Ngokuqinisekileyo, awukhumbuli ukuba umfundisi wokuqala, unina okanye ugogo waqala ukukufundisa njani. Kwaye ngoku kufuneka uzame ukubonakalisa umntwana wakho omncinci ngolo hlobo oluqalayo, ngombono wakho, into, njengaleta, ukunyathela kwiilwimi kunye namagama ...
Umgaqo wokuqala ulandela oku. Kufuneka uqale ngokuqaphela ukuba oko kubonakala kunje okokuqala, kulula kwaye kuyaqondakala, kumntwana-omtsha, onzima kwaye engachangekanga. Nawe, ufunda into, nayo? Akunjalo yonke into eyenzekayo ngexesha lokuqala. Ngoko umntwana ufuna umonde nokuqonda. Ukuba akakwazi ukufunda ukufunda, isizathu asikho nje ukungafuni okanye ubuvila. Nalowo, ubonakaliswa ukuba awukwazi ukunika ulwazi oluchanekileyo kuye, uchaze ukuba lufikeleleka, kwaye oko kubalulekile kukuthakazelisa. Emva kweminyaka emi-5-7 - oku kuncinci kwaye umdlalo unomdla ngakumbi kunokuba ungaqondakali. Ngoko ke, kuyimfuneko ukuqalisa ngokubamba, umdla onomdla kunye nomnqweno wokufunda. Sebenzisa umgangatho onguwo wonke umntwana-umnqweno wokuwazi umhlaba!
Umthetho omibini. Lungiselela umntwana ukuba afunde. Ukuphuhlisa umxholo wakhe, imbono ebonakalayo. Kungcono ukuba umntwana wakho eze kwiklasi yokuqala, engazi indlela yokubeka ileta ngamagama, kodwa ulungele ukufunda. Ngenxa yokuba, iingcali ezininzi zithi ukufundisa abantwana esikolweni ekhaya, baninzi baqeqesha ukuba "bafunde" amagama amfutshane ukusuka kwiileta ezi-3 ukuya ku-4. Kodwa le "ukufundwa kwegama", kwaye emva kokulungiselela abantwana kubunzima ukuphuhlisa izakhono zokufunda ngokuqhelekileyo. Ukuba awuqinisekanga ukuba unokufundisa ngokuchanekileyo nangokuchanekileyo ukufunda, yenza ulungelelwaniso lokufunda, ngoncedo lwezifundo ezikhethekileyo kunye nokuphuhlisa imidlalo.
Umthetho wesithathu. Funda iindlela zokufundisa ezikhoyo. Kule meko. Kungcono ukuthembela kwiingcamango zeengcali, ukusetyenziswa okuqinisekisiweyo, iindlela ezisekelweyo. Emva kwakho konke, oko kubonakala kuqondakala kwaye kulungele kuwe, akuvumelekanga ngokupheleleyo kumbono womntwana.
Emine. Musa ukukhala, ungamangali, unganyanzeli. Ngokufanelekileyo, umntwana ngokwakhe makamele eze kumnqweno wokufunda. Kumele aqonde ukuba kungcono ukufunda ukufunda ngokuzimela kunokubuza umama wakho, Oku, sebenzisa iincwadi kumdlalo. Bonisa imifanekiso, ukuvakalisa izandi, ilizwi elidweliswe kwimifanekiso ecaleni kwitekisi. Funda umntwana. Akuqhelekanga ukuba umntwana omdala angakwazi ukuyibuyisela incwadi, efundwa phantse ngamaxesha angama-12 ngokuphantse. Emva koko, kulula ukuhamba ngqo ekufundeni.
Umthetho wesihlanu. Yenza inkqubo yokufunda ibe yinto eshukumisayo. Makube mfutshane, kodwa ngokuqinisekileyo niyikhumbule, ningabonakali kwaye ningadingi. Ukuba umntwana unomdla ngokwenene, yena ngokwakhe uya kusondela ngosuku olulandelayo ngesicelo sokufunda ukufunda kwaye akufuneki ukunyanzelisa.
Umthetho wesithandathu. Iyokuqala "izifundo" akufanele zide kwaye zingabandezeli. Kodwa into ephambili iqhelekileyo. Ukuba sele usuqalisile, funda ukufunda imihla ngemihla, kwaye ngokubanzi nakweyiphi na ixesha elifanelekileyo (ngexesha lokuhamba, endleleni eya ekhaya, kungekhona nje "kweso sifundo").
Ulawulo lwesixhenxe. Yiba njalo. Iileta zokuqala, ngoko amagama alula ezinobumba obuninzi, ezilandelwa ngamagama amancinci, emva koko izivakalisi ezimfutshane kunye emva kweetekisi ezincinane. Kodwa musa ukuhlala ixesha elide kwiileta zecatshulwa. Akuqhelekanga ukuba umntwana azi zonke iileta ngokugqibeleleyo, kodwa akakwazi ukuzibeka kwiibllabha namagama.
Umthetho wesibhozo. Khuthaza umntwana. Oku kubaluleke ngakumbi xa uqeqesho luqala nje. Phawula inkqubela yakhe. Ngaphandle koko, umnqweno wokufunda uya kutshabalala kwangoko ekuqaleni.
Umthetho we-9. Ukuba ufundisa umntwana ukuba afunde kwaye afikelele ngempumelelo kwizinga lezivakalisi, ngoko ke umgaqo ophezulu wokuba umntwana uyifunde ngokuchanekileyo ayikhawulezi, kodwa uyaqonda. Ukuthabatha ngokungabonakali ngamagama nezivakalisi akunamsebenzi, abantwana kufuneka baqonde isicatshulwa.