Indlela yokuhlala kwintsapho kunye nomrhwebi

Ubuqhetseba obathandayo kwaye bathandekayo kuwe - kuseloko kuphazamiseka kwengqondo kunye noxinzelelo oluninzi kwi-psyche yethu. Ukusabela kwiindaba zobugwenxa kungahluka, kwaye akunakwenzeka ukuqikelela.

Kodwa ngokuqhelekileyo ihamba kunye neemvakalelo ezahlukileyo, ezingenakuphikiswa ngokungafaniyo, kwaye zingakhohliswa malunga nokunyusa okunye. Ngamanye amaxesha inyaniso yokungcatshiswa kwendoda inokuzisa umfazi wakhe kwiimeko ezidakisayo, okanye ezinye iingxaki ezinzulu zesimiso seentlungu.

Kukho iingcebiso ezininzi zeengqondo, indlela yokuhlala kwintsapho kunye nomrhwebi, okanye indlela yokusindiswa kokungcatsha kwendoda. Ukuze uphephe imiphumo, kuyimfuneko ukufumana amandla okuphumeza amanyathelo athile anokukunceda ukukholelwa ukungathembeki ngokulula.

Ngoko makhe siqale.

Zakho iimvakalelo.

Ngokuqhelekileyo, iimvakalelo zethu ezingalawulekiyo ziba netyala kwizenzo zethu zonke, okanye ngokulandelanayo, xa sihlala sihlala ngaphakathi kwethu, kwaye zihlandlo eziliqela zitshisa izinto ezenzekile ngaphandle kokuphazamiseka.

Kwiimeko zokunyuka kwengqondo, kufuneka uzinike inkululeko. Ukuba ufuna ukumemeza - memezela, ukuba uyaphula into ethile - ifayili. Uhlobo oluhle lokubonakalisa imizwa yendalo, ungabhala inkondlo, udwebe imifanekiso, udibanise, udibanise, ngokuqhelekileyo, yenza konke okuya kukwenza ukwazi ukuphosa onke amava akho. Ungasebenzisa kwakhona "ileta ukuya ngasese". Abaninzi banqwenela ukubhala ngaphandle kokuyeka yonke into ebuhlungu, baze bafunde ukutshisa, ukudiliza okanye ukulahla kubhaliweyo.

Akukho ukubonakaliswa kwemvakalelo ngaphezu kweengxaki zengqondo kunokuba nemiphumo yomzimba. Ngoko, uxinzelelo oluqhubekayo lwentlungu lunokuba sisizathu sokuphuhliswa kwesilonda, i-neurosis, izifo zentliziyo, iingxaki ezinomqolo kunye nezinye izinto ezininzi. Ngoko ke, kwiimeko ezixinzelelekileyo, unganqikazi ukufumana oko umphefumlo wakho ufuna. Into ephambili akuyikubuyisela konke ukuphelelwa lithemba, umsindo kunye neentsholongwane kubantwana nakwiintsapho. Kwenye indawo - akukho miqobo, kunye namakhadi ezandleni zakho.

Emva kwezenzo ezinjalo unokwazi ngokuqwalasela ngqalelo imeko ekhoyo, zama ukuyiqonda, kwaye uzenzele izigqibo eziyimfuneko malunga nendlela onokuhlala ngayo kwintsapho enomrhwebi.

Umgama.

Xa iimvakalelo zifumene indlela yokuphuma, kwaye ukutshatyalaliswa kokuqala kwakukude ubenze umgama wengqondo, oya kukumelana nokubhekiselele kwimeko. Mhlawumbi, kuyimfuneko ukuzimisa kumyeni wakhe, kungekhona nje ngengqondo. Oku kuya kukunceda ukuba ungabi nantoni na ngokukhunjulwa yizinkumbulo, kwaye ngokufanelekileyo imizwa engakhiyo. Ukwenza oku kuyinqweneleka kude kube yimeko engayi kulahlekelwa ngamandla phezu kwakho. Khawukhumbule into yokuba indoda ayiyona nto yodwa ebomini bakho. Tshintsha ingqalelo kumsebenzi, ukuzonwabisa, ukuba ungenayo inzondo, ngoku ke umzuzu xa ufuna ukuba nawo, njengokuba unabangane, izihlobo kunye nabantwana. Ndikholelwe, ukuba uqala ukunyamekela konke oku, kungekudala ukuzaliswa kwentukuthelo kuya kupheka kukubangela iimvakalelo ezikhethekileyo, kwaye unako ukuthetha ngokukhawuleza kunye neqabane lakho wenze isigqibo.

Uhlalutyo.

