Ngokuqinisekileyo bonke abafazi besalamano bacinga ngendlela abavakalelwa ngayo indoda. Kulula kakhulu ukufunda oku. Ingqondo yezobuchule yenzululwazi engasitshela ngokumalunga namadoda ngokubangela, ukubonakalisa ubuso kunye nesenzo. Kufuneka ufunde impawu, ukuba unokungabaza okuthethelelekileyo ngobuhlobo bobudlelwane nawe, ukuqaphela kwayo ngothando. Unxibelelwano kwizinga elingengomlomo, njengommiselo, awukwazi. Ayikwazi ukulawulwa. Ngoko ke, akunakwenzeka ukufihla iimvakalelo kule nqanaba okanye kunzima kakhulu. Emva kokufunda iimpawu ezingekho ngentsingiselo zokuwa emthandweni, umfazi uya kuba nako ukuzakhela ngokufanelekileyo ukuziphatha kwakhe enkampanini nendoda, kwaye indoda iya kumthanda ngakumbi.
Imizobo
Imvakalelo yendoda enokumnika intetho elula entloko xa incoko nentombazana. Uyakwazi ukuyichukumisa lula inwele zakhe okanye ukuyixabisa. Uya kukwenza ngokucokisekileyo kwaye ngokuzinzile. Oku kuchazwa ngokulula: iinwele zabantu zidibene nezo zesini. Ugxininisa ukunyaniseka kwakhe kunye nokukhangisa, okwenza ukunyakaza ngesandla ngeentloko zeentloko.
Ukuba umntu ongenasizathu esicacileyo saqala ukulungisa umtya wakhe okanye ubukele, iifowuni zokuthintela okanye ezinye zezinto zakhe zokusebenza, mhlawumbi, ufumana unonwabo olukhulu. Ngomfana osemthandweni, oku kuphawu.
Ukuba indoda ichitha ixesha elithile phambi kwesibuko, ibheka ukuhamba kwayo, ikhupha isisu sayo, imile kwizwane zakhe ezinzwane, izama ukuba yincinci, ide, ikhangele ngakumbi, inamandla. Kufanekisela nomnqweno wakhe wokukholisa umfazi.
Impawu yesimo esingengomlomo wendoda ethandanayo inokwenene. Oku kungenxa yokukhanga kwakhe kwintombazana ayithandayo. Kwaye kwinqanaba elincinci, ufuna ukumnceda ngokwakhe, ngaloo ndlela ugxininisa "ubukhulu besilisa." Ulwabalalisa imilenze yakhe ngokubanzi, kungekhona nje ukuhlala, kodwa nokuma. Ngokuqhelekileyo abantu abatsha babeka izandla zabo okanye iminwe yabo kuphela kwiipokethi zeengubo zabo, ngenxa yebhanti kunye nebhande, gcina izandla zabo kule nxalenye yomzimba xa bethetha nomfazi abathandayo.
Ukubonakalisa iimvakalelo
Ukuziphatha komntu kunokuthetha ezininzi ngeemvakalelo zakhe. Insizwa inokuthi, ngaphandle kokungabaza, ikopi ukuziphatha komntu okhethiweyo. Uphinda ukunyakaza kwawo, isikhundla sezandla nentloko, umzimba uqhubeka xa uhleli. Oku kuthetha umdla onzulu okanye uthando lomfana. Ukuba uhlala exhomekeke kwintombazana kwaye ephakamisa iinki, ucinga ngokuqhubeka nokudibana kunye nokudibanisa ixesha elide.
Ukuba indoda ixhaphaza nayiphi na into ejikelezayo, oko kungumqondiso ongathanga ngqo wothando. Indoda esatshatileyo iya kutshintshela intsimbi yokubandakanya eminwe, yenza imizamo yokususa.
Ezinye iimpawu ezingabonakali zibandakanya abafundi bakhe, ubukhulu becala xa bekhangela into ekhishweyo. Kucaciswa yinto evuyisayo kunye nokukhululwa kwe-adrenaline egazini elivela ngexesha lokunxibelelana.
Ukuthotywa, ukudideka okukhulu kuthethwa novelwano lwentombazana leyo. Kungase kubonakale kuphazamise ubuso babo bonke okanye izihlathi.
Ngomdla wokwenene kumfazi uya kuthetha kwaye ukhangela. Indoda ethandanayo iya kuhlala inomnqweno wokubukela kwintombi yakhe ixesha elide.
Imiqondiso engentla yendlela yokuziphatha yamadoda, ithathwe ngokwahlukileyo, ayithethi ukuba akayithandanga. Kodwa ngokudibeneyo, ezi zibonakaliso ezingekho ngezwi ziya kukukhuphaza ngeemvakalelo zakhe ezinyanisekileyo kuwe. Ungathandabuzeki, ezi zizinto zokuziphatha kunye nokunyakaza komntu kuphela othandana nawe.