Onke oomama bayazi ukuba umntwana uyakhala, ngoko ulambile okanye unama-panties amanzi, okanye mhlawumbi umntwana uyagula. Kodwa ukuba inkunzi yinkomo, nangona usanda kumondla kwaye i-diaper yome. Yintoni na? Zonke iintsana zihlukile. Omnye uphendula ngokukhalela kuyo nayiphi na inkcukacha, omnye ubekezela ngokukhawuleza kunye nentlungu. Kodwa kungakhathaliseki ukuba yintoni impawu, kukho izinto zonke iintsana ezingenako ukuma. Kwaye bahlala bekunelisekile ekunganeliseki kwabo, kuba ezinye i-stimuli azikho nje ezilungileyo, kodwa ziyingozi nakwi-slough. Yintoni ebangela ukunganeliseki phakathi kwezingane zethu?
Amannies amaninzi
Ukuba uya emsebenzini, qinisekisa kwangaphambili ukuba ngexesha lokungabikho, inkunzi yakho ayidluli ngesandla. Ngaphambi kokuba isidlo sakusasa sihlala nogogo, emva kweeyure ezimbini i-nanny, emva koko intombi yakho okanye udade. Umntwana kufuneka asebenze kumntu oyedwa (imihla yonke ifanayo). Umntwana ufuna ukuhlala rhoqo kunye nengqiqo yokhuseleko. Ukuba abantu abaninzi banakekele umntwana ngexesha elifanayo, uya kuziva ngathi akayena mntu, engabalulekanga.
Umsindo kunye nesandi esikhulu
I-TV enobuhle, ukulungiswa okulukhuni emva kwodonga, ukukhala kwabantu abaselula kwisitrato-zonke izandi ziyakhathaza umntu omdala. Kuthekani ngomntwana. Akayiqondi imvelaphi yale mivalo, ngoko abayicaphukisi kakhulu ngokuyikrakra. Ukongeza, isandi esomeleleyo esinokuthi sichaphazele ukuva komntwana. Kwaye izandi ezizithethileyo zokutshintsha rhoqo kwi-TV okanye kwi-rediyo zinganciphisa ukuphuhliswa kwentetho kwintsana.
Kodwa musa ukuyibeka ngokuthula. Umntwana kufuneka akhule kwindawo eqhelekileyo, kungekhona kwindawo yokubamba ukuluhlaza. Musa ukuhamba ngeenxa zonke kuye kwi-tiptoe, nangona elele.
Chaos
Unako ukuguqula umntu omdala. Ukungabikho kolawulo olucacileyo lusuku luyingozi kakhulu kuncinci. Nangona umfazi omncinci, oneminyaka emininzi ubudala, elala ngobuninzi bemihla, uhlala ngokuvumelana nesigxina sakhe semvelo (ixesha lokulala lihamba kunye nexesha lokuvuka). Urhulumente ocacileyo wolu suku unika amaqabunga nje ngengqondo yokhuseleko, kodwa ufundisa umntwana ukuba ahambe ngexesha. Jonga xa i-karapuz yakho ijongene nemidlalo, kwaye xa ifuna ukuphumla. Zama ukungammangazi njengam: "Namhlanje siza kusasa ekuseni, kungekuhlwa"
Boredom
Iintsana zikhala nje kuphela ngenxa yendlala okanye kwi-diaper emanzi. Ngamanye amaxesha ayinangqondo, kuba iyakhathazeka. I-karapuz, ohlala ehlala yedwa kuye, ikhula ngokukhawuleza, kwaye inesishukumisi esinamandla sokufunda ngehlabathi nokufumana izakhono ezintsha. Ngenqabileyo, kufuneka uxoxe, udlale, udla ngokukhawuleza. Khumbula ukuba kwiintsana ukuzonwabisa ngokuqhagamshelana kukufutshane kunye nonyoko: uyakuthanda ukubukela, phulaphula ilizwi lakho, phinda uphendule. Akukho mdlalo wezemidlalo oza kuzisa umphumo olindelekileyo, ukuba awuyidlale nomntwana.
