Abazali bayazi ukuba ngamanye amaxesha kunzima ukubeka umntwana ukuba alele. Kodwa akukho nto ekuveleni akuyimfuneko, kuba ixesha liyaziwa "iipilisi zokulala" jikelele kubantwana nakubantu abadala - iillabies. Okhokho bethu bakholelwa ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba ukukhuliswa komntwana kuvela kwiillabies, kwaye banika le ngoma intsingiselo engummangaliso, bagcina imifanekiso engummangaliso yobuhedeni baseDrema, Buki, Sna, Ugomon ... Kwixesha langaphambili, ii-lullabies zenza indima yesipelo, ingoma yabuza umama ukumnika amandla omntwana wokulala nokukhula ukwenzela ukuba ucebile kwaye uphilile kwixesha elizayo. I-lullaby nganye yayingenxa yomntwana wakhe - wabhalwa ngumama emva kokuzalwa. Emva koko le ngoma yahlala yinto yakhe yonke yobomi bayo. I-Lullaby kwaye namhlanje yinto yokuqala yomculo wengane.
Ngendlela, abhali be-lullabies abangaphezu kwama-500 bayaziwa, iimbongo ezibhalwa ngamabongozi aseRashiya angabonakaliyo - iZhukovsky, uLermontov, iTvvetaeva nabanye. Musa ukubala iillabies ezimangalisayo ezibhaliweyo ngababongi abadumileyo, iibards zamanje kunye neenkwenkwezi ze pop. Kuvela ukuba lolu hlobo luyimfuneko kwaye namhlanje lusasenza.
Amanqaku endaweni yeepilisi
Kungatsho ngokukhuselekileyo ukuba i-lullabies iyithuluzi lokuphazamiseka jikelele. Ukuqala ukucula iingoma ezidinga iintsana ngexesha lokukhulelwa. Kucaciswa ukuba umntwana esibelethweni uyabona umculo, intetho, intetho yezwi. Osandul 'ukuzalwa, ukuphulaphula iingoma umama azicula kuye, uyaziqonda kwaye azihlaziye phantsi, kunoko uqala ukuphendula ngelizwi lonina aze enze izandi zomculo ngokuphendula.
Ukuhlabelela i-lullabies kunceda ukuphucula isimo sengqondo somfazi ngokwakhe - iimpawu zakhe zokunqanda i-toxicosis, ukukhulelwa kulula. Ukucula kuyanciphisa isigqi seentliziyo, uxinzelelo lubuyela kwinto eqhelekileyo, umntwana ufumana i-oksijini engaphezulu. Kukho ukuvumelanisa kwentliziyo yakhe, kwaye kunye kunye nokuguqulwa kwe-amniotic umthamo umntwana ufumana i-tender massage yenkonyane. Kwixesha elizayo, umama uphucula ubuqhetseba, kukho ukusekwa kobudlelwane obusondeleyo nabantwana; Iintsana ezisanda kuzalwa zifumana amandla ngokukhawuleza.
Iingcali zicebisa ngokucacileyo ukuhlabelela iillabies kubantwana abanesifo sokuphazamiseka komzimba (umsebenzi ongasebenziyo okanye izakhiwo zobuchopho), izandi zokuphefumula, i-bradycardia (ukuncipha kwenani lentliziyo), isifo sengqondo esiswini somzimba. Kuye kwaboniswa ukuba isisombululo esilungileyo sokuthintela imoto kunye neengxaki zentetho (ukubetha, i-tics, iziphazamiso zokusebenzisana, izithintelo zokuhamba ngeemoto) yinto eyingqayizivele yemillabies. Bangakwazi ukukhonza njengendlela yokukhusela emangalisayo. Ukucula i-lullaby kufuneka kusize umntwana ukuba alele, ngoko iingoma ezile ingoma zihlala zizithixo, zihlala zithandana. Kule meko, umntwana akakhathaleli uhlobo luni lomculo umama analo, ukuba ilizwi lakhe lihle ngokwaneleyo, usabonisa kuphela ukuphendula kwisigxina sezwi, ukunyanzeliswa komculo, isandi somculo. Ukuhlabelela i-lullaby kungcono ngokumomotheka, ngoko ilizwi liba lukhulu ngakumbi!
