Ngokuqinisekileyo, ukuqokelela iibhegi kwi-dacha, kufuneka uthathe zonke iintlobo zemidlalo: i-badminton, i-flying saucers, ibhola, iinqwelo ... Nangona kunjalo, izixhobo ezinjalo ezikhangayo aziyi kubanika ukuphucula okulungileyo kumntwana. Abantwana beli lizwe kufuneka bawenze - badlale nabo, baxhumane nabo basebenze malunga nendlu okanye kwintsimi, bakhusele, babeke iimpawu kwaye bavumele ukuba bacingisise ... Imidlalo yezingane emoyeni omtsha-isihloko sesicatshulwa.
Umncedi Omncinci
Ukususela esemncinci, abantwana kufuneka baxhomekeke kumsebenzi wabantu abadala. Ngokuqinisekileyo inkunzi imthanda ukukunceda ukuba unakekele iibhedi. Thenga kwakhe izixhobo zegadi, ukuhlambela kwaye undixelele ukuba ndenzeni. Kuhle ukunika umntwana umyezo wakhe. Xoxa naye ngokunyanisekileyo ukuba uya kutyala, yintoni uhlobo lwezityalo ezigadiweyo, ukuba kufuneka zityilwe njani ... Ngabantwana abadala (ukususela kwiminyaka emihlanu ubudala), umntu unokugcina idayari yokuqwalasela, enze iipaspoti zezityalo, ukuqokelela i-herbarium. Ukuhamba ngamakhowe ehlathini okanye ubisi kwidolophana, ungakhohlwa ukuzisa umntwana wakho. Ehlathini, uya kuba nomdla kwimithi emitsha, ungabonisa indlela eyahlukileyo ngayo imithi encinane kubantu abadala, laphula ukucula kweentaka, ukuqokelela amajikijolo, amakhowa. Kwaye kwidolophana, uya kuvuyela ukujwayelana nenkukhu, ihansi, iinkomo, iibhokhwe kunye namahashe.
Izixhobo zemidlalo
Ewe, iimidlalo ezahlukahlukeneyo kunye nezixhobo ezazisetyenziswa kuzo, uya kuba lula kuwe ukuba uququzelele ukungcebeleka komntwana. Ungalindelanga ukuba umntwana wakho uya kuhlala. Lungiselela ukudlala i-badminton, i-tennis (enkulu okanye itafile ye-tennis), ibhola lebhola kunye ne-volleyball, uphonsa iipilati, ugibele ibhasikidi (kakuhle, okanye ugijime ngasecaleni) uze ume ekhanda lakho (xa ufuna ukuba ufunde i-yoga yabantwana nosana). Indlela enhle yokubamba inkunzi yenkomo kukumbeka ibhokisi ye-sandbox (unokwenza okanye uzuze ifomu elenziwe ngokufanelekileyo), i-pool yokubhukuda, kunye nebala lokudlala labantwana (abantwana bathanda ama-slide, ama-slides, ama-hammocks kunye neenqanawa zabo). Ndimele ndithi, ngenye inzame, kunye nentaba, kunye nendlu, kunye ne-swing, ungazakhela. Into ephambili kukuba ukhethe umzobo ofunekayo kunye nesikhokelo sokwenza isenzo - zininzi zazo kumaphephancwadi nakwi-intanethi - kunye nesitokethi kunye nemali efunekayo yezixhobo kunye nomonde (phakathi kwezinye izinto, unokwenza ibhokhwe kwisakhiwo - unokukhonza izikhonkwane okanye ukunceda upende). Nangona kunjalo, ukuba olu khetho alukho "malunga nawe", yonke into onokuyithengayo kwiivenkile (inzuzo ngoku ungayifumana nayiphi na into oyithandayo).
