Abaninzi abasetyhini banesizathu esisodwa sokukhalaza ngokungabikho kwengqalelo ehlawulwe kuyo. Ukungabikho kwabasetyhini kuzo zonke izizathu kubangelwa ukuba umntu uqala ukuva ubunzima ngaphezu kwakhe. Ngaphezu koko, ukuba ibhinqa ayichazi kuye isizathu sokuziphatha okunjalo. Emva kwexesha, umphumo unokuthi umntu uqala ukufuna induduzo kwezinye iindawo, ngokukodwa nabanye abafazi. Kwaye uqala ukuzibuza ukuba wenzeni xa abafazi besoloko beyeka.
Intloko igula . Amagama anjalo mhlawumbi aqhelekileyo kubasetyhini, xa, ngokuxubha isandla kumntu, ubonise okokuqala kunoma kukuphi ukukhankanya ngesondo. Nangona intloko ingase ibe yinto eqhelekileyo njengoko ibonakala ngokuqala. Iyakwazi ukuvela kwinto yokuba umfazi usebenza ngokugqithiseleyo emsebenzini okanye uhlala ejongene neengxaki zokusebenza. Ukususela kumbono we-physiology, kunokuthiwa loo mfazi wayenqabileyo ngokuzithandela amayeza angcono kunye nesebenzayo. Kukwabelana ngesondo kunokukhawuleza kwaye kungabuhlungu ukuphelisa intloko enjalo ngenxa yokukhululwa kwamahomoni, okwenza ukuba unciphise intlungu. Emva koko, izazinzulu ziye zafika ekugqibeleni ukuba ubudlelwane bezocansi akunokuba luhlobo lonwabo kuphela, kodwa lunokuqinisa amandla omzimba omzimba obuthathaka. Kwaye kulufanelekile ukuba siqaphele kukuba inkqubela emininzi yokulala ngokwesini ayinakukhokelela kuphela kwintlungu, kodwa ibenokubangela ukuba i-migraine iqhube. Ngoko, ukuba indoda inomnqweno wokunyamezela umfazi wayo, ungamlahli. Emva kwakho konke, nangona kungenasiphelo, isondo sinokusebenza kuphela, oko kukuthi kuya kubakho kwimpilo yabasetyhini.
Ndifuna ukulala . Ezinye zabasetyhini abalahla ngesondo babhekisela kwintloko, kunye nabanye ukuba bakhathele kakhulu kwaye bafuna ukulala. Ewe, ewe, ukusilela kokulala kungaba sisizathu esihle sokuba nesimo sengqondo esifanelekileyo sowesifazana, esichaza ukungafuni ukubandakanyeka kwiindawo zokulala kunye nomthandi wakho. Kodwa oku kunokukunceda kuphela iqabane lakho, uya kukwazi ukuphumla kunye nokunyamezela nge-caresses kunye nokunyamekela, apho kwikamva elizayo liza kuvelisa imfesane yasendle kuzo zombini. Mhlawumbi, mhlawumbi, loo mntu uya kufuneka enze imizamo enzima ukuze ngandlela-thile avuselele ubuhle bakhe bokulala. Kodwa umphumo wokugqibela newunqwenelekayo ufanelekile loo migudu eqhubekayo. Emva koko, umthandi onombulelo uya kuvuya kuphela ngumfazi wakhe othandekayo. I-negative negative emva kwesini esilungileyo iya kuba kuphela iipilisi zokulala ezongezelelweyo. Ngoko ubuthongo obuhle, obuqinileyo nobumnandi emva kobusuku obunjalo, unokuthi, unikwe, kunye nokuvusa kancinci.
Kukho isizathu esihle . Oogqirha okwangoku abanalo uluvo olufanayo malunga nokulala ngesini kwiintsuku ezibalulekileyo kwisiqingatha sesibini sabemi. Nangona abaninzi abantu besifazane bayazikhanyela ngokwenene le mihla. Yaye isimo esinjalo sinokuqondwa kwaye samukelwa njengengqiqo. Kodwa ke akukho nto inqatshelwe, kwaye oku kamva kubasetyhini abathile bavusa isifiso kunye nefantasy yokufumana ezinye iindlela zokufumana ukuzonwabisa ngendlela engavamile. Kukho uluvo olungileyo ngokungayeki kwisini kwiintsuku ezibalulekileyo zabafazi. Ngaloo ndlela, ezinye izazinzulu zifika kwisigqibo sokuba ukunyuka kwesifuba sebhinqa ngexesha lokuya esikhathini kunokuncedisa ukunciphisa ukuvakalelwa okubuhlungu. Ngoko kuyafaneleka ukuba sicinge ukuba ngaba kuyimfuneko ngokwenene ukuyeka ukulala ngokwesini kubafazi.
Imvakalelo embi . Esinye isizathu sokungafuni ukulala ngesantombazana. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, kuyacaca ukuba ebusweni beengxaki ezithile emsebenzini okanye ekhaya, iingxaki zasekhaya okanye iingxaki ezincinci, ibhinqa lingahlaselwa ngokuthe ngqo. Amanye amantombazana aqala ukukhangela izisombululo kulezi ngxaki ekudleni okomnandi okanye ekubukeni ifilimu yomculo. Okanye umele ufune ukuzama ukulungisa ingxaki ngesimo esibi nomyeni wakho othandekayo ngoncedo lwe-massage erotic, ukukhohlisa umntwana okanye into ethile? Yintoni ekugqibeleni ingakhokelela kwisini esingafaniyo nesingalindelekanga.
Ibhinqa eliqala nje ukucima isithandwa sayo kwisithandwa sayo kunye nazo zonke iintlobo zezizathu zokuzibangela iqala ukuhlukana naye. Ukuziphatha okunjalo kunokuzipholisa zonke iimvakalelo ezishushu. Yaye ukufuphi akukwazi nje ukunika ingqiqo yokhuseleko kunye nenkxaso, kodwa inokukwazi ukuhlangabezana nazo zonke iintlobo zeengxaki.
Ngenxa yentukuthelo . Kwakhona kwenzeka ukuba umhlobo wakho ukhubekile ngandlela-thile, kuba akukho nto inqwenela ukwabelana naye ebhedeni. Okanye umntu wakho wenza into engalunganga, njengoko ungathanda. Kodwa kukho nawuphi na umzekelo, unokufumana enye indlela, kwaye kunengqiqo ukucacisa kuye isizathu sokucaphuka kwakho. Emva kwakho konke, indoda ayinikezwa ukucinga okanye ukuziva intuitively, njengoko phantse bonke abesifazana abanako, oko akwenzileyo okanye akubi. Kufuneka bathethe iinkcukacha ezithile, banikele imizekelo, bachaze ngeminwe yabo yonke into abangayiqondiyo ngaphandle kwenkcazelo. Imfihlelo yokufihla izikhalazo kunye nokutshiza kumntu othandekayo. Kwaye ukugqiba, emva kokufumanisa ukungaqondi kakuhle, ungabhema nombhobho woxolo, igama elingacingelwa kunye kunye, ngelixa inxaxheba kwingxoxo yayo enamandla kwibhedi yentsapho.
Ubundlobongela kunye nabasetyhini kufuneka kube ngokubanzi kwaye kuya kuba nako ukunceda abo bobabini abalingani. Ungazicwangcisi ngesizathu esinye okanye esinye, kuba isisombululo esingcono kunokuba ulwalamano nothando nomntu oyifunayo, akunakwenzeka. Thandanani nantoni na.