Umtshato: iimpawu, amasiko

Nanku kufika eli thuba elinde ixesha elide-usuku lomtshato wakho. Zininzi iinkolelo zidibene nomtshato, kunye kunye nemiqondiso kunye namasiko ahamba nalo mhla. Kukho imiqondiso eyahlukileyo. Ukukholelwa kubo okanye ukungakholelwa yinto yomntu ngamnye. Asiyi kuqwalasela zonke iingxaki kunye neengxaki. Ndiyanikela, bahlobo abathandekayo, ukuba nisebenzise amathuba. Ngaphambi komkhosi:
1) Ngethuba kusasa, hlalani phambi kwesihlobo kwaye umenze adibanise - kuphela ukuze ube nolonwabo emtshatweni. Inkohliso efanayo inokwenziwa kunye nekati, ukuba ingeyona eyakho, iboleka kumelwane!
2) Awukwazi ukuzingca! Ngako oko, mbiza umhlobo uze umnike isiqwenga seshizi (ukuze uvuyo kunye nendoda ezayo), ngakumbi, ngcono.
3) Ewe, lixesha lokuba ugqoke. Kubalulekile ukugqoka izicathulo, ukunyathela izicathulo, ufake i-salidi, irayisi, iinkozo zesonka phantsi kwesithende sokunxele, kwaye ngokubanzi konke okufunayo.
4) Ukuba unikwe umtshato ebandleni, qiniseka ukubamba intambo nawe. Inokutsalwa ngaphambi kokungena kwecawa kwaye igxume. Ngaloo ndlela, yonke ubunzima bakho yobomi uya kushiya emva (ungenza ngokuphindaphindiweyo, ngokuqinisekileyo). Qaphela, musa ukuphula isithende!

ISEBE LOBHALISO:
1) Ngokukhawuleza ufika kwiofisi yokubhalisa, bhetele. Kuxhomekeke kule ndlela uza kuhlala ubomi bentsapho.
2) Ukuba umyeni uthetha kakhulu, kwaye awuyithandi ngesizathu esithile, zibonise phambi kwakhe kwengubo yomtshato (bathi, inceda). Kwaye ke, ade afike kwintliziyo yakhe, khawuleza adle ithokoleta kunye kunye. Ngoko, ubomi obumnandi buqinisekiswa ngoku kuwe.
3) Ngaba ufuna ukuba yinkokeli kwintsapho? Emva koko sibaleka ngokukhawuleza kwiofisi yokubhalisa (umyeni ohamba phambili) kwaye siyinyathela kumbhoxo, kuphela ngoxanduva lonke, ngokukhawuleza le yithuba lakho lokugqibela lokuphumelela kobuqhankqalazo endlwini.

Isidlo somsindo:
1) Ngoko, yonke imikhosi iphelile, kodwa musa ukukhawuleza ukuphumla, akunjalo. Ngethuba iindwendwe zivakaliswa, zibethe ngesibindi zonke izitya eziza kuwela emehlweni akho (ngenhlanhla). Ukuba kubonakala kuwe kancinci, hamba kubamelwane, oboleka kuyo ikati, unganqikazi, baya kugcoba kuphela!
2) Buyela kumyeni wakho uphuze yonke into ayenayo eglasini (njengokungabonakaliyo). Oku kuya kukuvumela ukuba uthathe yonke inyanga umvuzo womyeni wakho.
3) Ewe, ngoku unako ukuphumla! Hlala eceleni komyeni wakhe uze uphumule. Kanjani, awuzange ufake phantsi kwekhesi ngamakhale owomileyo? Ukulungisa ngokukhawuleza imeko, mhlawumbi indlu yakho iyayeka ukusebenza kunye nemali.

Ewe, ezi ziyimimiselo embalwa yomtshato, eqinisweni, kukho ezininzi. Kodwa nokuba ufanele ubeke ingqalelo kwiimpawu, kufike kuwe.

Ngoko, siyihlolisise umxholo womtshato: iimpawu zamasiko. Se benzisa le miqondiso, kwaye ubomi bakho bentsapho buya kumnandi, imali kwaye ujabule. Kwaye ukudibanisa impumelelo yobomi, soloko ukholelwa kuphela kwimpawu ezilungileyo!