NgezoBomi
Ephupheni, ungena kwiintlobano zesini kunye nabantu ababini ngexesha elilodwa, mhlawumbi lithetha ukuba ngokwenene awunalo "umoya" ngokwaneleyo, unesichukumiso ngabanye, uyanciphisa kwizenzo, unyanzelekile ukuba unamathele kwisicwangciso esithile uze ungahambi ngaphaya kwalo , ukucima ngokupheleleyo iminqweno yakho. Kukho iindlela ezimbini ezivela kule meko. Okokuqala, jonga kwaye ucinge malunga noko ufuna ngokwenene, kwaye uzama ukuhlangabezana neemfuno zakho, kungekhona abantu abangaziwa. Yaye, zinyamekele. Fumana imizwa ekhuthazayo, zixakeke kunye nento oyifunayo. Kwaye oku kunokuba yintoni na - ukususela kwi-salon yobuhle ukuhamba emaphandleni emoyeni omtsha.
Isondo esingaziwa
Ukuba ephupheni ungena kumntu osondelene naye kumntu ongaqhelekanga, oku kungathetha ukuba ingqondo yakho engacatshulwayo iyahlanza, into ongayikrokreli ngokwenene. Cinga ngako, ingaba njani? Musa ukukhawuleza ngeempendulo, akufuneki ukuba udibaniswe ngesondo, mhlawumbi ngenxa yendlela uziphatha ngayo, ongathanda ukuyitshintsha ingqalelo, kodwa ngokude nje ifakwe kwi-subconscious yakho. Iingcamango zalo mxholo zingaphinda zifunyanwe kubameli bezesondo ezihle ezizibethelele umthwalo onzima, becinga ukuba zixhomekeke kubo kuphela, kwaye akukho mntu unokuphazamisa, kuba kungcono kunokuba kungabikho bani. Kwaye, kule ngxaki, iphupha lithetha ukuba lixesha lokuyeka kwaye ucinge ukuba kulungile ukuzitshintsha kakhulu, unokwabelana nabanye, kwaye ukubaluleka kwakho akuyi kuba nako.
Isondo kunye nommeli wesini sakho
Iphupha elinjalo lithetha ngokunyanisekileyo kwakho okanye kwesinye isondo ngokobudlelwane. Kungenzeka ukuba ubomi bakho bube nobushushu kunye nomsindo, kungakhathaliseki ukuba kuluvakala njani. Okanye, mhlawumbi, yonke into ihleliwe kakhulu ebomini bakho, yonke into ihamba ngokungqongqo ngokwesi sicwangciso, apho ungaphambuki phantsi kweemeko. Ukuba kunjalo, ke iphupha lithetha ukuba kukufanelekile ukucinga kwakhona ngeembono zakho kwaye ungeze inkululeko ebomini bakho.
Ukwabelana ngesondo kunye neBDSM
Iphupha apho ungena kulo ulwalamano oluxhatshazwayo, ngexesha elifanayo unkosikazi onamandla, exhotywe kuzo zonke izinto ezithandana ngesini kunye nemidlalo ebusondeleyo, ibonisa ukuba ungathunyelwa kumgangatho wabantu abahlala beqaphela konke, baqeqeshwa kwindawo yokuqala, uzame ukuzigcina ngokwakho, kwaye unyanzele abanye, yonke into imele ibe phantsi kolawulo oluqinileyo, kodwa, malunga nezenzo, oku akunjalo. Awukwazi ukuguqulela iminqweno yakho ibe yinyani ngesizathu esithile. Emva koko, la maphupha athi kukufanelekile ukucinga ukuba unayo yonke le nasamom yenzayo ... ulawulo oluqinileyo, uqeqesho. Mhlawumbi kubalulekile ukujonga ihlabathi ukusuka kwelinye icala, ukuzisa ukukhanya ebomini.
Ukwabelana ngesondo ngokuthanda
Xa kukho inkohlakalo ephusheni lakho lokusondeza, isenzo somlingane ngokumelene nentando yakho, ke iphupha elinjalo lithetha ukuba ngeyonto, umntu uphula isithuba sakho somntu siqu, akucinezele, avimbele yonke inkululeko yezenzo zakho. Oku kunxulumene nobomi bakho bobuqu, kunye nolwalamano lwakho emsebenzini. Zama ukuyijonga. Kukho ukhetho lwesibini, impendulo igcinwe ngaphakathi kwakho. Mhlawumbi ucinezela inxalenye yakho. Kodwa ngoku cinga, kutheni? Emva kwakho konke, abantu abagqibeleleyo abakho, kunye nomgangatho ongawuthandayo, akufanele ucinezeleke, kufuneka baphuculwe, kwaye kwenziwe ngcono.
Ngesondo "kwindawo kawonkewonke"
Kwiphupha lakho lokuzikhusela, ngaba ungena kwiintlobano zesini xa usendaweni kawonkewonke, kwaye abantu babuka le nkqubo? Umlingiswa we-Snytakogo udla ngokuvakalayo kubantu abavaliweyo, bavaliwe. Kwakhona, apha akubhekiselele kubomi obusondeleyo, kodwa isimo sakho sengqondo ebomini ngokubanzi. Ubuthongo uthi awukwazi ukuvala ukufa nokugcina yonke into yakho. Kubalulekile ukwabelana ngamava akho kwaye ugweme ukuxhwa.