Iimpawu kunye nezinkolelo ngaphambi komtshato

Asinakuze sithandabuze ukuba nayiphi na intombazana okanye ibhinqa amaphupha omtshato wakhe kwaye ibona lo mcimbi umcimbi oqaqambileyo kunye nandiwayo kakhulu ebomini bakhe. Uninzi lwawo luloyiko lokuba into ingahambi kakuhle. Kwaye oku kwenza abatshatileyo kunye nekamva labo bekholelwa kwiimpawu kunye neenkolelo ngaphambi komtshato. Kule nqaku, siza kuxubusha ntoni ngeempawu zobudala zomtshato ozifunayo ukuba uzikholelwe, kwaye kungenjani.

I-Primosta yokuqala : Ukuze uvuyiswe , umtshakazi ngosuku lomtshato kufuneka abe neinyembezi.

Njengoko uyazi, umtshato awulethi nje uvuyo, kodwa noxinzelelo olunzulu, ukulahla okuya kukunceda ukukhala, kodwa ukunyanzelisa ukuba usebenzise indlela yokuphendula ngokuzimela komzimba ukuxinezeleka akudingekile. Ngoko i-omen yezinyembezi ihlala ingumqondiso ... Emva koko, wonke umntu unendlela yakhe yokusingatha uxinzelelo, kungekhona ngokukhala.

Uphawu lwesibini : Abaselula abakwazi ukufotshwa ngaphandle komnye nomnye, mhlawumbi baya kunqumla.

Izinto zichasene. Ukuba ulandele intanda yakho yonke indawo, ngoko uya kuguga ngokukhawuleza, oku kungakhokelela ekukhawuleni. Ukongeza, apho ubona i-albhamu yomtshato apho kungekho sithombe sakho kunye nabazali bakho nabahlobo, ewe. I-albhamu enjalo iyayeka ukuba nexabiso kwaye iyaba yinto enzima kwaye ixolise.

Uphawu lwesithathu : Ukunika omnye umntu ukuba azame kumncinci wabo womtshato-ukuba anike esinye isithuba sakhe.

Kukho abantu abafana neengqondo zeengqondo abachazela le ngxaki ngale ndlela: iqabane elizayo libona intombi intombi yakhe yomtshato kwaye iyaqonda ukuba: "Andiyena yedwa, nayiphi na intombazana inokukwazi ukubamba le ndoda", kwaye iqala ukukhwele umyeni wayo kubahlobo bakhe . Akukho nto embi kule nto, into ephambili yintando yithemba indoda yakho.

Isayine yesine : Musa ukulahla indandatho ngexesha lokubhalisa nasebandleni!

Lo ngumqondiso ogqwesileyo kakhulu kunye neenkolelo ngaphambi komtshato. Kwaye nangona izizathu zokuthi kungani i-ring ishiywe kakhulu, uphando lweentlalo zentlalo lubonisa ukuba kwiimeko ezininzi umtshakazi unika ingcamango yokuba "xa ikhethi liwile - yonke into iya kuphela," kwaye ekugqibeleni inxenye. Nayi impembelelo yemisebenzi yokusikisela ngokuzenzekelayo, izazi zengqondo zithi.

Isayina yesihlanu : Musa ukutshata ngo-Meyi, ngaphandle koko uya kuba nekhulu "ukukhandleka."

Ewe, unokutshata kwenye inyanga, ukuphepha oku oku, kodwa yena ngokwakhe: iimozulu efudumeleyo, ukukhanya kwelanga kunye ne-May epholile kunamaxesha amaninzi kunamaqabunga ebusika. Kwaye, ngenxa yoko, kunye neenkumbulo, emva komtshato kaMeyi uza kuhlala ufudumele kwaye ukhanyisa. Ngoko-bonisa ukuba le ngqungquthela yinto nje yintsomi, tshatana ngoMeyi kwaye uphile ubomi obude kwaye obonwabileyo!

Isayinithi yesithandathu : Ngobusuku ngaphambi kokubhiyozela, umtshakazi nomyeni kufuneka babanjwe ngokwahlukileyo.

Kubonakala ukuba lo mqondiso wadalwa ukwenzela ukuba abo basandul 'ukutshata baza kutyhafiswa, kwaye ubusuku bokuqala bomtshato buyadlula njengoko bekufanele.

I-Seventh Qaphela : Izipho ezinkulu zemali - ukuhamba ngomtshato.

Nantsi ke yonke into iyacaca. Ngokwezibalo, ezininzi izibini zichitha izipho ezinkulu zemali xa zihamba!

Isibonakaliso sesibhozo : Ukuba ngexesha lomtshato likhangeleka kwinqanaba lesibini, akayithandi enye yesibini okanye enye iqala ukutshintsha.

Ungayiboni njani emehlweni omntu othandekayo, ukuba ungamthandi ubuhle bakhe? Ingakumbi ngexesha lomtshato?

Qaphela 9 : Awukwazi ukugqoka ingubo ngokuvuleka. Kwaye kunye nengubo emfutshane ngaphezu kwamadolo.

Into yokuba imitshato yomtshato idalwa ngamakhulu eminyaka kulabo babenobandlululo kwaye besaba ukuhlangabezana nokungaphumeleli kule mihla enhle. Mhlawumbi kwiminyaka engama-60 e-USSR kwakungenakulungele ukugqoka iingubo ezinjalo, kodwa ngoku ixesha litshintshile kwaye intsomi yafa, ingagqibekanga kwimigqaliselo yabamatshato abakhoyo.