Ngaba wakha waziva ukuba ulahlekelwe ngumntu ongazange udibane naye? Kwenzeka xa intliziyo iphosa ukuzaliswa ngothando. Ndifuna ukuhlala ndilindele ulonwabo, uthando kunye neentlanyane zam esiswini. Kukho imiqondiso echaza kwangaphambili intlanganiso yokuthandana. Khangela ngakumbi! Mhlawumbi ezinye zazo zenzeke kuwe okanye zenzeke ngoku, zibonisa ukuba uthando lusondele kakhulu.
Roma yothando
"Iimpawu ezimnandi" zibizwa ngokuba yizona zinto zichanekileyo zengqungquthela zothando. Kungekudala uthando luya kuba ntliziyo yakho ukuba:
- uzive ngephunga elimnandi, kungekufanekanga kwendawo, imeko, ixesha;
- iphunga alikho imibutho ecacileyo ngokucacileyo;
- akasayi kuphinda azizwe nguye.
Umzekelo, ngaphandle kwewindow ihlobo elifudumeleyo, kwaye kwindawo yakho yokuzikhethela kukho ukuvumba komnyaka omtsha wamagunya, iipinele nezilingo. Ngomhla weqabunga, ngokuchaseneyo, ihlaba umyezo wegadi yomthombo weentyantyambo kunye neengca zengca. Okomzekelo, kwi-pharmacy, apho ufanele uhombe njengesibhedlele kwaye ungeyinyumba, unokuvumba i-tshokoleta. Ukuba unomlilo ococekileyo, phunga ngakumbi. Le ngcaciso. Mhlawumbi, uthando luya kwenzeka kuwe ngelo xesha, kuloo ndawo okanye ngelo xesha lonyaka, elibhekiselele ngephunga elikukhohlisayo.
Uthande ngephupha
Ngokuqhelekileyo ingqondo engagqithisiyo, ekwazi ukufikelela kwimfihlo eyimfihlo yendalo yonke, ibonakalisa kumntu iimfihlelo malunga nentlekele yakhe ngamaphupha. Ulwazi malunga noluthando oluzayo luya kuza ephupheni. Iimpawu ezilandelayo zithetha ngokugqithiseleyo ngothando oluzayo: Umtshato womtshato. Akunandaba nokuba ibonakala njani phambi kwephupha - ngesimo sesipho, ukufumana, ukuthenga, njl. Kukho nawuphi na, inqaku libonisa uthando olukhawulezayo. Iziganeko ezihambelanayo kwiphupha zingabonisa imeko apho kuya kwenzeka khona, ngubani oya kunyulwa, nokuba uthando luya kuvuya. Ientyatyambo ezibomvu. Ubonisa uthando oluzaliswe ngumonde kunye neemvakalelo. Ingaba baya kuba neengxaki, nokuba ngaba uthando lweofisi ye-registry luya kubangela, kuxhomekeka kwimeko yokulala. Kodwa into yokuba iya kuba yinto eqaqambileyo, iimvakalelo ezikhunjulwayo, iziqinisekiso ezibomvu. Ientyatyambo ezimhlophe. Iikhamera, iinduli zeentlambo, iintyatyambo, i-chrysanthemums, i-gladioli kunye naziphi na izityalo ezimhlophe eziluhlaza ezimxwayisa ngokufika kothando. Njengomthetho, umbala omhlophe ubonakalisa ukunyaniseka, ukunyaniseka, ukucoceka kweemvakalelo. Xa ubona iintyatyambo ezimhlophe ephupheni, unokuthembela kwiintsebenzo ezikhokelela emtshatweni, okanye kwi-platonic uthando. Konke kuxhomekeke kubathathi-nxaxheba kwiphupha. Iintyatyambo eziphuzi. Bahlala bengabathunywa bokuhlukana othandweni, olusandula ukukwazi ukwenza. Kwakhona, lo mmbala unokulumkisa ngentlanganiso engenanto okanye umona, intukuthelo, ukungathembeki okuya kubangela ukuhluleka kokuthanda.
