Ukunyuka, ubulili ngobunye ubusuku nezizathu ezilishumi zokuba uyingxenye

Ngethuba lethu, akukho mntu uya kumangaliswa ngokuxhamla. Yintoni enye ekhulwini lokugqibela eyayithathwa njengesono (isondo esingaqhelekanga) namhlanje, sinokuthi, ngokwefashini. Ukuguquka kwezesondo kuye kwenza lula ukujonga izinto ezininzi kunye nobusuku bothando "oluqhwithelayo" akukho mntu uya kukugweba nomfokazi. Yinto yansuku zonke, ukukhangela kwendalo, ukuba ufuna. Mhlawumbi abantu, ngale ndlela, bakhetha iqabane lomntu. Kwaye ke, kufuneka uvume, kunokwenzeka. Izibini ezitshatileyo ezininzi zadibana nale ndlela - ekuseni emva kwendlela "encinci".

Kodwa ininzi yale miphumo efana neyokutshitshiswa iyacinywa ngokukhawuleza, kunye neentsimbi. Abathandana abathandanayo banokutshintshisana ngokukhawuleza, bakhuphe ngaphandle kokutshintshana neenombolo zefowuni.

Kutheni oku kwenzekayo? Kutheni, ukusuka kwintlambo ecacileyo yomdla, uvelwano (kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo kwakukho), akuzange kuphenduke ukuba kwakungekho ilangatye, kwanelilamangatye elithathaka? Izizathu zingabininzi, siya kuqwalasela ngokubanzi. Ngoko, ukunyamekela, ubulili ngobunye ubusuku nezizathu ezilishumi.

1. Ukhando lwezilwanyana kunye nesondo ngesondo

Kwiimeko ezininzi, amaqabane awaqalwanga ekuqaleni ukuba aqhubeke nobudlelwane. Ubundlobongela ngobunye ubusuku - akuyona into enxulumene nayo, ngoko ke, indlela yokwenza izinto ezahlukeneyo zeendlela eziqhelekileyo zobomi. Ngokuphindaphindiweyo iingxabano ezinjalo zisebenza nabesilisa abafuni ukuboshwa ngobudlelwane obunzulu. Bazoyika ngenxa yegama elithi "ukuthandana", ngokunyanisekileyo umthwalo, obangela emva kokuthandana kwexesha elide.

Iintlanganiso ezingabophelanga zizivumelanisa kakhulu kunabesifazane abathile. Ininzi labo abanomsebenzi kunye nobomi bokuphila ngaphambili. Kubudlelwane bamazikazi abanalo nje ixesha, kodwa bafuna ukwaneliseka.

Ukulala ngesondo - into eqhelekileyo. Ngokuqhelekileyo abathandi bexesha elizeleyo balinde ekhayeni amaqabane aqhelekileyo.

2. Ukunganeliseki

Okungathandekiyo, kodwa kwenzeka kwaye kunjalo. Ukuzonwabisa, apho yonke into eyayiqalisiwe-ayizange ifumaneke. Kwiimemori kwakukho kuphela: intetho enomdla, umkhenkcezo womnye ummothekayo, isiqalo esiqhwithelayo sokuthandwa kwangaphambili kunye nesiphelo esincinci okanye esheshayo. Ngelizwi-ukungaqondi kakuhle. Ngoko ufuna ukuvakalisa ngokuphawulekayo: - "Hlala, intlanganiso yethu yayiyimpazamo! "Yaye ngokuziqhenqa. Kodwa kwintlalo ephucukileyo kuyinkcubeko yokwahlula ngengqiqo. Iqabane lingenakho ukukrokra ukuba ayizange iphile ngokumalindelekileyo. Musa ukudukisa ngaye ngokwakhe. Kungenzeka ukuba awuzange ufikelelane nomnye, kwaye kunye namanye amaqabane, konke kuya kuphumelela ngakumbi. Ukungahambelani komzimba akuqhelekanga.

Kwiimeko ezinjalo, kungcono ukushiya kwinqwelo eqinisekisayo: thatha inombolo yefowuni uze uthembisa ukubuyisela kwakhona, ngokumomotheka okumnandi ukuba uphelelwe emva komnyango.

3. Abathandana nabahlobo

Ewe, ngubani owathi ubuhlobo phakathi kwendoda nomfazi akunakwenzeka? Kule hlabathi, akukho nto ayinakwenzeka. Ewe, indoda kunye nomfazi bangakwazi ukugcina ubuhlobo besikhathi eside, ezingasoloko zikhokelela ekuthandaneni. Ubuhlobo obude bufana nobuhlobo begazi. Uyabona kumntu ungumzalwana okanye udade kwaye akukho mvakalelo, ukugqithiswa kwe-hormonal xaxa xa uthethana naye ungaziva. Ngoko ke, abahlobo baba ngabathandi abaninzi. Njengomthetho, oku kwenzeka kwimeko yokuxhatshazwa, xa inyaniso iboniswa yile mibini kwi-prism yeengcamango ze-iridescent. Enye into eqhelekileyo yintuthuzelo yomlingane okhungathekileyo. Emva koko, ukuxhasa umhlobo yinto engokwemvelo, kwaye amadoda anganqabisa abafazi kuphela ngendlela enye.

