Ziziphi iimpawu? Umqondiso uyisiganeko xa kwenzeka kumntu owaqondakalayo ngabahlali, kodwa ekugqibeleni walahlekelwa intsingiselo yalo yokuqala. Ngokuhamba kwexesha, konke oku kuye kwaba yizilumkiso, ukuziphatha kunye nokuthintela. Uninzi lwemitshato yomtshato endala kunye nezinkolelo zijolise ekukhuseleni umanyano weentliziyo ezimbini zothando, okubhekwa njengento engcwele kubo bonke abantu beplanethi yethu.
Ngokomzekelo, ukuba kusasa ngosuku lomtshato umyeni kunye nomtshakazi okanye izalamane zabo zihlasela i-sneeze, ke le thambile. Kwakhona, imvula okanye iqhwa, eyaqala ngosuku lomtshato, ithembisa abantu abatsha ulonwabo nobutyebi.
Ukwenza umtshato ujabule, umtshakazi ucebise ukuba abeke isibuko esincinane phantsi komlambo kwintambama yomtshato, kwaye ubeke ingubo yobusuku ngapha nangapha.
Ngubani ongowokuqala oselula ukuba angene kwiselula kwi-ofisi yeRejista, esasazwa ngamangqina, uya kuba yinhloko yentsapho.
Ukuba ngethuba lomkhosi osisigxina kwi-ofisi yombhalisi, isandla esisekhohlo sasesandleni sakhe sasesandleni salo sandla sasesincinci sasixubile-ukuba sisityebi, ukuba unelungelo - indlu yakhe entsha iya kuhlala izele iindwendwe.
Abantu abaselula bayavunyelwe ukuba bafake nayiphi na imihlobiso. Zifanele zihlotshwe kuphela ngamathandana omtshato - aphephe, ngaphandle kwamatye kunye nokucatshulwa, ukuze ubomi bomtshakazi buphephe, ngaphandle kweengxaki kunye neengxaki.
Ngaphambi kokungena endlwini, abantu abatsha kufuneka baphule i-plate, kunye neofisi ye-registry-ingilazi, apho i-champagne yomtshato itywala khona. Eli nyathelo kufuneka lenze uvuyo kunye nokuchuma kwindlu esandula kutshata.
Kwindlu entsha umtshakazi umfana omncinane kufuneka afike ezandleni. Ukuba umntwana uhlala endlwini yomyeni, umkhwe nomkhwekazi baya kudibana nabasandul 'ukutshata esangweni. Umkhwekazi kufuneka anike umtshakazi ngeglasi yewayini okanye ubhiya, kwaye uninazala kufuneka afake i-pie esandula kutshanjwa kwi-hood kwaye uphonsa iigodo phantsi kweenyawo zakhe. Ikhefu elifihliweyo kufuneka litya ngokulinganayo phambi kwetafile yomtshato, iwayini okanye ibhiya - isiselo esisisigxina. Konke oku kwenziwa ukwenzela ukuba abantwana baphile ubomi babo bonke uthando, ubutyebi nokuvisisana.
Ngaphambi komthendeleko, emva komthendeleko kwiofisi yeRejistri, indoda ehlonelwe kakhulu kwintsapho kathathu ibambelela abaselula etafileni yokugcoba, ebonisa ukuxhamla kobomi obungunaphakade phakathi kwendoda nomfazi.
Ukuqinisekisa ukuba abantu abaselula bahlala benemali emakhaya abo kwaye bahlala kwimpumelelo, bafaka imbewu ezinqabeni zabo, kwaye xa bephuma kwiofisi ye-registry, bafafaza ilayisi okanye ingqolowa, bavuke i-petals, bakhuphe (bahlala ngokuvuyisana nangokuvisisanayo), iipesele kunye neengqekembe.
Ngomhla womtshato, umtshakazi kufuneka afune ukukhala, ukuba atshate wavuya.
Iintsika zomntu olala kutshitshiweyo zilala kunye neentsimbi ze-pillowcases kwicala lomnye nomnye, ukuze umtshakazi nomyeni baphile ndawonye bonke ubomi babo, konke okulungileyo.
