Unako. Kwaye uhlala. Andikwazi ukuthetha ukuba ndiyayifumene nayo, kunoko, ndaziyeka. Wayefihla kwaye walinda, kwaye wasebenza, waza wamrhola umntwana komnye umva weedolophu kwisikolo esihle. Kwaye ke ... ezi zihlandlo ziphelile: amatyala adibeneyo, ecaleni kwindlu entsha kwakukho isikolo esihle kakhulu, kumsebenzi wonke wenyuka ngokugqibeleleyo, nangona umama-mkhwenkwe wesimo sengqondo esatshintshiwe. Uvuyiswe yintsapho yakho efanelekileyo, kwaye ukutshatyalaliswa komyeni wakho kwaye "akuzange kuvume."
Ubani insimbi yentsimbi? Ukutshintsha umyeni wakhe, njengokuba kunjalo, "akazange ahombe," kodwa kwenzeka into ethile. Awukwazi ukukhumbula nokuba iqalile nini. Kodwa kwakukho "iintsimbi", ngokuqinisekileyo, zazingenako. Umyeni wam wayehlala ehamba ngezoshishino. Awunakuyifumana. Kwaye akunjalo ukuba awuzange uthembele kuye, wamkhumbula nje. Awunakubonana rhoqo: ekuseni kusasa sakusihlwa, kusihlwa iiyure ezimbalwa ngaphambi kokulala - oko konke. Kodwa-ke, ngeveki, uhlala uchitha kunye kunye, ucebise kwangaphambili. Kodwa ngeveki ngokukhawuleza yadlula. Kwaye kwakhona kwavela ngeveki, kusasa kakhulu, kusasa ukunyamekela - wena wathanda umsebenzi wakho, wanika amandla amaninzi kunye nexesha. Loo ntsapho ephelele ngokugqibeleleyo. Ngelizwi, awuzange umthande kuphela xa ehamba. Kwaye ke uhambo lwezoshishino luye landa, wena ke, awuzange ujabule. Indoda iduduza, yathi yesikhashana, ukuba yena akayithandi iindiza ezingapheliyo, amasiko, amahotele. Utshintshisane ngeSMS, i-imeyile, kodwa ayidla ngokukhawuleza. Ngamanye amaxesha kwakubonakala kuwe ukuba iintlanganiso zakho, ezazihlala zikwamukelekile, musa ukuhamba ngokukhawuleza njengaphambili, kodwa waqonda ukuba yonke into ayinakuhlala ifana njalo-ukukhathala, iingxaki, kwaye unyana usandul 'ingqalelo - ukusuka waqala ixesha lokutshintsha. Ngokuqhelekileyo, awuzange uyithobele, wazibonela kwaye wagqiba ekubeni "ucinge ngalo ngomso."
Xa usakuba yintsapho efanelekileyo, kwaye ngokukhawuleza ukungcatsha komyeni wakhe kwakunjengobhentshi ovela eluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka. Umyeni kakhulu ngokuzithoba, ngokucacileyo kwaye engenakuvakalelwa kakhulu ukuba uthe wayethandana nomfazi othile. Kwaye, kunokwenzeka ukuba oku akuyona into encinane, kodwa ubuhlobo obunzulu. Xa ebuzwa isizathu sokuba akuxelele oku, umyeni wathi uyakuthanda, naye, kwaye nesazela sakhe sihlushwa. Kodwa apha sele "alivumba" intsapho efanelekileyo, apho uqinisekile. Umyeni waba ngandlela-thile ethule, enetyala kwaye walahleka. Uyabhala ukuba u-bastard kwaye akafanelekanga kuwe. Xa ebuzwa ukuba uya kuloo mfazi, wathi yonke into ixhomekeke kuwe. Kufuneka wenze isigqibo, kodwa uya kuxolelana nesigqibo sakho. Yaye uphila njani, njani ukudibanisa nokungcatsha komyeni wakhe? Ungakulibala njani, ukuxolela, ukuxolela?
Ukuguquka kwenkani - imbambano. Ukuba unembeza womntu uvukile, umntu makamnike ithuba. Kungcono ukuba ungenzi nantoni na. Makhe azive ukuba uzame ukumqonda, amadoda acinga ukuba oku kubaluleke kakhulu - ukuba bayaqonda. Akumangalisi ukuba ngexesha elifanayo abazamile ukuzama ukusiqonda, le ngxelo. Mhlawumbi umyeni wakho uyakhubeka. Ndazifumana kwimeko engadingekile ngexesha elingadingekile. Kwaye-ke-waya. Uthando luvakalelwa ngakumbi kunokuba lube luthando. Zama ukumxolela, umntwana wakho ufuna uyise, kwaye ufuna intsapho. Nangona ungabizi ngokuba ngumntu omelekileyo.
Indlela yokusindiswa kokungcatsha kwendoda yakhe nendlela yokuphila ngayo? Nje ngesifo. Isifo sisoloko siqala ngokungalindelekanga, kodwa siphelile. Ekuqaleni, imeko yezempilo ibuhlungu, ngoko i-crisis kunye nokubuyisela kuza. Into ephambili ayiyikuxubusha. Akuyi kuba namachiza, ayiyi kuba neengxaki. Ndingakuxolela njani? Kufuneka ukuba ukhumbule inyaniso elula: asizange size kweli hlabathi ukuhlangabezana neemfuno zabanye abantu. Kwaye akukho mntu usihlawulela. Ukuba kunjalo, akukho nto yokuxolela umyeni wakhe. Njani ukulibala? Akunangqondo ukushiya amava afunyenwe, kuba uya kuvumela ukuhlolwa okunyameko kweemeko zemihla ngemihla. Yintoni endiyenzayo? Vumela umyeni wakhe ukuba enze ukhetho ngokwakhe. Amadoda angenakunyameko, njengomthetho, ayilondolozo, oko kuthetha ukuba unelungelo ngaphezu komdlali wakho.