Inyathelo lokuphuhlisa intetho
Ngokucula, umntwana ufumana izifundo zokuqala zokuphuhlisa intetho. Ekuphenduleni unina, uqala "ukuhamba", oko kuthetha ukuba i-larynx yakhe iyaqhubeka - isisombululo esisisiseko somsebenzi wethu wokuthetha. I-lullaby yenzelwe iimpawu zeememori zentsana ezingenakukwazi ukukhumbula ngokucacileyo ulwazi lomlomo. Ukusebenzisa izibhengezo eziphindaphindiweyo zengoma, umntwana uqala ukwenza ulwahlulo phakathi kwamagama athile, okumnceda ukuba aphucule kwaye akwazi ukuthetha intetho ngokukhawuleza, ukuze azenzele ngokucacileyo umxholo wayo. I-Lullabies iququzelelwe malunga nezibizo kunye nezenzi, kuphela yinto yokuba umntwana uyakwazi ukuqonda izinto: izinto kunye nokuhamba kwazo kubonakala kwiingoma. Iimpawu zeellabies ziphindaphinda ngokuphindaphindiweyo, apho ukuhlanganiswa kwesandi, iibllabha, amagama ahlukeneyo kunye nezikhonkwane zabo zivela - ngenxa yoko, ukucebisa isichazi somntwana kuphuculwa. Nangona kunjalo, iillabies ayifuni nje kuphela kwiintsana, kodwa nakwabantwana abadala. Banikeza iziseko zesakhiwo segrama yokuthetha, bancedisa ukwakha amagama ayingcambu eyodwa (umzekelo, "ikati", "ikati", "kotok", "ikati", "kotya").
Kwixesha elidala lokufundela, ukuphuhliswa kwesicatshulwa kuba ngumsebenzi obalulekileyo. Inyaniso eyaziwayo kukuba umntwana walo mdala akasagqibelelwanga ngokufanelekileyo kwaye asebenze ngokucacileyo izixhobo zeenjini zezixhobo. Abantwana abaninzi bahluke ngokukhawuleza kwintetho, ukungabi nakwizwi lokubiza amagama, "ukugwinya" ukupheliswa, okanye indlela ephosakeleyo yokubiza amagama. I-Lullaby i-laconic kwaye icacile ngokuma, inzulu kunye nesigqi, ngoko ke, iphinda iphinda iphinde iphinde iphindaphindiwe, abantwana banqoba ezi mpazamo zentetho. Iimpembelelo eziphambili zokuhlabelela i-lullabies kubantwana kukuphuhliswa kokuguquguquka nokuhamba kwezixhobo zentetho yomntwana, ukwakheka kwesandi ngokuchanekileyo kwezandi, ukuqonda ubuncwane bokungabonakaliyo kunye nentetho eyahlukeneyo.
Iimpembelelo zokubetha iillabies kubalulekile ekuphuhliseni kwengcinga yomntwana. Ubume bomntu omncinci, impilo yakhe yempilo, isantya sokuzinza kwengqondo kuxhomekeka kwiziphi iingoma umama azicula kuye (kwaye ingaba wayedla). Kwi-lullabies, ixabiso eliphezulu kakhulu kwindawo yengane lihlala liqinisekiswa. Ukuphuhliswa ngokupheleleyo kwengane kubalulekile ukwazi ukuba ufunwa kwaye uyathandwa, unina nguye ongcono, kwaye ikhaya lakhe lifudumele kwaye lihle.
Ngaphezu koko, kwi-lullabies umama wakhela ihlabathi elijikelezileyo malunga nomntwana, njengokungathi uqhathanise zonke iingozi zehlabathi langaphandle kunye nokufudumala kwendlu. Ububele, uthando, ukunyaniseka, ukunyaniseka, uxolo, zithwala ezi ngoma, zinciphisa ukukhathazeka okungadingekile, uvuyo. Abantwana abangazange bazi i-lullabies bakhula ukuba babe nobugovu nabangendawo.
