Intlukwano ezintathu
Kwimijikelezo yezokwelapha kunye nengqondo, igama elithi "ukungabi namandla" lusetyenziswa. Kwimeko. Ngaloo mntu akakwazi ukuziphatha ngokwesondo, namhlanje ibizwa ngokuba yi-erectile dysfunction. Phantse wonke umntu wesithathu okhononda ngokubangelwa kweengxaki ezinje, ugqirha akayidingi. Ziyimpilo. Ingxaki nge-potency yisoloko isoloko yengqondo. Ukungasebenzi, ukuphuhlisa ngokwemeko, kudla ngokukhawuleza kwaye kusabela kwisiganeko esithile ebomini. Ukwahlukana kukuba ukunyaniseka okwenene kubonakala ngokukhula ngokuthe ngcembe kwangoko.
Ukungasebenzi kwe-Erectile yimeko apho kubakho ukunyuswa kobusuku nokusa, kukho ukuhambelana okufanayo ukujonga iifilimu zoononophala okanye ukujonga iifoto zomxholo we-orotic. Ukuba iingxaki zezesondo zendalo yendalo, impendulo eyaneleyo ayibangelwa yimifanekiso engamanyala, okanye ngokunyuka kwamazinga e-testosterone ekuseni.
Ukunyamekela kwimibala
INGXELO. I-Sexologists iqaphele ukuba kwiminyaka yakutshanje, abameli bezesondo eziqinileyo baye banakho ukunqoba ukungathandabuzeki ngamakhono abo ngokwesondo ... ngenxa yeengcamango ezingalunganga kunye neengcamango zomfazi. Ngenxa yokuthonywa ngamafilimu apho ibhinqa libubula ngexesha eligqithiseleyo, litshiza kwaye linyuka eludongeni, loo mntu ulindela ukuphendula okunjalo kunye neqabane lakhe. Kodwa ekubeni ukubonakalisa okunjalo kwe-orgasm ayikwazi ukuziqhayisa ngamabhinqa onke, indoda iyayigcina ingcamango yokuba ayikwazi ukuwanelisa. Kwaye ngoku umntu oqhelekileyo ngokwesondo ngoku uqala ukuphepha ukulala ngokwesini okanye, ngokuchaseneyo, "uphula", uqalise yonke into enzima. Kodwa kuphela njengesiphumo - ingqiqo enkulu yokungahlambuluki, kuba intloko yahamba yintloko kwaye ilahlekile.
FUNA. Ukuba uvakalelwa kukuba indoda ilindele kuwe ukubonakalisa okungaqhelekanga kwemizwa ebhedeni, zama ukumchazela ukuba i-cinema yinto yokuzizonwabisa, umboniso ongeke uhambelane nobomi. Enyanisweni umfazi, ukuba ukhululekile emva kokuphela kwesenzo sesondo, unelisekile, uzolile kwaye uzinzile. Wayefumana i-orgasm, nangona engayibonakalisanga ngokububula, ukukrokra kunye nokunyaniseka. Kuya kuba ngcono ukuba umntu uya kugxininisa kwizinto ezinqabileyo zeentlungu zakho kwaye ujonge iingxaki kunye nezenzo ezenza ube mnandi kakhulu. Iintlawulo zale nto ziya kuba ziphindwe kabini: kwaye uya kuziva iimvakalelo ezintsha, kwaye umntu uya kuphazamiseka kwingxaki yakhe ngokumiswa. Ababini abaye bakwazi ukufunda ukuba ibhinqa linokuzonwabisa ngesondo kwaye ingabonakaliswa ngobundlobongela be-orgasm, bafumana uvuyo lovulo. Indoda ayidingi ukulandela isiphumo esiyinyaniso, kwaye ibhinqa ayifanele ibonise ubuhlungu obunomdla kunye noxinzelelo.
Xhatshazwa konke
INGXELO. Kukho uluvo lokuba ngumfazi kuphela emva kokuxabana nokuhlambalaza kungekudala ngaphambi kokuba enze uthando. Ukucaciswa komntu ngokukhawuleza kobudlelwane, ngokuchaseneyo, kuya kuvuya kuphela. Mhlawumbi, ngezikhathi ezithile, kwezinye iimeko ezithile, oku kunjalo. Akunjalo nje ngaloo mizuzu xa iqabane elitshatyalaliswayo lingqubuzana nelokuba likwazi ukulala. Ngamanye amaxesha inenekazi, ukuze "lilume" indoda ekhankanywa ukuba yintloni ngakumbi, iyabuza: "Emva kokuba ulawula kunye nenkosikazi yakho, ukuba wena kunye namandla amnye akwanele kum? Ukuba ulahlekile kwaye awufumani nantoni na eyenziwe embhedeni? "Okanye ulahla ilizwi elikrakra:" Omnye uzama ukukuxelela ... "Okanye, efuna" ukukhupha "iqabane, uthi:" Ewe, uya kuphi na idatha yakho? " Ukuva ukugxekwa okunjalo, umntu akanakwenzeka ukuba avuselele umoya wakhe nomzimba. Apha, ukungasebenzi kwe-erectile kunye nokungabi namandla kuvela ngokwabo. Kungenzeka ukuba, uya kuqala ukungaqiniseki ngamathuba akhe okubhaliweyo kwaye, ngokukhawuleza, unokuziqhubela phambili ukuba akholelwe ukuba uye waba namandla.
