Wonke umntu uyazi ukuba iziyobisi zonyango ziyakwazi ukuphakamisa isimo sengqondo kwaye ngexesha elifanayo kubangelwa ukuxhatshazwa nokuxhomekeka kubantu. Kungenxa yesi sizathu, ukuxhomekeka kwengqondo kwintengiso, ukukhunjulwa kweengxabano, kunokusindisa intombikazi kwaye ihambele ngokuhlala ebomini bayo, igcwalise intsingiselo yakhe. Ngoko, "ugqirha uthengisa" uyiphilisi kunye nosuku. Makhe sibone iimbambano ezithengisayo.
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Abantu bathi unokuthenga yonke into ngaphandle kovuyo ngokwalo. Kodwa inzululwazi enjengokuthi "inzululwazi yokusetyenziswa" ithi into echaseneyo: awukwazi ukuthenga yonke into, kodwa unonwabo oluncinane luyinyani! Emva koko, sasiqaphela ukuba iimvakalelo ezintle kunye nokunyameka okulula kuthi kuthi kubangelwe kukubona kwemali eyongezelelweyo kunye nethuba lokuzichitha ngaphandle kokulawula. Shokoterapiya phantse iphela, ifana ne-panacea yezifo ezininzi zokomoya. Ngokomzekelo, kwabonakaliswa ukuba ininzi yesondo ephosa phambili emva kokuhlaselwa ngempumelelo kwiintengiso yintloko kunye nokuba kubanda. Kodwa uxolo lwengqondo emva kokuthenga luncedo kakhulu. Kufana nesilwanyana esikhupha imvakalelo kwaye sinceda ukulibala malunga nayo yonke into embi.
"I-Mixtura" yokuzithanda .
Sonke siyazi ukuba abantwana bayazibona izipho njengothando lwabazali babo. Lapha sikhula, siyaqhubeka sizithobela izipho. Ngendlela, "abangondleki" ebuntwaneni, abantwana abaneminyaka banokuchitha ixesha elinjalo kwiintlanzi. Yingakho bancike ngokuthe ngqo kwiintengiso. Ngale ndlela abantu bazivuma ngokwabo uthando, ngaphandle kokucinga nokuba ngaba ukufumana kwabo kuya kuyanconywa ngabahlobo, oogxa okanye izalamane.
"Izigulane" zokuzithemba .
Ngokuqhelekileyo unokucinga ukuba ubomi abukusekeli kakhulu. Ngelizwi, ngenxa yoko, unesihlunu entliziyweni. Yingakho enye i-blouse okanye isambatho sesibini yeesanti - oku akunakwanele kuwe, ufuna ukunyaniseka nangakumbi. Ukwenza oku kuhambo lokuthenga, amaninzi amaninzi athatha iintombi okanye intombi. Kwaye nje apho umboniso opheleleyo uqala: umzuzu wukuinirivaniya wegumbi elifanelekileyo kwaye uthembele unqambi phambi komnye okanye othandekayo. Ngendlela, buza ngokukhawuleza malunga nokuba yintoni into ehamba ngayo - ingcwele. Nangu kuwe kwaye ukhulise ukuzithemba kungekhona kwimeko yothandwa okanye umhlobo, kodwa nazo zonke ezinye iindwendwe kwivenkile. Ukubonakalisa okunjalo kubangela uvuyo olukhulu kumfazi. I-boutique ehloniphekileyo, ukuba khona koluntu - konke okunokwenzeka ukuba nokwazi ukuzithemba.
"Iipilisi" zeengcali .
Usebenza kakhulu kwaye ufuna umsebenzi wakho ujongwe. Yilapho abaninzi beempahla ezihamba phambili behamba ngentloko kunye nentengiso enkulu, apho banokuphumla khona, baphumule baze bathenge into ethile "ye-premium" yabo yemali ethembekileyo. Apha, ke, ukuthengwa kuhambelana nokuphumla kunye nomvuzo kwaye ukhumbuze indlela yokuphumla. Ukongezelela, ukuthenga ngexesha elinjalo kubonakala njengento engqondweni yengqondo.
"Vitaminki" yeemeko .