Inyanga. Inyanga epheleleyo, enkulu nekhanyayo ithembisa uthando olungalibalekiyo kumphuphi. Ngokukodwa inhlanhla enothando ngalabo abaphuphayo kwenyanga esibhakabhakeni esicacileyo ubusuku obuthathu ngokulandelana. Ukuba inyanga iyaqhawula okanye iwele ezincitsheni ezincinci, luphawu oluqinisekileyo lokuthandana nothando. Ukukhanyisa ikhandlela. I-candle ekhanyisiweyo yeembali zeemeko ezahlukeneyo. Uxela uthando xa ebanjwa ngumntu kwaye umema ukuba ahambe naye. Emva kokulala kunye nekhandlela, laphula iimvakalelo zakho. Iimvakalelo ezimnandi kunye nomswakama ofudumele kuwo wonke umzimba ubonisa ubungqina bokulala. Ukutshintsha indawo yokuhlala. Ukufudukela kwindlu entsha, indlu okanye nakwilizwe, kunye nemisebenzi eguqukayo, ukulungiswa, ukuthutha ifenitshala kunokunikela ubungqina kwiinguqu ebomini bakho. Ukususela kumava afunyanwa kwiphupha, kuxhomekeke ekubeni uthando luya kuvuya.
Imiqondiso ephawulekayo malunga nothando oluzayo
Abantu abazilumkileyo baye baqaphela ixesha elide ukuba ukudibana okuthile kweemeko kunokusebenza njengomqondiso kunye nomlandeleli wezehlo. Zininzi izinto ezithetha ngothando olusondelayo. Kufanelekile ukuthobela ingqalelo kwizinto ezintle kakhulu. Lungiselela ukufumana iimvakalelo zothando xa:
- zonke izihlobo, njengokungathi uceba, ucebisa ukuba ufumane unwele, ulungise kwakhona, utshintshe iinwele zakho, nangona babemthanda ngaphambili. Lo mqondiso unembali edlulileyo. Ibuyela kumasiko asendulo, xa umtshakazi washintsha ngokukhawuleza i-hairstyle yakhe ibe yomelele kwaye isetyhini emva komtshato;
- Abantu abajikelezileyo baqala ukukrokrela ngokukhulelwa okungabikho. Konke ngenxa yokuba bacinga ukuba uye waxhaswa, mnandi, ngowesifazana, uziphendulela ngamandla. Ezi mpawu zidla ngokuqhelekileyo kubafazi abakhulelweyo. Ngaloo ndlela, abantu bafunda kuwe ulwazi malunga 'nokuthwala' uthando lwomso;
- abanenhlanhla ekungcakazelweni, ngokunjalo ngenhlanhla ngothando. Ngokuqhelekileyo kwenzeka ngenxa yokuba umnqweno kunye nothando zondele ngokukhawuleza, kwaye ukuba inhlanhla ishintshile kumdlalo, umntu ufanele alindele ukuba ube nemvakalelo enkulu kunye eqaqambileyo;
- Kukho iintsimbi ezilahlekileyo. Lo ngumqondiso oqinisekileyo wokuba namava anothando oluqinileyo. Ukuba lolu luthando-uthando luphela ngomtshato, amacici, i-kulonchiki, iintambo zithembisa i-adventure engenakulibaleka;
- kukho umtya wokungaphumeleli. Umzekelo: kusasa iwashi ye-alamu ayizange ikhweze, usitshise i-blouse yakho eyintandokazi ngentsimbi, i-pantyhose edibeneyo, yaqhekeza isithende, waqhekeza imoto ngodaka oluvela kwintlambo, njl. Ngolo hlobo lweengxaki, intlanganiso enokuthi ingayilandela. Ngaphezu koko, kuba ngokoqobo xa umfazi engengomntu onobubele;
- i-apula yehla etafileni okanye yawa phantsi kwebhayisiki - uphawu oluphawulekayo kulabo abalindele uthando. Isimboli sika-Adam noEva sibonisa uthando oluzayo;
- kukho iingoma zomculo ezindleleni, umtshato ulungelelanisa, amawele amahle. Ngokuqinisekileyo, le miqondiso isebenza kwaye ilumkise ngeveli ezayo, ukuba imeko eqhelekileyo ukuba ungenanto;
- fu maneka kwinqanaba lehashe lomgwaqo. Ukufunyanwa okunjalo kukubonakalisa nje inhlanhla yemali, kodwa kubonisa uthando olumnandi.
- izinto ehambelana nothando okanye umtshato zisendleleni. Unokuqala ukukhangela ukuhlambalaza, ukuba ufumene ngengozi isimemo somtshato somnye okanye i-accessory elahlekelwe ngabantu abasandul 'ukutshata. Uqhagamshelwano lomtshato luya kuhlaywa kwaye ipinki okanye i-hairpin ifumaneka endleleni. Ukwenza uphawu lufezeke, ungawaphakamisi uze ubahambise;
- wabamba umtshato womtshakazi-uphawu oluqinisekisiweyo lweminyaka, intombazana engatshatangayo eyithandayo umtshato, oza kubakhombisa umtshato.