I-Primosta yokuqala : Ukuze uvuyiswe , umtshakazi ngosuku lomtshato kufuneka abe neinyembezi.
Njengoko uyazi, umtshato awulethi nje uvuyo, kodwa noxinzelelo olunzulu, ukulahla okuya kukunceda ukukhala, kodwa ukunyanzelisa ukuba usebenzise indlela yokuphendula ngokuzimela komzimba ukuxinezeleka akudingekile. Ngoko i-omen yezinyembezi ihlala ingumqondiso ... Emva koko, wonke umntu unendlela yakhe yokusingatha uxinzelelo, kungekhona ngokukhala.
Uphawu lwesibini : Abaselula abakwazi ukufotshwa ngaphandle komnye nomnye, mhlawumbi baya kunqumla.
Izinto zichasene. Ukuba ulandele intanda yakho yonke indawo, ngoko uya kuguga ngokukhawuleza, oku kungakhokelela ekukhawuleni. Ukongeza, apho ubona i-albhamu yomtshato apho kungekho sithombe sakho kunye nabazali bakho nabahlobo, ewe. I-albhamu enjalo iyayeka ukuba nexabiso kwaye iyaba yinto enzima kwaye ixolise.
Uphawu lwesithathu : Ukunika omnye umntu ukuba azame kumncinci wabo womtshato-ukuba anike esinye isithuba sakhe.
Kukho abantu abafana neengqondo zeengqondo abachazela le ngxaki ngale ndlela: iqabane elizayo libona intombi intombi yakhe yomtshato kwaye iyaqonda ukuba: "Andiyena yedwa, nayiphi na intombazana inokukwazi ukubamba le ndoda", kwaye iqala ukukhwele umyeni wayo kubahlobo bakhe . Akukho nto embi kule nto, into ephambili yintando yithemba indoda yakho.
Isayine yesine : Musa ukulahla indandatho ngexesha lokubhalisa nasebandleni!
Lo ngumqondiso ogqwesileyo kakhulu kunye neenkolelo ngaphambi komtshato. Kwaye nangona izizathu zokuthi kungani i-ring ishiywe kakhulu, uphando lweentlalo zentlalo lubonisa ukuba kwiimeko ezininzi umtshakazi unika ingcamango yokuba "xa ikhethi liwile - yonke into iya kuphela," kwaye ekugqibeleni inxenye. Nayi impembelelo yemisebenzi yokusikisela ngokuzenzekelayo, izazi zengqondo zithi.
Isayina yesihlanu : Musa ukutshata ngo-Meyi, ngaphandle koko uya kuba nekhulu "ukukhandleka."
Ewe, unokutshata kwenye inyanga, ukuphepha oku oku, kodwa yena ngokwakhe: iimozulu efudumeleyo, ukukhanya kwelanga kunye ne-May epholile kunamaxesha amaninzi kunamaqabunga ebusika. Kwaye, ngenxa yoko, kunye neenkumbulo, emva komtshato kaMeyi uza kuhlala ufudumele kwaye ukhanyisa. Ngoko-bonisa ukuba le ngqungquthela yinto nje yintsomi, tshatana ngoMeyi kwaye uphile ubomi obude kwaye obonwabileyo!
Isayinithi yesithandathu : Ngobusuku ngaphambi kokubhiyozela, umtshakazi nomyeni kufuneka babanjwe ngokwahlukileyo.
Kubonakala ukuba lo mqondiso wadalwa ukwenzela ukuba abo basandul 'ukutshata baza kutyhafiswa, kwaye ubusuku bokuqala bomtshato buyadlula njengoko bekufanele.
I-Seventh Qaphela : Izipho ezinkulu zemali - ukuhamba ngomtshato.
Nantsi ke yonke into iyacaca. Ngokwezibalo, ezininzi izibini zichitha izipho ezinkulu zemali xa zihamba!
Isibonakaliso sesibhozo : Ukuba ngexesha lomtshato likhangeleka kwinqanaba lesibini, akayithandi enye yesibini okanye enye iqala ukutshintsha.
Ungayiboni njani emehlweni omntu othandekayo, ukuba ungamthandi ubuhle bakhe? Ingakumbi ngexesha lomtshato?
Qaphela 9 : Awukwazi ukugqoka ingubo ngokuvuleka. Kwaye kunye nengubo emfutshane ngaphezu kwamadolo.
Into yokuba imitshato yomtshato idalwa ngamakhulu eminyaka kulabo babenobandlululo kwaye besaba ukuhlangabezana nokungaphumeleli kule mihla enhle. Mhlawumbi kwiminyaka engama-60 e-USSR kwakungenakulungele ukugqoka iingubo ezinjalo, kodwa ngoku ixesha litshintshile kwaye intsomi yafa, ingagqibekanga kwimigqaliselo yabamatshato abakhoyo.