Ukudimazeka.
Mhlawumbi oku kungendawo embi engenzeka. Kwenzeka ukuba ukutshatyalaliswa ngokukhawuleza kwintsikezelo kumniki-mlingani omthembisayo, ongayifumaniyo. I-penis encinci, isenzo esifutshane sesondo, ukunyakaza okungahambi kakuhle, kunye nemilenze engenakuphulukiswa - nayiphi na into inokudanisa. Emva koko kukho ukuzisola kunye netyala, kuba ukuba konke kwahamba kakuhle, kwakungekho enye inkumbulo enomdla, nangona kungenayo enye into onokuyenza ngayo ngokulula kwiidlo.
Akukho ndawo.
Ukuqhagamshelana okungaqhelekanga akukaze kube ngexesha. Akunakulungele ukulungiselela oku. Kwakhona kwenzeka ukuba uye kwidlo lesidlo sasemini, emva koko ufumene etaweni enye kunye neqabane lomqhubi. Okanye ufumana umntu onomdla xa ubanda. Kodwa uninzi lwazo zonke ihlazo ukuba ubulili buvela kwiindawo ezingenakucingwa. I-Toilet kwiqela, uthengisa epakini, enye indawo yokuhlala, ufunde, uqeqesho lwesigidi-million. Kwaye ngamnye kubo unako.
Ukuhleka.
Phakathi kwezinye izinto, ukunxibelelana ngokungaqhelekanga kukufumanisa ukuhleka. Ukuba wakwazi ukuhamba kunye nomfo ngaphandle kokuba uqaphele, ngoko umkhwa wokuthandana lula ungakhokelela ekwenzeni ukuba wonke umntu uyazi malunga nokufikeleleka kwakho - abahlobo, abagqubuzayo, oogxa nabo, nabamelwane kunye nezihlobo. Ubomi obusondeleyo-obusoloko buvuselela iinqwenela, ngoko abathandi bokuthintana ngokungaqhelekanga bahlala bebona iilwimi ezibukhali zabantu abazungezile. Kwaye kuwonakalisa kakhulu idumela.
ZeMpilo.
Into enyanyekayo enokuthi yenzeke kwiimeko ezinjalo kukungabikho kwekhondom. Sekude kwaziwa ukuba iAIDS nezinye izifo ezininzi azigcinwa ngamakhandlela kunye namacwecwe, kwaye ukukhuselwa okuthembekileyo kuyimfuneko. Kodwa ngamanye amaxesha inzondo igxininiswa yizwi yengqondo, emva koko iiveki zamava kunye noloyiko luza.
Impilo ingcono ukuba ingathathi ingozi, ngokuqhelekileyo ukulala ngesondo ngokungafanelekanga akufanelekanga ukwenzela ukuba ume emgceni wokungena kwi-venereologist. Eyona nto iqondakalayo kukuba ukulahlwa ngokwesondo, ukuba kwakungekho ikhondom esandleni.
Ngentsasa.
Kunzima kakhulu ekuseni xa uvuka kwindlu yowomntu kunye nomfokazi. Uhlobo lwentlungu ephikile kwindawo ethile, ukusuka kwintshiseko yesikhashana kungekho mkhondo, kwaye ukhawuleza ukusebenza okanye ekhaya. Kodwa kuninzi, ukuba umthandi wezolo, ogama lakhe ukhumbula ngalo ubunzima, lilele kumbhede wakho. Ufanele uvuke, uxolise, ushiye okanye ushiye. Uya kucela inombolo yefowuni emsebenzini, kwaye uya kulala ngokupheleleyo kwiidijithi ezimbini zokugqibela. Ingomso oye ubonakalisayo-kwaye ingaba zonke ezo zifanelekile loo mihlatshelo?
Ungakuphepha njani ikhonkco?
Izixhumanisi ezingaqhelekanga zishiya iimvakalelo eziphikisanayo. Nangona ubusuku buphumelele, kusasa, uhlala uhlala kwindawo yokuhlamba ixesha elide. Uza nezizathu ezininzi zokuzithethelela kwaye uthembisa ukuba awuyi kubuya.
Ukuze iimeko ezinjalo zingabuyaphindi, musa ukuzikhangela. Musa ukusebenzisa kakubi utywala kwiinkampani okanye kwiiklabhu, ungavumelani ukuchitha ngokuhlwa kunye nabantu abangaziwayo, musa ukuphazamiseka.
Ukuba uzama ukulawula amandla akho ekufumaneni iqabane elihlala ixesha elide, oko kwenzeka ukuba ukuxhamla ngokungaqhelekanga kuya kutshabalala ebomini kwedwa.
Kungakhathaliseki ukuba imilinganiselo engqongqo yemilinganiselo yokuziphatha, ebomini bekuye kube yindawo yokuxhamla. Ekuqaleni amadoda kuphela ayesona oku, kodwa ngoku kwenzeka nakwabasetyhini. Ngamanye amaxesha ulwalamano olunjalo alulimazi, ingakumbi ukuba unethamsanqa kunye nomlingani, isondo sasikhuselekile, kwaye akukho mntu wayesazi ngako. Kodwa kwiimeko ezininzi kufuneka kube nesizathu esiya kukuzisola ngaso. Kungakhathaliseki ukuba kuyimfuneko ukuzongeza iingxaki ngokwazo - wonke umntu uyasombulula.