi onomdla ophezulu wesondo unomntu ogxininisayo, onomsebenzi omninzi-uyakwazi ukulawula omnye umlingani kwaye ukhokele ngaphandle ngokuthobekileyo, kodwa ngokusemgangathweni kunye neentlobo zezinto ezinonophelo zokuzonwabisa.