Abesifazane baseSlavic iminyaka emininzi bayithathwa njengelona lihle kakhulu kwihlabathi. Kutheni sifundela kakhulu? Ngokuqhelekileyo ingxaki isentloko yethu, kungekhona umzimba. Olunye u-censor lwangaphakathi usathi into ephosakeleyo, into ingaba ngcono. Yenza isivumelwano kunye nalo mbuzo kwaye uzive kakuhle emzimbeni wakho!
Fumana oko kukubangela ukwaneliseka
Khawucinge ukuba kutheni ungahlali ujabule ngokubonakala kwakho. Ngaba kwakusoloko kunjalo? Buyela engqondweni yakho kwiminyaka yakho yesikolo. Mhlawumbi ezinye iingxelo ezimbi ezivela kubafundi ofunda nabo zilimaza? Ngokomzekelo, ubizwa ngokuba yi-clumsy, inqatha okanye inqabile? Okanye xa useneminyaka elishumi elivisayo, wacasulwa ukuba abafana bahlekisayo malunga nomfanekiso wakho. Ngenxa yoko bembethe iingubo zokuzifihla. Okanye umama wakho ugxeke njengalokhu: "Akufanele ugqoke iingubo ngemilenze yakho". Kwaye kangangokuba iminyaka engama-15 elandelayo wambathisa iifestile? Okanye, mhlawumbi, ukuba ungumfazi osekhulile, uye wabhekana nokukhohlakeleka kunye nokunyeliswa ngumthandayo? Ingaba umyeni wakho wangaphambili ugxeke ukuba unamafutha? . .
Uninzi lweengxaki zethu namhlanje zixhomekeke kwixesha elidlulileyo. Ukuchonga umthombo weengxaki zakho - oku kuya kuba yinyathelo lakho lokuqala.
Fumana ubuchule kwimbonakalo yakho
Yima phambi kwesibuko esingaphantsi kwengubo yangaphantsi, jonga ngokwakho. Yintoni oyithandayo kakhulu ngomzimba wakho? Yitsho ngokuzwakalayo: "Ndiyathanda amabele ami," "Ndiyayithanda inwele yam enempilo, epholileyo," "Ndinexabiso elincinane." Ziphinda uzenzele imihla ngemihla, njengesitatimende (thumela uphawu oluhle), kwaye ugxininise izixhobo zomzimba ezincedo. Buza izalamane zakho ukuba zancede-mazitsho ukuba kuwe zikhangeleke kakhulu. Ngokuphathelele iimpazamo zicela ukuthula.
Jonga ngokwakho ngothandekayo bakho.
Ukuqhuba uvavanyo. Bhala kwiphepha ezintlanu izinto ongazithandiyo ngokubonakala kwakho (ubuso, umzobo). Emva koko cela umyeni wakho okanye umhlobo omhle ukuba enze uludwe lwezinto ezi-5 abathanda kakhulu ngawe. The lekisa ezimbini uluhlu. Unokufumanisa ukuba oko ucinga ukuba kukungalungi kulabo abakujikelezile kuyinkolelo yangempela!
Kufuneka uqaphele ukuba abantu abahlukeneyo banokukujonga ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo. Gxininisa ingqalelo kwiimpawu ezibonakalayo zokubonakala kwakho uze ubalekele iimpazamo. Yenza oku rhoqo ngangokunokwenzeka.
Yeka ukufihla phantsi kweengubo!
Hlola ikhabethe yakho kwaye ufumane iimpahla ezifihla ngokupheleleyo. Ngamanye amaxesha ufanele usebenzise ukufumana uncedo-ngaphandle kokuba kube lula ukuba wenze oko. Lahla le mpahla! Khumbula ukuba izinto zeengxowa zithengisa ngokuvakalayo ivolumu, kodwa yongeza iminyaka. Ngaba uyayifuna le nto?
