Ukwabelana ngesondo kuyimfuneko yomntu

Ukwabelana ngesondo kuyinto ephosakeleyo. Ukwabelana ngesondo kuyimfuneko yomntu. Kubonakala ngathi injengomntu wonke, kodwa "kwiinkxalabo" ezahlukeneyo. Kuthekani ukuba uhlobo, ukunikezela ngesimo sengqondo, kugqibe ukugcina kuwe? Siqinisekisa kuwe: unokuhlakulela ubulili! Ukuba ukholwa yi-psychoanalysts, ulwabelana ngesondo, kuthiwa kubantwana, kwaye ukususela ekuzalweni, kuba iintsana zinezixhobo zokuziphatha ngokwesini, zixhamla, umzekelo, ukutshiza umunwe. Enye into eyenza ubulili kuzo zonke iindlela ezahlukeneyo. Abanye babo bavuthwa ngokwabo, abanye abahambelani ngokucacileyo: "Ndiyayithanda umlingane wam, kodwa andiyithobeli," "Umyeni wam wayedla ngokukhathaza, ngoku andiyiyo," "Andizange ndibe ne-orgasm ebomini bam." Ngaba uyazi izikhalazo? Ngoko, ngokubhekelana ngesondo - into eyonwabisayo kumntu, kufuneka sisebenze!

Inqanaba lokuzonwabisa
Ngokutsho kwezesondo, abafazi aba-7 kuphela kwabali-10 bafumana i-orgasm. Izinto zokuzonwabisa kumntu ochaphazela ngesondo zingenziwa ngokwahlukileyo ngamaqela amabini: ezicacileyo kwaye ezintle. Kucacile ukuba iqondo lokukhathala, isondo sengqondo - iyaziwa ngokuba yomelele, iphakathi kwaye ibuthakathaka, - imeko yezempilo, iimoya kwintsapho. Kukwaziwa kwakhona ukuba umsebenzi wesini wesini uxhomekeke kwithuba lomhla kunye nomjikelezo wesini. Ekuseni ulala, uvuka ebusuku. Ubuninzi bobulili, kunye ne "gundane ezimpunga" kunye "nesiphambano sesinyana", siwela phakathi komjikelezo wesini.

Abanye bafumana ukuzonwabisa okhethekileyo iintsuku ezingama-2-3 phambi kokuqala kweentsuku ezibucayi kunye nokuya esikhathini.
Izinto ezintle, ekuboneni kuqala, ngobomi obusondeleyo abuxhunyiwe nonke - umzekelo, uluhlobo luni lomntwana kwintsapho! Izazi zaseMelika zithi ababelethi bokuqala abavumi ukukhanya ngobudlova obundlobongela, kuba bajoliswe kumsebenzi. Bazimisele kwaye banenzondelelo ukuba baphazamiseke ngazo zonke iintlobo ezingenasiphelo ezifana nemidlalo yezesondo. Yintoni ongayithethi ngayo ngabantwana abancinci: abanamathuba amaninzi okuba yizinto eziphathekayo, ukuzonwabisa kwabo kukubona kunye nokuvakalelwa, ngenxa yokuba beyintandokazi yendalo yonke ukususela ebuntwaneni, ababehlala bethinwa kwaye banga. Emva koko, uthando lomzali lubaluleke kakhulu ekuphuculweni okuqhelekileyo ngokwesini.

Inani leengcali zifumanisa ubuhlobo phakathi kwesondo kunye neqela legazi. Ngokombono wabo, isondo esinamandla kunabo bonke abantu abaneqela legazi lam: baxhomekeke kwiingcamango ezinzulu kunye nomnqweno wokuzifeza ngokukhawuleza. Abathwali beqela legazi le-IV banesimo esithandayo: bayazinikela kwimvakalelo kunokuba baqiqe.
Ukwabelana ngesondo kukuyinto enomdla kumntu onesigaba sesithathu segazi. Olu hlobo lomntu lufikelela eziphakamileyo ezingakaze zenziwe ngaphambili, ukuba iqabane elithandayo liqwalaselwe ngothando lwakhe kunye nobuthathaka. Kodwa abo baneqela le-II legazi, ngokuzikhuthele bangene kwigumbi lokulala ulwazi lwabo malunga nezesondo, kodwa ngamanye amaxesha bangenawo umphefumlo. Ubundlobongela babo buvame ukuxinwa yiinkcenkceshi: "Abafazi abathembekileyo abakwenzayo!"
Abaphandi abavela kwiYunivesithi yaseMelbourne bafumene ukuba ubulili ngezindlela ezininzi kuxhomekeka ... ubukhulu bommandla wengqondo ejongene nesondo sokuvusa.

