Ukwabelana ngesondo ... Ubuninzi obufihliweyo kweli gama. Emva kokudliwanisa nabahlobo bam, ndafika kwisigqibo sokuba abaninzi abantu badibanisa ngetangatye, inzondelelo, imfihlelo, isifiso esivuthayo kunye ne-cocktail of fantasies. "Nguwe owona mkhulu kwihlabathi!" Mhlawumbi ukunconywa okungcono umntu angathi kumfazi, kuba uyayithanda ukuba uyamkeleka. Kwaye ukuba indoda ifuna ibhinqa, ngoko ikulungele ngenxa enkulu yintanda yakhe. Ngaba asilo nto esiyikhumbulayo ngamanye amaxesha, bafazi abathandekayo? Ndive ngathi unkulunkulukazi emehlweni abantu.
Okokuqala, kufuneka uqonde ngokucacileyo ukuba isini isini. Isichazamazwi sinika inkcazo: "Ukuziphatha ngokwesondo kukuyindlela esibhekana nayo kwaye sizibonakalise njengomntu wesini esithile." Ukuziphatha ngokwesondo akufihliwe ndawo kwindawo ehlukeneyo, eyincinci yengqondo. Ezinye iinkalo zobomi, kuzo zonke iintlobo zabo, zifumana indawo yazo kuyo.
Ndingathanda ukongeza ukuba ubulili ngumdlalo, umgca ococekileyo phakathi kokungqinelana kunye nokuthintela. Ukuba awuzivuleleli kwihlabathi, uyisigxina, ukuba kukho ezininzi ukunyaniseka, ungumoni; ngoko kuyimfuneko ukhethe indlela eyahlula kwi-hermit, kodwa ayiyi kuba ngumoni.
Isinyathelo sokuqala endleleni yokulala ngokwesimo sengqondo. Owesifazane othembekileyo kuphela onokuyithandana (ukuba unomfazi othobekileyo onamahloni, onamandla akhe, aphantsi kobunjwa be "Via Gry", ngoko ke, kunokwenzeka ukuba lo ngumdlalo onomsebenzi). Ukuba ukuzithemba kukuyi-disorder, ke siya kuphakamisa.
Okokuqala, cwangcisa iingcinga zakho malunga nawe. Emva koko uye kwimbono yabanye ngawe: khumbula konke - kunye nokuncoma, kunye neengxelo. Ukugxeka akukwazi ukuphathwa ngenyameko, kusinika ukutya okucingayo kwaye kuvulwe indlela yokuphucula ukuzimela. Iingcamango ezisemgangathweni zibhetele, ngokuqinisekileyo, ukubhala phantsi, kuba ephepheni iingcinga zikhangeleka ngokucacileyo nangokugqibeleleyo. Ingcamango yesibini, eyona nto kufuneka ihlale engqondweni yakho: "Yintoni endiyiyo ukudala umfanekiso wesondo?" (Ngokufutshane nakwizinto.)
Umzekelo: "Ndinomfanekiso ohlukileyo, kodwa isisu sam asisicaba."
Impendulo: "Bhinqa umshicileli nsuku zonke kwaye wenze inkxalabo ekhethekileyo kweli qela lemihlunu."
Ngaloo ndlela, sinobunzima beentsilelo, sigxininisa kwiimpawu kunye nokwandisa ukuzithemba. "Njengoko ndachitha ixesha elininzi kum, kuya kufuneka kubekho utshintsho!" - kwaye amehlo aqala ukubonakala ukhanyisa. Kule meko, ndiyakuncoma ngento yokuba uthathe isinyathelo sokuqala nesinzima kunendlela yokuziphatha ngokwesondo. Iibhonasi ezongezelelweyo, oza kuziqhelanisa ngokukhawuleza, ziya kugxininiswa ngabantu-into engayi kunconywa kunanoma yiphi ubudala.
Kukho, nangona kunjalo, iziphene esingazilungisi, kwaye ngoko kufuneka simkele thina njengathi. Yaye ungadikibala; Iingaphelelo ezincinane zingaguquka zibe ziziqhamo kwaye zenze ube mnandi ngokugqithiseleyo. Umfazi ongafezekanga kuphela onokulala ngesondo, khumbula oku!
Elinye iqhinga: yonke imihla uqala ngokuthi nguwe-kakhulu, kwaye kwixesha elizayo ukubonakalisa kwisibuko kuya kutshintsha. Uyakhumbula i heroine ka-Irina Muravieva kwifilimu ethi "yeyona nto inomtsalane kwaye inomtsalane"? Ngoko, wayezibandakanya kwisiphakamiso sokwenza oko yonke imihla. Kwaye ngoku ukhumbule isiphetho kunye namadoda amathathu awayeyithandile iintliziyo. Isiphumo esihle.
Kwizixhobo zengqondo, ndiza kuqhuba imfihlakalo. Umfazi wesondo uhlala engummangaliso. Akayivuli ngokupheleleyo loo mntu, imphoqa ukuba acinge intsingiselo yamagama athethayo okanye malunga nokudlala okungekho nto. Akathethi ngokuthe ngqo, kodwa ngokucacileyo ucinga ngecebo lakhe kunye neenjongo zakhe, ushiya impendulo yakhe kumbuzo ongafanelekanga, ukhangele ngephutha okanye, ngokuchaseneyo, uthi into ebalulekileyo. Kodwa i-Riddles, nangona kunjalo, njengazo zonke izinto, kufuneka kwakhona kube ngokumodareyitha. Ukuba uncumo nje kuphela ngokuhlwa, kwaye endaweni yokuphendula ngokuchasana, ke akunakwenzeka ukuba umenywe ngosuku lwesibini.
Ukwabelana ngesondo ngumdlalo, ngoko udlala uze uzame ukunqoba.