Indlela yokuphatha umntwana ezandleni zakho kwaye ungalimazi impilo yakho

Njengoko umntwana ekhula, isisindo saso sanda, kuba nzima kakhulu ukuba uphakamise umntwana kwizandla zakho, uphathe kwaye wenze ezinye izenzo kunye naye. Ngaphezu koko, kukho umngcipheko wokulimala xa uphakamisa ubunzima (ngakumbi kwiimeko ezinjalo, izihlunu zezandla kunye nezantsi).


Ukukhulisa umntwana kwindawo yokuhlala

Le ndlela yokukhulisa izandla zentsana iya kunika ukhuseleko oluphezulu kwaye ikuncede usebenzise amandla akho. Isekelwe ekulayisuleni izithambo zomzimba ngexesha lokuphakamisa izisindo. Okokuqala, yenza zonke iintshukumo ngaphandle komntwana, kuba le ndlela idinga ukuqeqeshwa kwezandla kunye neenyawo (yonke imithwalo idluliselwa kwiilungu).

Ngaphambi kokuba uqalise izikwere, wolule umlenze, uphakamise iingalo zakho ngqo phezu kwentloko yakho kwaye uguqa ngamadolo. Gcina umva wakho ngqo. Emva koko kehla phantsi iingalo zakho kwaye ulungise imilenze yakho eluhlaza, esondele phambili. Ngoku uguqa ngamadolo, thabatha umntwana ngentshontsho kunye nokunyuka okukhawulezayo ukuphakamisa (umva wakho uhleli ngqo). Izandla zenza inye-ntshukumo efanayo nangokuqala komsebenzi (kunye nesantya somlenze). Ukwahlukana kuphela kukuba umthwalo ezandleni zongezwa - ubunzima bomzimba womntwana xa lukhuphukela phezulu. Emva koko uvuka kunye nokwandiswa kwamadolo, kodwa (!) Musa ukuxhomekeka phambili.

Umthamo ophantsi womzimba uhambelana nokuphuphuma okucothayo kwaye okupheleleyo; Ukuphefumula okukhulu kuqala xa umntwana ephakanyisiwe.

Ukukhulisa umntwana ukusuka kwindawo "yokugxila phambili"

Ukuba kunzima ukuba ukhuphuke nomntwana ezandleni zakho, ukungafihli ngamadolo akho, ukuguqa phambili kungenakugwema. Zama ukuphakamisa umntwana usenkundleni ngendlela efanelekileyo ukuze uphephe ukunqumla umva wakho.

Thatha inyathelo elibanzi kumntwana elele phantsi. Khangela ngokukhawuleza umlenze, osele ngasemva, uhambisa isikhulu sobushushu kuwo. Yenza kule ndawo iminyango emininzi yomzimba kumntwana, ukuze uzive ukunyakaza oza kuyenza. Uqeqesho olunjalo ngaphandle komntwana luyakunceda ukuba uhlakulele ukuzinza xa ugxotha emva nangaphandle uze ufumane ukuzithemba.

Ngexesha elizayo ukujikela phambili ngezandla zombini, thabatha umntwana ngeemvumba, ungaphambuki umlenze emva kwaye uguqa umlenze phambili phambi kokuphakamisa umntwana ezandleni zakhe.

Emva kokuphefumula, qala ukuphakamisa, ukuhambisa umzimba. Uvukile kunye nomntwana ezandleni kwaye ulungelelanise, unyuke kakhulu.

Ukuphakanyisana okuhlangeneyo ukusuka kumgangatho

Le ndlela iyanconywa xa umntwana enzima ngokwaneleyo ukuba akhonze njengelinye icala. Ukuphunyezwa kwansuku zonke kule ntshukumo kuya kunceda ukwandisa ubuchule bakho kunye nokuguquguquka, qinisa i-press.

Kneel kufuphi nomntwana. Emva koko ubeke unyawo olunye phantsi uze ulungele umzimba. Thatha umntwana ngentshontsho, ubhekane nawe, uhlale emadolweni uze uqhube phambili kwidolophu yokukhawuleza, uguqa phambili nomzimba. Gcina umntwana kude nawe, vuka naye.

