1. I-pedant
Bonke abantu abaqhelekileyo bajwayele ukubeka isisitye malunga nombhede, beshiya izitya ezingahlambulukanga, baphonsa iingubo ezijikeleze indlu kunye nokunye. Nokuba sasingayithandi njani nawe, ntombazana endiyintanda, sichasene nayo ingenamandla. Nangona kunjalo, kukho nabo benza konke okuchaseneyo. Benza ngokucophelela yonke into, balandele umyalelo kwaye bahlambe ngokugqibeleleyo isentimitha nganye phantsi. Kwaye kubonakala ngathi le nto ilungileyo. Kodwa khawucinge ngolu hlobo, okhethiweyo wakho, ongenangqiqo kwaye ophumelelayo, phakathi kwefuthe uqala ukususa ngokucokisekileyo impahla yakhe kwaye umxhomeke kwi-hangers, endaweni yokumphonsa phantsi uze uqhubeke nokujongana nawe. Xa ukungafihlisiyo kwakhe kukukukhathaza. Amadoda asePedantic akhathaza ngokukhawuleza abasetyhini. Ziyakulinganiswa, musa ukwenza iziphukuphuku, kwaye ngenxa yoko, ziyakhathazeka. Ngoko, maantombazana, bhetele uqaphele loo madoda.
2. Umntu onobuqili
Ngamanye amaxesha ngamanye amaxesha umntu uvila. Oku kuqhelekileyo, ngakumbi kubantu. Kodwa abanye abameli besilisa banesilonda ngohlobo lwabo. Bahlala bevela emsebenzini baze bazenzele ukuba banxibile kakhulu kwaye abanamandla kuwo. Ngenxa yoko, bawela nje kwi-sofa, vula iTV kwaye ulindele intombazana ukuba izise ukutya, ihlambuluke, ihlambulule izicathulo, ihlambe kwaye itye iilebhu. Amadoda anjalo awaxhatshazwa kukuba nabo baphuma bekhathele emsebenzini, bema emgceni esitokisini, bathatha umntwana kwi-kindergarten, bema esitofu kwaye babengenayo ithuba lokuhlala phantsi usuku. Abafana banokubuza ukuba ubuze isizathu sokuba ukhohlwe ukuthenga ukugcina ityuwa, nangona bafumana amapakethi amathathu okutya. Kwaye ukuba kukho into ephuka phantsi kwendlu, akunakwenzeka ukuba iya kulungiswa. Abantu abanjalo banokuthiwa "izidumbu". Ngoko ke, amantombazana, nangayiphi na imeko, awanxulumani nobomi bakho nabantu abadala.
3. I-Workaholic
Xa umntu enika intsapho yakhe, uletha imali endlwini, iyamangalisa kwaye iqhelekileyo. Kodwa xa umntu enika lonke ixesha lakhe ukusebenza, ukubeka kuqala nokulibala malunga nosapho lwakhe - okuqhelekileyo. Ngokuphindaphindiweyo, xa umfazi eqala ukuthetha ngale ndoda, wenza izizathu kwaye azame ukumduduza ngezithembiso: oku okwethutyana, oku kusesikweni kweholide, de ndiyibuyisele mboleko mboleko ndide ndiqokele imali njalo njalo. Oku kufanele kuphawule ngokukhawuleza, ntombazana. Kuba kuya kuba kubi nakakhulu. Umthandi wakho uza kuthatha ibha phezulu kwaye anike ixesha elide lokusebenza. Ngako oko, ngaphambi kokuba utshate ibhizinisi, indoda enomdla onesandla esilungileyo, cingisisa, kwaye uya kuvuyiswa kulo mtshato? Emva koko, ukukhawuleza, awuyi kuba nexesha elaneleyo.
4. Umrhwebi
Amadoda amaninzi akholelwa ukuba isithembu kuba yinkqubo yendalo. Kodwa nangona kunjalo, abanye bavala amehlo abo kwisimo sethu kwaye baya kwi-ofisi ye-registry. Bazibophezela ukwabelana ngokuvuya kunye nosizi babo bonke ubomi babo. Kodwa izithembiso, njengomthetho, azenziwanga emva komtshato. Kwabazalwana abathile, kunzima ukulahlekelwa inkululeko yabo, ngoko baya kugijima umntu othile kwicala. Ukuba ufumanisa ngale nto, ngokukhawuleza uqala ukucinga ukuba yimpazamo, ukuba oku akuyi kuphinda kwenzeke kwakhona, ukuba nguwe kuphela onomona. Kodwa njengokuba kukho ukubonisa, yonke into iyaziphinda. Ngoko ke, ukuba ufundile ukuba utshintshile wakho umthandayo, ngaphandle kokungabaza, ushiye kuye. Ekuqaleni okanye emva kwexesha uya kutshintsha kwakhona.