Ukuba awulungele ingxoxo engenangqiqo kunye nenzulu, kufuneka uqale ukuziqonda. Ngoku ngumzuzu xa ixesha lifika. Hlaziya ubomi bakho, ulinganise zonke iingxaki kunye neengxaki, kwakunye nokuvavanya ulwalamano lwakho nomyeni wakhe kunokuzimela ngokuzimeleyo kunye ngoncedo lengqondo yeengqondo.

Kufuneka kuqondwe ukuba ukuhlambalaza kunomntu ohlukeneyo, kwaye kungenziwa ngengozi. Kwindoda, ukwesaba ukutshatyalaliswa, kunye nengcamango yokuqhawula umtshato ingekho inkxalabo encinci. Ngako oko, ngaphambi kokuba ubeke ityala kuyo yonke into ekuthembekileyo kwakho kunye nentlungwini malunga nobani owachitha iminyaka yakho engcono, yifake. Ngokuqhelekileyo isizathu esiyinhloko sokushiya indoda "ngakwesobunxele" kukungabikho uthando, ukufudumala kunye nokunyamekela kwintsapho. Mhlawumbi nguwe owaphefumlela umyeni wakhe ukuba athathe isinyathelo esinjalo. Injongo yoluhlalutyo ukuhamba kwinqanaba lomsindo kwaye uzilungiselele ukunxibelelana nomyeni. Kubalulekile ukuba ingqondo yakho ithetha, kungekhona imvakalelo.

Ithebhile yeengxoxo.

Ngaphambi kokuba uqale ukuthetha nomyeni wakho, phinda uzenzele ukuba akudingeki ukuba uthethe kuphela, kodwa ukuphulaphula, nokuva konke okuya kuthiwa ngumrhwebi. Ukubuya kobudlelwane obudala kwintsapho kunye nomrhwebi, inkqubo inokude kwaye ichitha ixesha, ngoko kuyimfuneko ukucacisa ngokucacileyo ukuba ulungele umsebenzi onjalo. Ukuba kuyimfuneko, faka i-psychologist. Ngokuqhelekileyo, emva kokunxibelelana okunjalo, abatshatileyo bayaqonda ukuba, xa kuthelekiswa nendlela abaye bahamba ngayo, ukukhwabanisa kuyinto encinci. Unokuqwalasela le meko njengefilimu. Emva koko, ukuba ibali eliphambili lihle, i-shot shot engaphumelelanga ayiyi kutshabalalisa ingcamango yakho. Emva kwengxoxo ephosakeleyo, kukho ithuba lokuqhubeka, ukuhlala kwintsapho kunye nomrhwebi, ngelixa lenza imizamo encinci. Ukuba ukuqonda akuphumelelanga, kwaye uzimisele ukuphelisa ulwalamano lwakho, yenza ngokuzinzileyo nangokucokisekileyo. Ukuba idibanisa, kungcono ukuchithachitha uxolo, ngaphandle kwezinto ezingenasidingo kunye neengxabano. Emva kwakho konke, ngakwelinye icala, kulobu bomi bakho abupheli, kwaye ikhosi efanelekileyo ihamba phambili.

Phinda kwakhona.

Ukuba ukuxolelwa kuxolelwe, intsapho kunye nomthengisi kufuneka iqale ukuhlala ukususela ekuqaleni. Ukuvuselela ubudlelwane ngokuthe ngcembe, ngaphandle kokwenza i-jerks eqinile, kwaye ungakhohlwa ukuba kutheni ukwenza. Sebenza kwisigaba esitsha sobudlelwane obudala, kufuneka nibabini, unike inkqubo inani elifanayo lomzamo. Musa ukudlala indima yexhoba, kwaye nakumathuba onke ukukhumbuza umyeni wakho owamcaphukisa. Fumana amandla, ukuba ungayikhohlwa, ke ungakhumbuli okwenzekayo.

Ukuphunyezwa kweemigaqo-nkqubo kuya kukuvumela ukuba uqhubeke uhlala kunye, nangona ukungcatsha. Buyela umbala wangaphambili kunye novakalelo, kunye nokulungisa zonke iimpazamo ozenzayo zombini. Emva koko, intsapho ayenzekanga, enye inokusola, rhoqo izizathu ezibalulekileyo zichaphazeleka ngababini. Khumbula - ukuthanda kukuqonda. Ngaphandle kokuqonda, ubudlelwane abukwazi kuphela ukwakha kabusha, kodwa bugcinwe kuphela. Ukuba iimvakalelo zakho zinyani, uya kuba nokukwazi ukujamelana nazo zonke izilingo ezilungiselelwe i-destiny yakho.