Xa uncike phambili - u-inhale, xa uphakamisa nomntwana ezandleni zakhe-uphume.

Ukugqoka umntwana kwimodi yokuphumula

Urhulumente okhululekile ngexesha lokudluliselwa komntwana alukhuseli kuphela umva wakho, kodwa unokuba negalelo lokuzithemba nokuthuthuzela wena kunye nosana. Ukuphucula indlela ophethe ngayo umntwana njengoko ubunzima bakho bunyuselwa, ukhangele isikhundla somntwana kwaye ulungelelanise ngokufanelekileyo izixhobo ozisebenzisayo ukuzithwala.

Ukugqoka kwinqama

Ukuze enye yesandla sakho ihlale nomntwana ephethe ikhululekile, zama ukubeka umntwana entanyeni yakho, buyele kuwe. Oku kungcono kunokuhluka okuqhelekileyo, okubandakanya ukubeka umntwana "ekhwele" kwi-hip, oku kukuthi, ejongene nawe. Le ndlela yokugqoka ingabangela i-asymmetry yengane ye-pelvic, ukuphulwa kwe-posture, iingxaki zokuhamba.

Gcina umntwana ehleli ekhanda lakho ngesandla esisinye kwindawo yesifuba. Ukulungiswa okukhuselekileyo kwengane, vumani nje umlenze apho uhleli khona. Ngoko unokuhamba ngokulula kwaye uthathe izinto ngesandla sakho samahhala, kwaye umntwana akayi kuphazamiseka ngombono. Ngangoko kunokwenzeka, phucula umgca wengalo ephethe "ukuthuka". Ubunzima bomntwana kufuneka buwa ngokukodwa kwi-hip "seat".

Ukuba uvakalelwa kukuba uxinzelelo olungalawulekiyo kunye nale ndlela yokuxhasa, ngumqondiso wokuthi wenze iphutha xa wenza. Ukuthwala okufanelekileyo kwintsana ngendlela yokwenza inkxaso kuncedwa ngokusemgangathweni kwaye akuthethi ukuvakalelwa.

Ukugqoka ngenkxaso yesandla

Ukuthwala okunyameko komntwana ngale ndlela kukuqhubela phambili indlela echazwe ngaphambili ehambisa iintsana ezisemagxeni. Kungathatha ixesha ngaphambi kokuba umntwana afunde ukuphumla kwesi sikhundla ukuba awuzange usebenze kunye nosana ngaphambili.

Beka umntwana kwibele yakhe ukuze izandla zakhe zixhomekeke emhlane wakho. Isandla, negama elifanayo ehlombe, kuxhasa umntwana. Umsebenzi womntwana ufunde ukuphumla kwesi sikhundla kwaye ngexesha elifanayo gcina ibhalansi ngokwakho. Ukufezekisa ukuphumla okupheleleyo ngumntwana, unciphise intloko yesana ehlombe lakho, uphawule umva kwaye uzame ukususa ingalo exhasekileyo. Kwixesha elizayo, umntwana uya kukwazi ukwenza ngaphandle kwe-inshurensi yesandla sakho.

Le ndlela yokuphatha abantwana ikulungele kwaye imfuyo yomntu omdala. Inokuthi iqhutyelwe ixesha elide-ukuya kwi-6 iminyaka.

Ukugqoka kwisithuba phantsi kwe-armpit

Ukususela kwenkxaso enokwethenjelwa, umzekelo "uhlezi kwinqumlo," uye kwenye inketho: faka umntwana kwindawo ephakamileyo kwinquno yakhe ukuze alala phantsi, kwaye ubeka isandla sakho ngasemva nangesifuba sakhe.

Zama ukugxuma kunye nokugijima kunye nomntwana phantsi kwengalo yakho, kwaye ujonge indlela asabela ngayo.

Ukuba intamo yomntwana ayengagcinwa ngokupheleleyo, sebenzisa eli gxalali kuphela ukuhamba ngokukhawuleza, ukuhamba ngokukhululekile.

Ukhule uphilile!