Imidlalo ekudlalwa ngayo abantwana
Ukuzonwabisa kunye nomakhulu okanye umama yinto enye, kodwa umntwana wakho kufuneka akhulise izakhono zentlalo, afunde ukuba ngabahlobo kunye nokuthetha noontanga. Ukuba umntwana wakho uzama ukuzazana nabanye abantwana, ncedise ukuba akwenze. Mema abantwana abangummelwane kwiwebhusayithi yakho, ulungiselele imincintiswano, i-barbecues kunye nemicimbi yezemidlalo yangaphandle. Ngeke uqaphele ukuba abantwana bahamba njani kwaye baqale ukuhlangana nganye ngemini. Nangona kunjalo, inyaniso yokuba umntwana wakho unomhlobo (okanye inkampani yonke) akusisona ithuba lokuzibonelela. Batshele imidlalo okanye ncedise ukuphucula abo badlala kuyo. Abantwana banomdla kumaNdiya? Ngoko, zenze iingubo ezifanelekileyo, zolule isaphetha uze ubafundise indlela yokwenza izicathulo (kuzo zonke iintlobo zengca kunye nococa). Into ephambili ayikufumani oko abafana abakwenzayo. Ngaba abantwana baya kuhlamba ngeendwangu? Khawula amakrele kunye nabo kwaye wenze izixhobo ezikhupha ngaphandle kwekhadibhodi ... Hayi, ekugqibeleni, luququzelele i-summer theater. Khetha iindaba ezithile zefayile, usasaze indima, ugqibe iingubo, ubeke indawo kwaye umeme abanye abazali kwi-premiere. Eli hlobo ihlobo lakho akunakwenzeka ukuba ulibale!
Kwimozulu ebi
Ukuba imvula kwi-dacha, ungasebenzisi i-TV. Imozulu embi yithuba elihle kakhulu kwimidlalo yetafile yintsapho yonke, kunye nokufunda ngokubhaliweyo kweencwadi kunye nokulungiselela izitya eziyinkimbinkimbi, ezingenakufikeleleka kwiintsuku ezishushu. Kwimvula yemvula, sebenzisana kunye nomzekelo womntwana (umzekelo, ukusuka kwintlama yomnyuwa), ukudweba, ukwenza iifowuni, ukuqonda ubuchule be-origami okanye umfundise indlela yokudibanisa kunye nokwenza imbobo. Oomkhulu okanye ootata bangafundisa umntwazana okhulayo ukuba asebenze ngexeshana, abone, okanye acwangcise i-mini. Ezi zakhono ziya kuba luncedo kumntu ozayo kwaye ziya kumnceda kakhulu. Into ephambili yindlela yokukhusela! Zama ukugcina umqhubi womntwana emoyeni. Kungcono ukuwubeka emthunzini kwaye uhlale uwugubungela ngomnatha womlingo. Ukuba umntwana wakho sele sele eqalise ukukhwela, musa ukuwukhawulela kwi-orna okanye umbhoxo okhethekileyo. Makhe aye kwokhula - ngokwembono yabantwana besifo sezingane, oku kuya kuba yinto enamandla yokuphuhlisa intuthuko yomntwana. "Pakisha" umntwana wakho kwisiringi kwaye uhambe naye egadi kunye nendlu, kukuvumela ukuba uthinte nantoni na ayifunayo. Tshela umntwana ukuba imithi, iintaka, iintaka, izilwanyana, izinto zibizwa ngokuba ziphi. Naliphina inyathelo kufuneka liguqulwe libe ngumdlalo. Ukuba umntwana wakho ufunde ukuhamba kwaye usenako ukwenza oko, khuthaza umdla wakhe. Nciphisa isanti kwiqonga uze udibanise umzila othakazelisayo, ucele umntwana ukuba alandele iinyawo zakho. Ngomntwana omdala, unokuza nomdlalo "Uvimba". Fumana ithoyizi entsha kwindawo ethile, udwebe imephu yongcingo kwaye ufike ngoluhlu lweengcebiso. Ingane iya kuvuyela ukufumana ithoyizi yakhe.