FUNA. Kungakhathaliseki ukuba uyaphukisa njani kumntu wakho, ukuba uya kuhlala naye, ungaze ubeke indawo enobungozi kakhulu. Ukuba wenza loo mpazamo, yenza konke ukulungisa imeko: bhala incwadi yothando, yithetha amagama amathenda awaziyo kuphela. Nika umntu ukuba aqonde ukuba kuwe unona uninzi kakhulu ...
Indlela ephazamisayo
INGXELO. Ixesha lakho le-candy-bouquet liza kufikelela ekupheleni, unabantu abadala kwaye uyaqaphela ukuba uza kukhawuleza ulala embhedeni. Nina bobabini ulindele eli thuba. Kwaye kukho ukukhanya okungenakunqanda kwigumbi lokulala, umculo onokuthula, udibanisa kwaye ... akukho nto. Oku kudla ngokukwenzeka: indoda ifuna ngamandla ukulala ngesondo, igxininise ekunqobeni, ukuba ibe ngumqobo wakhe kwindlela yokuphunyezwa kwesicwangciso. Uloyiko ("andinamandla!"), Uyabaleka kwintanda yakhe.
FUNA. Kufuneka uzame ukumgcina ebhedeni. Zama ukuthetha into efana nale: "Ndiyadinwa kakhulu (ukuziva kakubi) namhlanje, masibekele." Vula iTV, khangela iifoto. Nangona unako ukukrazula iqhinga lakho, akuyi kuba nzima. Ngokukhawuleza xa umntu ephazamisa kwisidingo sokuba phezulu, yonke into ingaba yindlela efanelekileyo. I-Sexologists injalo unyango lokungabi namandla: ugqirha wenyanga uyalela ukuthintela. Ngelo xesha livunyelwe ukwenza konke okunye-ukunyanyisana, ukuwanga. Ngokuqhelekileyo emva kweveki yazo zonke iingxaki kunye nokulungiswa njengoko kwakunjalo.
Ngaba uya kuthanda ibhokhwe?
INGXELO. Uyabona ukuba intanda yakho ifuna uncinci. Kwenzekani? Kule meko, kulula ukuba uziqwalasele. Mhlawumbi unamanqatha, uyeka ukutyelela i-salon enobuhle, ujikeleze indlu ngeTekhthi elula? Ungakulibali ukuba umntu uthanda ukuthanda ngamehlo akhe, kunye ne-mascara evuvulayo kwiidama ezidiniweyo okanye iintambo ezinamafutha ezingatshitshiyo kwaye zingabi zihlanjwe iinwele - iindlela ezigqwesileyo.
FUNA. Zama ukuzijonga ngokwaso kwisibuko. Awunakulibala indlela owagcina ngayo, wembethe xa ufuna ukuphumeza le ndoda. Ngoko, yintoni umehluko phakathi kwakho kunye nomhla, namhlanje? Jonga imifanekiso apho ukhona ekuqaleni kobudlelwane. Zenzele ukulungela ngokupheleleyo ukulwa kwaye ungaphinde uchithe.
Uphahlile malunga nobomi ...
INGXELO. Uye wenza uthando kwiminyaka emininzi kwiintsuku ezithile zeveki, ngeyure enye, uyazi apho umyeni wakho uya kubanga kuqala, apho uya kukhwaza khona kamva. Uyiphendula ngentshukumo efundwayo efanayo. Ngokomgaqo, bobabini nisuke nidinwe yinto ebizwa ngokuba "ukuzalisekisa umsebenzi wokutshata" - ukuxhalaba, kungekho mvakalelo, ngaphandle kwembonakaliso engalindelekanga yesifiso kunye nesisa. Kodwa kubonakala kuwe ukuba kuyimfuneko kumyeni wakho, usebenzisa ukucinga ukuba isondo kufuneka. Yaye ukuba ubuhlobo obusenyongweni buyabhubha ebomini bakho, kuqala kokubili uvakalelwa kukuba ukhululekile. Kodwa ngolunye usuku umnqweno uvela, umyeni wenza umzamo wokwenza uthando, kwaye ... akakwazi ukukwenza. Nonke niyikrokra: "Yintoni eya kuthetha ntoni?"