Yenza umsindo wokutshintsha ingqalelo
Iingcali zibiza umnqweno onobungozi wokufundisa abantwana ukuba babe yingxolo rhoqo, nokuba i-TV esebenzayo, ikhompyutha ivuliwe, inkulumo ephakamileyo. Ingxelo ethi umntwana "ngokugqibeleleyo" alele elele kwisandi somculo we-rock okanye "pop", inxalenye inokuthi ihambelane nenyaniso. Ingane yodwa ayiyi kulala - iwela kwindawo yokuguqulwa kwengqondo, ukuthetha ngolwimi lolutsha, "ukunciphisa". Inyaniso kukuba ngezwi elikhulu kakhulu kukho ukuphazamiseka okubonakalayo komsebenzi we-cortex ye-cerebral kunye nokuchithwa kwamaziko angaphandle. Oku kuhambelana nombuso wobunxila.
Into elula kwaye engenakonakalisa inokuthi ifumaneke ngokutshintsha i-lullabies kunye ne-TV isethi ukuphuhlisa i-disorder disorder syndrome (ADD) kumntwana. Okwangoku, ngokweengcali zengqondo, le ngqondo ichaphazela i-15-20% yabantwana banamhlanje. Kuboniswa ukungakwazi ukugxila. Abantwana abahluphekayo kwi-ADD abanalo ithuba lokufunda ngokuqhelekileyo, baneengxaki kwiingxaki zabo kwiintsebenziswano zabo nabanye. Enyanisweni, ngubani ofuna ukuba ngumhlobo nomntwana ongenako ukulinda ngokukhawuleza ukujika kwakhe emdlalweni olalisa amathoyizi kwabanye, awaphule, "athabathe" kuzo zonke iintlobo zemithetho yemidlalo? Abantu abadala abane-ADD baninzi banenkinga yokudakumba kwabantu, ukunyamekela kobundlobongela, ukusetyenziswa kakubi kotywala kunye neziyobisi.
I-Attention Deficit Syndrome, ngethamsanqa, iyakwazi ukulungiswa. Kodwa i-alexithymia eyona nto-ukungakwazi ukuvakalisa iimvakalelo zabo ngamazwi-ayiniki indlela yokulungiswa. Kukho isizathu sokukholelwa ukuba ukuphuhliswa ngokomzwelo komntu kuxhomekeke ngqo kwimodeli yobudlelwane "nomama wengane" kwasebuncinaneni. Ukungabikho kokufudumala kunye nokuqhagamshelana phakathi konina nomntwana kuphenduka iingxaki ezininzi kunye nexesha. Uphononongo lubonisa ukuba ama-5-23% ebemi behlabathi aneminye imilinganiselo ye-alexithymic, kunye namadoda ahlwaywa ngamaxesha angama-8 ukuya kwimihla engaphezulu kweyabasetyhini. Aba bantu bangabonakali ngokucacileyo ukuvakalelwa kwabo ngokomzimba (ngemimiselo, ukuthelekiswa), kuba kunzima, nangona kunjalo, ukuyiqulunqa ngokucacileyo. Ukuqhagamshelana kwabo ngokuqhelekileyo ngokuqhelekileyo kuncinci, kubonakaliswe ukuxhatshazwa kwimizimba kunye nokunyakaza, intlupheko yobuso buso.
Ngoko ncoma kubantwana bakho lullabies ubuncinane ukuya kwiminyaka emithathu! Oku kuya kubanceda bakhule ukuze babe ngabantu abanokulinganisela nabanobungane. I-lullaby ngumlingo. Impembelelo yokucula iillabies kubantwana ibangela iimvakalelo ezinamandla kunye neemvakalelo, ezifana nothando, uthando, ukunakekela. Bazalelwa kwimiphefumlo yeemvumi kunye nabaphulaphuli balalaby. Ukwazi ukusebenzisa ngokufanelekileyo ezi ntlobo!