Ukuziva ugcwele ukudakumba kunye nobuthathaka kunokukhawuleza kutyelele wonke umntu. Inokuthi iququzelelwe ngumsebenzi oqhayisayo okanye oqhelekileyo okanye oqhelekileyo oqhelekileyo imihla ngemihla. Ngokuhamba kwexesha, ezi zintlupheko ziqokelela, kwaye uhambo lokuthengwa kusinceda "siphonye umthamo." Ngexesha elinjalo, ukuthenga kuqinisekisa kuthi sinamandla athile phezu kobomi-ubuncinane amandla okuchitha imali. Kwaye ngenxa yokuthengwa "iivithamini" sikulungele ukuxabana nabantu abasondeleyo malunga neendleko ezingenakulungiswa. Nangu kuwe isibonakaliso esibangela ukuba inqwenela izidakamizwa zizithokoze ngale ndlela.
Ukuthengwa "ukutshatyalaliswa" njengento yokukhuthaza .
Ngokweengxelo zentlalo zentlalo, ukuthenga i-shopping kungasebenza njengomququzeleli wokuphila. Ngokomzekelo, nangona umntu okwangoku engenayo imali engenayo ukuze athenge izinto ezibizayo, unokutyelela izitolo ezibizayo, ezama yonke into ayifunayo ngeengcamango: "Iinyanga ezimbalwa kunye kwaye ndiyakuthenga!". Le ndlela igalelo ekuphumeni komsebenzi wentshiseko. Nangona kunjalo, kule meko, ukuze i-shopping ityenziswe ngokutsha, kuyimfuneko ukubuyela emva kwephulo ngalinye kwii-boutiques nakuba incinci, kodwa kuthengwa ukuvuselela. Oku kunika ingqiqo yokusondela kwizinto eziphambili kunye "ezinkulu" zokuthenga.
"Ugqirha wokuthenga" uncoma ...
Abantu abaninzi banomdla kulo mbuzo: usoloko unomlutha weziyobisi, obizwa ngokuba yi-shopotherapy, ukhuselekile kwaye unobungozi? Njengoko uyazi, konke kulungile, kodwa ngokumodareyitha. Kungenxa yoko, ukuze kungabikho ukuxhomekeka kwayo, "kubalulekile ukuba ubonise ngokucacileyo iinkalo kunye nemilinganiselo yazo. Ukufunwa kwengqondo kwintengiso kubonisa ukuba malunga ne-10% yabantu abemi behlabathi banomdla wokuthenga okungadingekile. Kodwa, ngenhlanhla, iimeko zekliniki zokuchitha yonke imali ekuthengeni ziyanqabile kakhulu. Ngoko, ukucwangcisa uhambo lwakho olulandelayo kwiivenkile, phu laphula iingcebiso zethu kwaye kuphela ukuba ziyabonwa, ukuxhomekeka kwakho kwengqondo kwintengiso kungekubi.
- Ukuthengwa ngaphandle kokuthenga, kuyafana nokulala ngokwesondo! Kungenxa yoko, ukuba imali yakho ayikuvumeli ukuba wenze ukuthenga okukhulu, qhubeka kanje: kuqala wenze uluhlu lwezinto ezifunekayo ngokukhawuleza, kodwa ekuqalekeni ukufunayo ukugcina imali.
- Ungaze uthathe inkqubo yokuthenga phantsi kwengcinezelo yentengiso, umcebisi womhlobo, impembelelo yezaphulelo kunye nokuthengisa. Khumbula, ukuthengwa yisigqibo sakho kunye nokukhetha!
- Yithi hayi ukuphazamisa! Akukho "iindlebe-peshshyu" njalo njalo. Zonke izinto ezithengiweyo akufanele zithwale ngokwazo nayiphi na into engathandabuzekiyo.
- Kwaye, ekugqibeleni, khumbula ukuba ivenkile ayiphilisi, isusa kuphela "iimpawu zesifo." Kungenxa yoko, ngokuphathelele nayiphi na i-painkiller, kukho umphumo wokulutha umlutha ofana nezifiso zeziyobisi. Ngoko ke, bhetele ujongane nokupheliswa kwebangela, ephule ukulinganisela kwengqondo yakho - ngaphandle koko, ngexesha uya kufuna "amanqanaba" athile enetengiso.