Iziganeko ezininzi zobomi bethu zibaluleke kakhulu, kodwa mhlawumbi enye yeyona nto ibaluleke kakhulu isingumtshato. Ngaloo mini intombazana ifuna ukubukeka ilungele kwaye ikhangeleke, ukuba ibe phakathi kwenkcazelo kunye nokuhlamba ngothando lomkhethiweyo wakhe.
Ixesha elide lo mbhiyozo ujikelezwe yimpawu ezininzi kunye neenkolelo. Ukukhetha ingubo kunye nezicathulo, amantombazana amaninzi kunye nexesha lethu akhokelwa yimpawu ezininzi. Iintombazana nganye zicwangcise ngokucokisekileyo umtshato ozayo, kwaye, ngokuqinisekileyo, ngokukhawuleza okanye kamva, ifunda imiqondiso emininzi, ngokuqinisekileyo, ukuyikholelwa okanye ayikho, yinto yomntu ngamnye.
Iingcali zengqondo zincoma ukuba abafazi abahlali bengazikholi ezi nkolelo kwaye bakhiyozele ngokubhaliweyo ngokwemigaqo yamandulo, vele ukhulule kwaye ufumane ukuzonwabisa kwangempela kwinkqubo.
Iimpawu malunga nengubo yomtshato
Ukuba ucinga kanzima uze ufumane okungakumbi, uya kuvuka ngokukhawuleza ukuba ezinye zazo ziphikisana, ngokuqhelekileyo zidibanisa nokugqoka, nezambatho, izicathulo njalonjalo.
- Isibonakaliso sokuqala kukuba imbobo yomtshato ayinakuqeshwa kwaye irente. Primaetonnovyvaetsya ukuba izambatho zithatha amandla omnini wayo kunye nevenkile. Ukuba unxibe ingubo yomtshato "ngamandla ombi", umtshakazi unokuziva ebi.
- I-omen endala ithi kufuneka kukho into ebolekwe kwisambatho somtshakazi. Kwimihla endala, umama womtshakazi wamnika ihekethi, eyazibophelela yona. Uyihlobise kuyo uphawu olukhethekileyo, olukhuselayo. Ngalo mkhweli kwakuqhelekile ukuba usule iinyembezi zenjabulo! Ngokuqhelekileyo le nto yadluliselwa kwisuka kwisizukulwana.
Namhlanje, abafazi bathabatha into evela kwiintombi, i-brooch, i-earrings, iipilisi zeenwele okanye enye into, kodwa kuya kuba bhetele ukuba yintsapho ye-heirloom. - Ngokweziko zesiNgesi emtshatweni, intombazana kufuneka ibe nento entsha, into ethile endala, into ethile kwenye kwaye ibolekwe. Into yokuqala neyesibini ibonisa ukuxhamla komtshakazi kunye nendodana, ubulumko nokuthula kwintsapho entsha. Umboleko oboleweyo uya kukukhumbuza ukuba abahlobo abasondeleyo kunye nabafazi bahlale bekulungele ukunceda. Umbala obomvu ubonisa ukunyaniseka, ukuthozama kunye nothando.
- Kukholelwa ukuba ubomi besikhathi esizayo bomtshato buxhomekeke kumbala wengubo. Ngokwahlukileyo akukhuthazwa ukuba agqoke okwephuzi, ngaphandle koko uza kubandakanya ukungquzulana kwintsapho. Olubomvu uya kwenza ukuba ubudlelwane be-ney kunye nokuxhaphaza. Ubukho bezinto ezibomvu kwisambatho okanye kwimifuno - ngokuchasene nomphumo olungileyo. Umbala ococekileyo wengubo yomtshato ubumhlophe, ufuzisela ububele, ukungabi namacala, impilo.
- Xa ukhetha amacangci omtshato, qaphela abo bavezile kunye namatye, iiparele. Abantu bakholelwa ukuba iiparele zihamba ezinkumbulo, kwaye ubomi kunye nomlingane kungcono ukuqala ukususela ekuqaleni.
- Kungcono ukhethe ingubo yomtshato ngaphandle kwemigca kunye nokunyathela, njengoko zifuzisela ubomi obugcweleyo nokuwahluleka, iimeko ezididekile.
- Wonke umntu unamandla akhe, umntu ukhangelekile kwaye uqaqambile, kwaye umntu unamandla angenamandla azisa iimvakalelo ezimbi kuphela kwabanye, kucingwa ukuba kubalulekile ukuba baqaphele abantu abanjalo kwaye benze njalo ukuba bangabandakanyekanga ngengubo yomtshato yomtshakazi kwaye bangawashiyi amandla akhe ambi.
- Fata emva komtshato kufuneka uhlale nomkakhe kwaye akufuneki ukuba amnike abahlobo okanye izalamane, ingakumbi abo baya kulo mkhusane ukuba batshata kwakhona.
- Ingubo yomtshato i-skorotkoy skirt ifanekisela umtshato omfutshane. Kuyinto enqwenelekayo ukukhetha iingubo ezide ezinde, ifuzisela ubomi obunentsapho obonwabileyo, kwaye yile nto esiyifunayo.
- Ukuba ngethuba lokugubha umkhwa womtshato uqothukile, ke lindela ukuba umamazala wakho uya kuthukuthela. Ukuba iqhosha liza, qiniseka ukuba uligubungele ngeentambo ezimbini, ukuze udibanise kunye neqabane lakho.
- Ngaphambi kokunqoba, jonga kwisibuko uze ungabonakali amehlo akho kumyeni - oku kubi.
- Ingubo yomtshato emva kokugqoka ingagqithwa kuphela ngosuku lomtshato, akukhuthazwa ukuba uyibonise kubahlobo bakhe kwaye uhambe ngeenxa zonke zendlu, ngenxa yokuba ugqoke ingubo yomtshato kuthetha ukutshata, ukuba wenza oko kusengaphambili, umtshato awukwazi ukuqhubeka.
- Ukugqoka iingubo kuyimfuneko kuphela ngentloko. Ukuba kukho amaqhosha kwisambatho, kufuneka kubekho inani lawo.
- Ngomphetho wengubo yomtshato, kufuneka uhlale unamathele ipini, uhlawule phantsi, ukukhusela kwiso elibi.
- Ngeentambo eziluhlaza okwangaphandle ngaphakathi, yenza izicathulo ezimbalwa, ngoko uza kuzigcina amandla angenamandla abantu.
- Ngokutsho kwelizwi elidala, ukuba ingubo igqokelwe kwisambatho ngabathandekayo, umyeni uya kuthanda ukugcina umfazi wakhe konke ubomi bakhe, ukuwuthwala ngezandla zakhe aze azungeze ngqalelo kunye nokunyamekela.
- Ukuba intombazana, isatshatile, isele ikhulelwe, isisu kufanele siboshwe ngebhande ebomvu ebomvu kwaye sigqoke ingubo yakhe kuphela. Ngaloo ndlela, uya kusindisa umntwana wakho kwamehlo enomona nangamehlo ambi.
- Umtshato wepantshi ugqwesa uthando olude lwexesha elizayo. Ingubo yomtshato emhlophe imfuziselo kaThixo. Ukuzonwabisa, ukuthembeka, ukuthembeka.
- Ukuba ufuna ukutsala imali kwintsapho yakho, khetha iingubo ngezinto zegolide.
- Imibala engathandekiyo yomgubo womtshato - igrey, eluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka, obomvu, obomvu, obomvu.