5. Umkhohlisi
Bonke abantu bayakhohlisa. Kodwa ngenxa yesinye isifo soqobo, imania. Umkhohlisi unokuchitha iiyure ukuxelela ubugcisa bokubhala ibali, engazange akwenze. Okanye usebenza kwisifundo esikhulu kunye nokunye. Ngokukhawuleza, ekugqibeleni, akunakwenzeka ukuba uya kukwazi ukuqonda ubuqhetseba, kodwa ekuhambeni kwexesha kunokwenzeka ukuba ikhabhinethi enkulu i-komorka encinci, kwaye uhambo luyidolophu engummelwane. Ngoko ke, ngokukhawuleza xa wenza ukuba ukhohlisiwe, kungcono ukushiya umntu onjalo.
6. Amadoda omama
Abasetyhini abaninzi, bedibana nomntu onjalo, bakholelwa ukuba esi siyisipho sangempela sexesha elizayo. Kodwa musa ukukhawuleza ukufumana ezi zigqibo. Iintyatyambo, ukuncoma, iimpawu-abafazi abazalwa ngokuzalwa bazi indlela yokwenza umfazi abe nomthandane naye. Kodwa iincwadana ezinabantu abanjalo zihlala zifutshane kakhulu. Olu hlobo lwamadoda lungaba lwabo kuphela kwaye alukho omnye. Kukunzima ukulahlekelwa isisindo. Baya kushiya ngokungalindelekanga njengoko babonakala. Ngoko ke, qaphela, amantombazana ayingcwele.
7. Ukuzidla
Sonke maxa wambi siqhayisa. Kwaye abaninzi abantu besifazane bakholelwa ukuba ukuzikhukhumeza kwamadoda kuyimisipha emva kokuba bafihla umphefumlo wabo osengozini. Kodwa kwiimeko ezininzi akukho nto. Enyanisweni, abantu babonakala. Umntu oqhayisayo akayi kukujonga ukuba ulinganayo. Uya kuhlala ebonisa okulungileyo kunakho nabanye. Ngabantu abanjalo kunzima kakhulu. Emva kwakho konke, uya kufuneka uzibeke kwisicwangciso sesibini, ukuba ufuna ukugcina umntu onjalo. Kodwa thina simantombazana, amadoda kufanele asithande kwaye asinikeze ukuncoma, kungekudala.
8. "Umntu Ombi"
Izindlu ezinonophelo, ukuhlwa okulumkileyo, ukuhlala kunye - konke oku akuko "ngabafana ababi". Baya kuvuyela ukuya kwiklabhu, baya kunxila kwinkampani enomsindo. Ukuzonwabisa okungavumelekanga yintoni abayifunayo. Ekuqaleni kuya kuba mnandi kunye nomntu onjalo, kodwa akufanele ubale ubuhlobo obunzulu naye.
9. Ihlazo
Amadoda alolu hlobo ahlala athiwa onyana boomama okanye abazingeli. Kamva, xa benomfazi, baba ngumgcini. Ukuphela kwesinye isandla sinobubele obuhle, xa umntu ezalisa zonke iimfuno zethu. Kodwa ngakolunye uhlangothi, ntombazana, cinga malunga nokuba kulungile ukuqala ulwalamano kunye nokunganakuziphendulela, amanyathelo amancinci kunye nabantwana abangenakucala. Emva koko, abafana ngokuchaseneyo kufuneka benze ubomi bethu bube lula, bukhanyise, bumnandi. Kwaye kulo mzekelo uza kufuneka ukwenze ukwaneliseka, kwaye izigqibo ezibini zihlala zithathwa kusasa okanye emva kwexesha.
10. Nwabisa
Abasetyhini abaninzi banjengegay gay. Kulula ukuthetha nabo, bahlala bekwazi ukugcina ingxoxo kwaye abayi kutyhafaza. Abantu bakhangwa kubo. Kodwa, ngelishwa, umnqweno wokuhlala uhlekisayo unokufihla ukuvakalelwa. Njengomthetho, abantu abonwabileyo banokungathembeki. Njengomphumo wokuqalisa ubudlelwane nomntu onjalo, uya kufumana iingxaki ezininzi. Ngaba uyazifuna?
Kule nqaku ndakuxelele ngeentlobo eziqhelekileyo zamadoda enokubaluleka kuzo ukuphepha ubudlelwane obukhulu. Kodwa nangona kunjalo, ukhetho luya kuba lenu. Ngoko ke, ndinqwenela ukuba ufumane umntu onjalo onokukuthanda, kwaye ngubani oya kulungela kuwe naziphi na izenzo ngenxa yakho.