Hamba ukuthenga. Yenza okokuqala yedwa, zama ukufumana oko ungathanda ukugqoka ngaphandle kokukhangela idatha yakho yangaphandle. Makungabikho ubuncinane into enjalo kwidilesi. Mhlawumbi akuyi kuphelela kuwe, kodwa kuyo unokuba mnandi, kuba uya kuba nethemba.
Ungabi khoboka lemikhwa yakho. Ngaba usetyenziselwa ukugqwesa amabhulukwe kunye neekhati? Kodwa oku akuhambelani kunye nobufazi. Kule nto awukwazi ukulala ngesondo, kodwa ngamnye umfazi ufuna. Funda ukuzonwabisa kwaye ujabulele ubuncinane bakho.
Musa ukwethuka kwigumbi lokulala
Ingcamango yokuba iqabane lakho liza kukucela ukuba ukhanyise ukukhanya ekamelweni lokulala, likukhathaze? Kubonakala kuwe ukuba umntu ubona izithanga zakho ezipheleleyo, iimpawu zeselulite okanye ifomu engaphelelekanga, ngaba uya kushiya ngokukhawuleza? Yeka!
Enyanisweni, amadoda alele embhedeni ayakhathalelekanga malunga nokusilela komzimba wakho kunokuba ucinge. A thu thuzeli? Ewe, zama izenzo ezilula eziza kunceda ukunqoba ihlazo.
Okokuqala, hlalutye isidima sakho. Thenga iilerie ezinobungqina obuza kugxininisa amandla akho uze uzifihle iimpazamo ezincinane. Emva koko ubonakale phambi komlingane uze ucele umbono wakhe. Kulula kakhulu ukuba ngumntu ochukumisayo!
Okwesibini, xa ufumana ezandleni zomnye, vala amehlo akho kwaye ugxininise ekunandeleni kwimizimba enikezelwa ngumzimba. Ngexesha elifanayo, ukukhanya okukhawulezayo kwamakhandlela akuyi kuphazamisa kwindawo esondeleyo. Kukunceda kuphela.
Funda ukufumana udumo
Abasetyhini bethu bahlala enkolelweni yokuba umntu makathobe kwizinto zonke. Ngoko ke, amagama: "Ukhangeleka namhlanje," sivame ukuphendula: "Oo, ungubani! Ndandihlangana ngokukhawuleza, kwaye ngokuqhelekileyo intloko yam yenzakalisa, inento emilenzeni yam ... "Yeka! Ngexesha elizayo xa umntu uthetha into entle kuwe, mncoma uze uthi: "Ndiyabonga, ndizama." Zama ukuthanda umzimba wakho, nwabele into yokuba umntu ubona izibonelelo zokubonakala kwakho.
Musa ukugxeka umzimba wakho ngenxa yokusilela komntu
Ubani na, kwaye akunjani ukuba ubukeka njani, kubalulekile. Uzicingela wena: "Ubomi bam buya kuba lula kwaye bubhetele, ukuba ndibe neempumlo ezincinci, andizange ndambathe ezi ziglasi, imilenze yayiya kuba yinde ..." Umzobo womzimba ongeyonto unokunciphisa ukuzithemba. Musa ukuvumela oku. Musa ukugxeka umzimba wakho ngenxa yokungaphumeleli ebomini. Cinga ngento yokuba abaninzi abafazi, nangona bengabonakali kakuhle, bakwazi ukuphumelela.
Musa ukukhathazeka ngokutya!
Uzikhanyela kaninzi into enandi? Ngaba kwenzeka ukuba ube nolwaphulo olukhulu emva kweqebengwana lekhekhe okanye ushokoledi? Ngoko, lixesha lokutshintsha isimo sakho sengqondo.
Ukutya kunokunceda kuphela xa kukho isiqalo esicacileyo, injongo ecacileyo. Ngokomzekelo, ufuna ukulahleka u-5 kg ukubeka i-suit yokuthambisa yakho eyintandokazi kwakhona. Gcina kule ndawo, kodwa ungayidluli.
Kwakhona ulindelwe. Ukuba unomfazi omude onamaqabunga amaninzi, ngoko akukho kutya kunokukwenza ube ngumfazi omncinci.