Emva kokushiya isakhiwo se-REGISTRY OFFICE (icawa), umtshakazi kufuneka ambuyisele kuyo yonke imantombazana engatshatanga emenywe emtshatweni, kwaye alahle iindidi zeentyantyambo phezu kwentloko yakhe. Intombazana ebamba iintyatyambo iya kutshatyalaliswa kungekudala. Umyeni uphosa umgca ongekho phantsi womtshakazi ekhokelo lwabahlobo bakhe abangatshatanga. Umfana obambe i-garter uya kutshata. Ukuba ufuna ukutshata ngokukhawuleza kunokwenzeka, uya kuncedwa ngumgca kumacenge omtshato omncinci.
Imini engcono kwimitshato ngumgqibelo nangeCawa, kwaye ixesha elihle lemizuzu iyisiqingatha sesibini semini.
Awukwazi ukumisela umtshato ngomhla we-13. Kwakhona impawu ezimbi: yindandatho yomtshato eyonakalisiwe, isibuko esaphukileyo, iiglavu ezilahlekileyo, ingubo yomtshato enxibe imilenze. Zama ukungena kwi-puddle.
Abantu abaselula abakwazi ukufotwa ngokwahlukileyo emtshatweni, omnye akufanele akhiphe ingubo yomtshato kubo bonke abantu. Awukwazi ukugqoka izicathulo emtshatweni, kunye neendwanguzo (ubucwebe kuphela buvunyelwe), ungagqoki iiparele - iinyembezi. Etafileni, zama ukunyamekela, zama ukungachithi nantoni na. Kukho uphawu oludala kakhulu: ngexesha lomthendeleko, abasandul 'ukutshata kufuneka baphazamise imilenze yabo okanye babeke iinyawo zabo ngeenyawo zabo - ukuze kubomi bentsapho ikati elimnyama lingasebenzi phakathi kwabo. Kule nto, abantu abaselula kufuneka bahlale ngokungqongqo ngokusemandleni abo.
Awukwazi ukuvumela iintombi zakho zihlambe izitya emtshatweni womtshato (vumela abasebenzi bokulondoloza).
1. Umtshakazi nomyeni, xa belethwa kwibhokisi yesonto, mabambelele kwisitrato bathi: "Kwangathi zonke iintlungu nezigulane zethu zingabi kunye nathi kwisithsaba, kodwa hlalani kuwe, isinyithi sesinyithi." Kubantu babakholelwa ukuba i-iron brace idonsa zonke izinto ezimbi, zinika ikamva eliqaqambileyo kwabasanda kutshata.
2. Xa iintsimbi zagqithwa ngabantu abancinci, kwaye umbingeleli wathi: "Inceku kaThixo ityathwa ngolo hlobo," ke umyeni wayefanele awele kwaye athi: "Mna, umkhonzi kaThixo (igama), nditshatile, kodwa ukugula kwam."
3. Yiyiphi ebesandula kutshata ngexesha lekhangeli lomtshato liyakwazi ukuhlanjululwa, ngokokuqala ukuhamba ebomini.
4. Akuvumelekile ukujonga umtshakazi nomyeni ngamnye ngexesha lomtshato, kwaye ukuba bajonge (ngokukodwa emehlweni) - abayithandani okanye omnye umntu uya kuhlambalaza umtshato.
Iindwendwe akufanele zinikwe abatshangatshangayo izinto ezilandelayo: iirusi ezibomvu, iifoloko, iipuni, iimbuko, iingubo zangaphantsi. Awukwazi ukuza emtshatweni kwimpahla emnyama, uwele indlela eya kubancinci xa beya kwi-ofisi yokubhalisa okanye kwicawa. Ukuba ubona umtshato ulungelelanisa kwisitrato - kunokuba ubambe kwiqhosha - inenhlanhla.
Musa ukulibala ukuba kuya kuthatha into eninzi kwaye akunakwenzeka ukuyigcina. Khumbula, uphawu olubaluleke kakhulu lomtshato kukuba xa amehlo omtshakazi nomyeni ekhanya ngomlilo ozolileyo wovuyo, ukuba ubuso babo bubukele ngothando, kwaye yonke into ejikeleze ikhanya ngokufudumele kothando, ngoko, ngenhlanhla, akukho mqondiso iya kuba ngumqobo.