I-stimuli eyongeziweyo
Ngaphezulu kwesikhalazo siphendulela isithuthi, malunga nombolo enkulu yamathoyizi ahlakazekile. Kwimvelaphi yayiquka iingoma zesiNgesi, indlu iya rhoqo ityelelwa yiindwendwe ezizama ukubamba izicathulo ezandleni zabo, i-pokagukat kunye nayo ... ngaphandle kwalolu hambo ukuya echibini, nokuxuba, kunye nomama esitolo. Yincinci kumntwana. Abantwana bathanda ukubukela okwenzekayo, bathanda ukuba phakathi kwezithuba, kodwa ezi ziganeko akufanele zibe zininzi. Xa zizungezwe inani elikhulu leemvakalelo, zisabela ngokukhala, ngamanye amaxesha zinengxaki zokulala. Ngoko musa ukuzalisa iimvuthu ngamathoyizi, kwaye ungazami ukujongana nazo izinto ezilikhulu kwangoko. Xa ubona ukuba intsana iphendule intloko, ivala amehlo, ithetha ukuba uyakhathele. Mnike ithuba lokuphumla.
Izambatho ezingenakuthenjwa
I-jeans encinci yengubo, yeyona nto imfashini kwaye inhle, kodwa ingenakunceda umntwana. Akakwazi ukugubha ngokuzenzekelayo izandla zakhe, ukubamba emilenzeni, oko kukuthi, ukuqeqesha imisipha yakhe, ukuhlakulela ukulungelelaniswa kwezinto. "Umntu omncinane" osondeleyo akagcini nje kuphela, kodwa uyingozi kwimpumputhe nangamahlunu omntwana. Ngoko ke, zithengela iimfumba kwiingubo zendalo kwaye ngokukhawuleza ukusika. Izinto zezingane akufanele zibe zikhulu kakhulu, ukwenzela ukuba angadideki kwiebhulukhwe ezide, umzekelo, ngexesha lokulala okanye ukudlala, okubangela ukuba unganelise umntwana.
Khumbula ukuba kukho iimeko ezingabangela ukukhathazeka umntwana, kodwa zingalimaza kakhulu impilo yakhe.
Ukushisa okukhulu
Ootitshala bezilwanyana abadini xa bethetha ukuba ukuphefumula kuyingozi kakhulu kubantwana abancinci, kuba iinkqubo zokwenziwa kwe-thermoregulation azange zilungiswe. Iqondo lokushisa kwigumbi lomntwana akufanele lidlule kwi-22 ° C. Ukuba umntwana ushushu, uqala ukuthuthumela, kuba nzima kuye ukuphefumula, ukukhupha kubonakala kwesikhumba. Ngokwemvelo, oku kunokubangela ukunganeliseki kumntu omncinci.
Umsi wecuba
Ukuba umntu ohlala kwindlu yakho uyabhema, nangona ngefestile, ngoko kungena kwimiphunga yengane ifumana izinto eziyingozi. Umsi wecuba ugxeka iimbumba zomzimba zomoya wokuphefumula, ngenxa yokuba i-karapuz iyakuthatha kalula izifo ezahlukeneyo.
Ihoywa iinyembezi zezingane
Ungamvumeli umntwana akhale, njengoko ama-ugogo ngamanye amaxesha bacebisa. Ukuba umntwana uyakhala, oko kukubi kuye, udinga uncedo lwakho, ukuqonda nokuthanda. Kwaye akukho mbuzo wokunyanzelisa abantwana. Xa ungaphenduli kwiinyembezi zentsana, uyayeka ukuziziva ekhuselekile.
Kukho izinto ezibangela ukunganeliseki phakathi kwabantwana bethu, kwaye kufuneka kwenziwe ngokumelene nentando yakhe. Akufanele uhambe kwimeko kwaye kufuneka ubonise ukuqina kwaye ungayithobeli kwiinyembezi zezingane.
Ukucoca umtshini
Abantwana abayithandi, kodwa akukho nto iyanqwenela ukulala okanye idle nge-spouted spout. Zama ukwenza le nkqubo ngokukhawuleza. Kwaye ngexesha lokubamba ngokuzenzele ukuthetha kunye nokuzamazama, zama ukumphazamisa, umzekelo, ukucula ingoma yakhe oyithandayo.
Ukuhlamba kweso
Zama ukuhlala uxolo kwaye ugweme ukuhamba ngokukhawuleza. Musa ukuphazamisa inkqubo ezininzi, kuba umntwana uyakhala. Ngelihlo ngalinye, thabatha ipetroti ecocekileyo.
Ukugqoka
Iintsana ezincinane azifuni ukutshintsha iimpahla. Ngokukodwa abafuni ukugqoka izinto ezigqoke phezu kwentloko. Ngoko okokuqala zama ukuphepha loo mizekelo. Ukuphazamisa umntwana, mxelele isigqi kwaye ngokukhawuleza uza kusetshenziselwa le nkqubo.