Iingcebiso ezili-10 zomtshato zesibini esitshatileyo

Ookhokho bethu, amaSlav ayengamahedeni, kwaye zonke iziganeko ezenzekayo ebomini babo zidibene nefuthe loothixo abaninzi kunye nemimoya emibi. Ngoko kwakukho izipho kunye neempawu zabantu eziye zafika ezinsukwini zethu. Kwihlabathi lanamhlanje, izinto ezininzi sele zifumene inkcazelo, kodwa ke, abanye abantu banokholo lokwenkqenkquthela into engaziwayo. Ngokukodwa xa kufikelele kwisiganeko esibalulekileyo njengomtshato okanye umtshato. Ukuphulaphula ulwazi lookhokho bethu okanye akunjalo kumntu ngamnye wethu. Yintoni uphawu?

Igama elithi "umqondiso" - ingcambu yamagama athi "inqaku, phawula," oko kukuthi, ukufumana izigqibo ngokusekelwe kwimeko. Ngoko, kulula kakhulu ukuchazela inkolelo-ze evamile: "Ukuba uhlala ekhoneni le ntombazana, akayi kutshata iminyaka eyisixhenxe." Kwimihla endala, ekhoneni letafile, bahlala bebeka iincwadana, abafazi abangenamakhaya, amantombazana ahluphekileyo, ababenzima kakhulu ukutshata kwaye ngoko. Ngokutsho kwenye inqaku, ukuba intombazana ihlutha iziqhekeza etafileni phantsi, ngoko umyeni wakhe uya kuba ngumlenze okanye umpaki. Yonke into ilula nantoni na - kwiintsuku ezindala ubudala babesele befuna iindlukazikazi ezintle kubafazi, kwaye abafazi bezindlu ezimbi baba namadoda angendawo.

Ukukholelwa ngokuyimfama kuyo yonke imiqondiso ayifanelekanga, kuba into ebaluleke kakhulu isimo sengqondo esihle. Kodwa ke, ukuba ufuna ukuphulaphula ubulumko bookhokho bethu, sinikeza imiqondiso yomtshato engu-TOP-10:

1. Ukulungiselela umtshato kuqala ngokukhethwa komhla wokubhiyozela. Kwixesha elidlulileyo, iinyanga ezinzima kakhulu zomtshato zinguMeyi, ngoMatshi no-Oktobha. Kodwa umtshato, odlalwa ngoJuni, ngo-Agasti, ngoSeptemba, ngoDisemba okanye ngoFebruwari, wathembisa umanyano ovuyisayo. Ngokwemvelo, usuku olubi kakhulu luyi-13, iintsuku ezingafanelekanga ngeveki - uLwesithathu kunye noLwesihlanu. Kwaye ngomhla we-3, wesi-5, wesi-7 nowesi-9, baphumelele kakhulu kwimicimbi yomtshato.
2. Ukuba umtshakazi nomyeni ababonwanga ngentsapho yomtshato, kwaye nangakumbi, musa ukuchitha ubusuku ndawonye - uphawu olungileyo, uthembisa umtshato ovuyayo.
3. Imimoya ngosuku lomtshato nayo ibaluleke kakhulu. Ngoko ke, ukuba imvula iwa (imvula, iqhwa, i-blizzard) - ukuchuma kunye nenhlalakahle kwintsapho. Umoya, ngokuchaseneyo, ukukhathazeka.
4. Umtshato womtshato kufuneka ube nomsindo: iimoto kufuneka zitshekishwe, ngokuqhelekileyo izikhwebu zamanxiwa zibophelelwe kumashishini (kwiintsuku zeentsuku ezidala zazisetyenziselwa le njongo). Kukholelwa ukuba izandi ezivakalayo ziloyikisa umoya omoya kunye nemimoya emibi.
5. Xa ubhaliswa okanye umtshato, umyeni nomyeni kufuneka bahambe ngokufanelekileyo kwimoto eyahlukileyo, kwaye emva komkhosi - kunye.
6. Emva komthendeleko, abasanda kutshata kufuneka baphume baphathe izandla. Kungcono, ukuba umyeni uthatha umtshakazi ezandleni zakhe. Kubalulekile ukuqinisekisa ukuba akukho mntu owela indlela eya kubancinci. Ukuba kukho ingozi, i-step step phambili ibhetele kumangqina.
7. Etafileni kubantwana bafaka iibhotile ezimbini ze-champagne, zibophelelwe ngeteksi enye, engabandakanyeki ngexesha lesidlo. Oku kuthathwa njengesiqinisekiso sokuba esi sibini asiyi kubhiyozela ukubhiyozelwa komhla wokuqala, kodwa nokuzalwa kookuqala.
8. Kwindlu yabasandul 'ukutshata babehlala bephethe indebe epheleleyo, bawabeka kwengubo yoboya evuliwe ngaphandle kobushushu, kwaye beza ngaphantsi kweengqungquthela ababephoswe ngecala. Emva koko iintengo zemali zagcinwa njengenxalenye yentsapho kwindawo eyimfihlo. Ukusela iziqulatho zeglasi kufuneka kube yinto engezantsi, kuba ayinayo iwayini ehlala eglasi, kodwa iintlungu zeentsapho.
9. Ikhekhe lomtshato lomlingane kufuneka linqunywe kunye - ngulo myalelo kwintsapho. Isiqalo sokuqala sifakwa kwisitya somtshakazi, umyeni wesibini, kwaye kuphela kubazali nakwiindwendwe.
10. Umsitho womtshato kufuneka ube rhoqo kumtshakazi, etafuleni kufuneka ufakwe kwivase phambi kwakhe. Ngobusuku bomtshato, izimbali kufuneka zibe kwigumbi lokulala. Ukuphosa i-bouquet enikezwa ngumyeni, akunakwenzeka: i-bouquet iya kukhupha umtshakazi, kwaye uvuyo luya kuhamba njengentaka. I-bouquet ifanele ithathe indawo enye.
    

Kukho imiqondiso yabantu abaninzi. Zichaphazela konke: ukulungiselela umtshato, iimpahla, iintyatyambo, amasongo kunye nezipho. Kodwa kukho uphawu olusoloko lusebenza: "Ukutshata ngenxa yothando-ukuya kwintsapho enobomi obude."

Jabule!