4. Ubundlobongela ebusuku notywala

Intlangano eqhelekileyo. Kwabaninzi, ubulili kunye notywala ziintetho ezifanayo, iingcamango ezithetha ukuba yinto efanayo. I-Cinderellas yanamhlanje ifuna iinduna kwii-nightclub, kwaye emva kweefakela zokunxila ezininzi zifumana ... umthandi ubusuku obunye. Ubundlobongela kwiimeko ezifanayo akunakwenzeka ukuba uqhubeke nokuqhubeka okanye mhlawumbi uphumelele. Ekuseni, amaqabane awanakukwazi ukubonana nantoni na, kuba iibini zinewayini ziyakwazi ukugqithisa inyaniso ngobuchule obukhulu.

5. Iimpawu kunye neNzuzo

Ngamanye amaxesha unomdla, umdla othakazelisayo uyabonakala kuqala. Kodwa ukusuka kweyesibini kuvela ukuba naye uyakuthanda ukusela nokuthetha. Ungesabi ukuba awuyi kuqhubela phambili ukutshatana, yiyo nje le migaqo inokuphazamisa nomzuzu osondeleyo. Iingqondo zengqondo zabesilisa zihluke kwabasetyhini, ngokokuba ukukwazi kwabo ukuphulaphula imiqulu emikhulu yeengxowa zamva nje malunga nabadumileyo, ukuyibeka ngobumnene, iyancipha. Ngako oko, umlingane oqhaqhaqhaqhayo. Indoda ingakwazi ukuxhasa ukuphuma komlomo nje kuphela, ukuba yile ndlela kuphela yokufumana "ukufikelela emzimbeni". Kodwa kusasa intombazana encokolayo ayifuni ukubala ngokuqhubekayo, kunye nelo lifazi liphethe kakubi ukusetyenziswa kotywala.

6. Gqibelela ukuhluleka

Ngayiphi na isizathu, indoda ayikwazi ukuqonda isifiso sakhe somzimba. Le meko ayimnandi kuwe kwaye inzima kuye. Ngokwemvelo, esi siqalo sokuqhubeka, cishe akunakwenzeka.

7. Ngaba ukufikeleleka akukho siphene?

Amadoda amaninzi akhangwa ngesini. Ngubani onokungafuni ukuzonwabisa xa intombazana ixhomekeke entanyeni yakhe? Akukho mntu, kodwa lo mgaqo uhlala ubusuku obubusuku - abukho. Endaweni ethile kwiijenge zesini esomeleleyo igcinwa imemori yokhokho babo-abazingeli, abaxabisa kuphela oko bekufumene ixabiso eliphezulu. Ngako oko, akufanelekile ukuba nethemba labesifazane abanakho ukuthenga isitampu. Oku kusebenza kwindoda yamantombazana athile. Intombazana enzulu, engaxhomekeke kwiintlanga, ayiyi kudibanisa ubomi bayo kunye nomntu onobuqili nabangadingekile. Ewe, yintoni indoda yakhe noyise?

8. Kwaye sahluke kakhulu!

Isizathu sivuno, kodwa ngenxa yoko abantu bahlula ngokuyinxalenye. Imikhwa eyahlukeneyo, imbono, izimvo, ii-biorhythms. Kwaye kubaluleke kakhulu, ukungakwazi nokungafuni ukuphazamisa.

9. Ukukhulelwa

Wonke umntu uyazi iziphumo zokulala ngesondo esingakhuselekanga kunye nomlingane ongaqhelekanga. Nangona kunjalo amadoda amaninzi ukusetyenziswa kwekhondom kufana ne-feat. Ukuzibandakanya ukwenza oku kunye nomfazi kunokuthathwa njengobonakaliso bokuzingca kunye nokunyaniseka, okungahombisi umthandi emehlweni akhe.

Kwimeko echaseneyo, xa ibhinqa lithintela "ukhuseleko", indoda inokumnxusa ukuba ufuna ukuba nomntwana, nangona izicwangciso zakhe zingabandakanyeki.

10. Uthando-egoist

Abantu abanjalo balala ngokulala, banelisekile kuphela iimfuno zabo, ngoxa bewutyeshela ngokupheleleyo iimvakalelo kunye neminqweno yomlingane. Ngokwemvelo, akukho mntu uya kufuna ukuthatha ixesha elide nomntu onjalo.

Nazi izizathu ezilishumi zokuba kutheni abantu abangene kwixhumo lomngcipheko, baya kutshatyalaliswa kungekudala. Kodwa ukuba ilangabi livutha phakathi kwentsiba yenceba, ke akukho sizathu siya kubathintela ukuba sibe ngumtshato wesibini esitshatileyo.