FUNA. Ukuhlaziya, ukuxhaswa ngesondo kwikhokelela ekupheleni kweminqweno. Akuyimfuneko ukuzisa le meko kwindawo ephambili. Ayikho into enomdla kunokuba ungalindelekanga, ukuzithemba. Sitshintsha i-entourage, apho uthanda khona, ukukhanyisa, ugqoke ngaphantsi kweengubo zangaphantsi, kungakhathaliseki ukuba yiyiphi na imeko ayibonakali phambi kweqabane elikhuphayo kuzo zonke iindawo zokuhamba. Shintsha indawo (kungekho igumbi lokulala, kodwa, umzekelo, i-carpet ephantsi kwigumbi lokuhlala), ixesha, iimeko. Nika ebomini bakho indawo kunye nobulili "ngokukhawuleza," kunye "nocotha, gourmet." Ukuba umntu akayi kufa ngokupheleleyo kwiqabane lakho, uya kuphinda abuyele "ekungenasiphelo."
Ukulala ngokwesondo
INGXELO. I-Erectile i-dysfunction ingenzeka kumntu xa ehlala ejongene nokukhathala kwexesha elide, i-nedosypaet engapheliyo, ihlala exinzelelekile kwengqondo, ijongene neengxaki ezininzi emsebenzini. Ngokutsho kweengcali, kukho into enjalo "njengesifo somphathi" - kunye nomsebenzi wesondo ulwaphulwa ngowokuqala kwaye ubuyiselwa kwindawo yokugqibela. Ekuqaleni, kukho ezimbalwa iingxaki ezincinane zokwakhiwa, nantoni na ezayo engqondweni, nje ingacingi ngesondo. Emva kwexesha, kuba nzima ukufikelela ukulungela ukulala. Ukuba indoda ayikwazi ukulala ngesithuba seenyanga ezintandathu, umzimba ungangena "kwimo yokulinda". Inkqubo yokukususa kweli lizwe lide kakhulu kwaye ixesha lidla.
FUNA. Ngethuba lolo hlobo umthwalo emsebenzini, abafazi maxa wambi baya kwisigqibo sokulala ngokwahlukileyo. Musa ukwenza oku! Ukuba indoda kunye nomfazi balala ebusuku etaweni enye, isondo senziwa nangona 'bengayilungisi'. Ewe, umyeni wakho udiniwe, akalalanga ngesondo, kodwa ngenxa yokuhlambalaza okucothayo mhlawumbi akayi kuyeka. Kwaye ke umcimbi wethekhnoloji. Ungathi: "Ndiyaqonda ukuba ukhathele kakhulu. Ngaba ucinga ukuba ndiyakunceda? "Qala ukukhathazeka. Uninzi kunokwenzeka, uya kujoyina.
Syilrome
INGXELO. Isifo salo mkhumbi sichaphazela abantu, umsebenzi wabo uquka ukungabikho kwekhaya elide. Xa umntu ehlala ethembekile kumfazi wakhe onke, umzimba wakhe uphoqeleka ukuba uvimbele ukuveliswa kwehomoni yesondo. Kule nkalo, umntu unemiqondiso ye-erectile dysfunction xa ebuyela kumfazi wakhe othandekayo.
FUNA. Zama ukuzikhumbuza ngawe kwithuba lokuqala. Mbize indoda xa engasondeli, tshilela ukuba uyamthanda njani kwaye ulahlekelwa njani. Ndixelele ukuba ulindela ukuba abuyele, unomdla kangakanani, indlela ophupha ngayo ukuba usondele kuye. Sebenzisa "isondo ngeseshoni" kunye naye. Iimvakalelo ezimnandi ezinxulumene nelizwi lakho, ziya kugqitywa kwi-subconscious yakhe kwaye ngokukhawuleza zinike ukuphuma ngokukhawuleza xa uzifumana kunye.
Ukoyika umfazi
INGXELO. Umfazi utshela iqabane lakhe ngokucacileyo indlela enzima ngayo ukuzala, yiziphi iingxaki ayenayo kunye nokuya kwakhe kwindoda, yintoni eyayingumvuthwandaba wakhe kwisibeletho sakhe. Ngoko, umzekelo, uyayilumkisa indoda ukuba uyayilumkisa njengoko kunokwenzeka, ngenxa yokuba awuwamukeli i-contraceptive (unokufumana amanqatha!), Uloyiko lokukhupha izisu, kodwa awufuni ukuzala. Emva koko uyazibuza ukuba kutheni indoda igcina kude nawe. Amalungu amaninzi wesini esomeleleyo ayesaba kakhulu into enxulumene neengxaki zentsholongwane nempilo yabasetyhini. Bayazi kakuhle (kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo) besaba ukulimaza umfazi. Olu loyiko lubulala naluphi na umnqweno wokwenza uthando kuye. Ixesha lo-dysfunction erectile kunye nokungabi namandla, apho kungekho mmahluko kulo mzekelo. Isiphumo sinobubele. Amanye amadoda, ngendlela, nje uloyiko lokuba le nto ayiyi kubuhlungu kwaye ayikhathaze ububini bakhe.
FUNA. Akuyimfuneko ukuxoxa ngeenkcukacha zomzimba kunye nendoda. Yenza ugqirha enze oku. Zama, ngokuchaseneyo, ukugxininisa ukuba indoda kunye nowesifazane bayadalwa kunye kunye nesondo kuya luncedo kumabini omabini.