Konke kusezandleni zakho
Nangona kunjalo, abaninzi oososayensi baqwalasela impembelelo yeqela legazi kunye neengqondo zengqondo ngobomi bezesondo ukuba zicatshulwe ngokucacileyo. Unokutshintsha ubuninzi bobulili bakho bube ngcono. Ingaba indoda ifuna "oku" kuphela ekuseni? Dlulisa isondo ngexesha elihle lomhla kuwe. Ngaba uzibona ungumnqatha? Ngendlela, ngokuqhelekileyo bacinga ngabo, abo bazali abasuka ebuntwaneni baphefumlela ukunyaniseka ngesondo. Idilesi ku-sexologist, uya kunceda ukutshintsha isimo sengqondo esichaphazelekayo okanye ngokumalunga nokutshatyalaliswa.

Zama kwakhona ...
1. Hlola uphicotho lwesigcino sakho. Ukuziphatha ngokwesondo akunakwenzeka ngaphandle kokwabelana ngesondo. Hlala ubomi ubufazi! Ngaphantsi ngeejane ezingenanto kunye neebhattshi ezincinci. Gqoka iingubo, izithende eziphezulu, ubucwebe begolide. Amadoda ayesidala kakhulu kwaye afuna ukusibona njengamadoda aseTurgenev, kungekhona izidalwa ze-asexual kwi-unisex.
2. Ngexesha elide "ukhohliwe" ukugqoka iimpahla zangaphantsi - kuya kuguqula intloko yakho kungekuphela kwendoda, kodwa ... kuwe. Ukuqaphela ukuba ugqoke "ngokungenakulungelelanayo" kuya kukuvuyisa. Ewe, kunye neepheromone izinto, ezithandekayo kwizesondo ezinamandla - kuya kuba lula ukuphuma phantsi kwengubo.

3. Ukubhalisa kwisenzo sokuzivocavoca - umsebenzi owenziwe ngomzimba uthuthukisa imvakalelo, kusenza sibe namandla kwaye sisebenze, kubandakanywa ebhedini. Kodwa uqeqesho alufanele lube lukhuni: umzimba okhathele uya kunciphisa umsebenzi wesondo kuphela.
4. Funda ubuchule bokuthintela. Awunakuchukumisa iqabane lakho, kodwa ... wena. Thatha isiqwenga sesilikhi, i-velvet, ipompom ukusuka kwinqabunga, iqhekeza leqhwa - ngakumbi iipropthi, zibhetele - kwaye zitshintshele ngesikhumba. Gxininisa kumgca, gxotha iingcamango ezivela kwinqaku: "Kungekudala unyana uza kubuya esikolweni, udinga ukutshisa isobho" okanye "Yintoni endiyenza apha - kwindawo yokuhlambela intaba yentle yokuhlamba." Ukubetha kufuneka kube mnene kwaye kuphuze. Yiva yonke intshi yomzimba wakho.

Iimpawu ezimbalwa - kwaye uya kumangaliswa ukufumanisa ukuba unemihlaba egcweleyo, kunye nakweendawo ezahlukeneyo: kwi-bend bend, emva kwendlebe, entanyeni ... Akuyimfuneko ukuzithobela kwi-orgasm, kubalulekile ukuba ufunde ukugxila kwiimvakalelo zakho. Yaye ukuba ukuphuma kuvela - kuhle! Emva koko, ukuziphatha ngokwesini kukukwazi ukunandipha nantoni na.