Imithetho yabazali
Awukwazi ukushiya umntwana wakho engalindelekanga. Le ngxaki! Khusela umntwana wakho kwi-maniac kunye nomdlwenguli, zama ukulawula iindawo zokuhamba kwakhe, ungavumeli ukuhamba wedwa kwiindawo ezinobungozi (izakhiwo zokwakha, i-kindergartens kunye nezikwere ngokuhlwa). Ukuba awukwazi ukulandela umntwana, thethana nabazali banye abantwana ukuze balawulwe bakho.
Umntwana ohlala ekhaya okhulelwe ngumkhwa wokudlwengula: uyathemba, uyathobela aze asetyenzise ukuthembela kubadala. Fundisa umntwana wakho ukuba angadibana nomntu ongaziwayo, nokuba phantsi kweengcamango ezicacileyo-ukunceda ukukhangela inja, uvule umnyango, qalisa imoto, njl njl.
AmaMacac ahlakaniphile : ejikeleza indawo yokudlala kunye nokuva iingxoxo zabafana, unako ukubuyela kumntwana ngegama, azenzele njengomhlobo wopapa, umlingane womama. Ngokuqhelekileyo khumbuza umntwana, bonisa ukuba akukho mntu ekungabikho kwabazali abayi kucela nantoni na. Umntwana kufanele alalele wena kuphela! Ukongezelela, akukho mnye umntu omdala oza kufuna uncedo kumntwana. Fundisa unyana wakho okanye intombi ngeemeko ezinjalo ngobuchule, kodwa phendula ngokuqinile: "Cela uncedo kubantu abadala." Uze ulibale amava akho, lo msebenzi uhloniphekile kumntu ongaziwayo okanye kungekhona.
Umntwana kufuneka aphephe ukudibanisa nabantu abasengozini. Ezi zilwanyana zilutha, izidakwa, zibethelelwe. Ukuba abantu abanjalo bekhona phakathi kwabamelwane bakho, thintela umntwana ukuba axubushe nabo. Akunabantu kuphela abasengozini kwiqela elijongene nobungozi. Ngokuqhelekileyo, abatywala, izidakamizwa kunye nabadlwenguli bavolontiya kubahlali basekhaya, ukunyenga abantwana ukuba bahlasele. Abafana basuke bethemba kakhulu abafazi abaninzi.
Abantu baseMerika bafundisa abantwana babo : ukuba bathunjwa kwindawo ephakamileyo, kufuneka udandule: "Uncedo, andiyazi, ndiyithunjwa!" Baya kuthi ke baya kuhlangula, kwaye i-pedophile izakuphonsa ixhoba elikhethiweyo, liloyike abanye. Ukuba umntwana uyakhala kuphela okanye uzama ukuphepha, abadlulayo banokucinga ukuba umntwana uhleli nje, kwaye uya kudlula.
Amadlwengulo amaninzi kubantwana azinikezela emakhaya - kwii-attics, kwiiphakheji okanye kwiminyango. Zama ukukhusela ikhaya lakho ngangokunokwenzeka. Yintoni enokuyenza? Cela ngaphakathi kwiofisi yezindlu ukufaka iingcango zensimbi emnyango, kwi-attic nakwendlu yangasese, kwaye kwakhona, ukuze zihlale zivalelwe, kwaye zingabi zimi. Ukuba kukho i-elevator endlwini, kufuna ukuba abagadi bababini bawubone "ukuyeka" kwaye "fowuni i-dispatcher". Ewe, oku kufuna iindleko ezithile, kodwa ukhuseleko lomntwana lubiza kakhulu.
Yenza konke ukuze umntwana angabhubhisi umonakalo. Ama-Nimfets akufanele agqoke i-mini-skirt, amasitokethi kunye nezinye iimpawu zomfazi omdala. Akuyimfuneko ukugqoka ubunxibi begolide.
Kukho iimeko xa umenzi wobubi ehlasela ixhoba elicebileyo, kodwa, ukuqonda ukuxhalaba kwexhoba, umntu ohamba phambili ovuke kuyo. Ngokuqhelekileyo, ama-maniac ane-fetish (umzekelo, i-pantyhose emhlophe). Ukuba unomdlwenguli kule ndawo, kwaye amapolisa abike idilesi kuye, gwema ukugqoka umntwana kwizinto ezinokuba yizinto zokubambisa.
Ngelishwa, inani elininzi lamatyala libhalwa xa umntwana ekonakaliswa ngumhlobo osondeleyo wosapho okanye nangesihlobo. Kwaye abantwana kwiimeko ezinjalo, phantse njalo, bathetha "musa ukucaphukisa umama," ngoko ke umntu ohamba phambili angakwazi "ukudlala" nabo iminyaka. Ukuba ubona ukuba umntu owaziyo ngokukhawuleza uqala ukubonisa umdla kumntombazana wakho (ngokuqhelekileyo ephakathi kweminyaka eyi-12 neye-15), okwenza ukuba "angumuntu omdala" anconywe, "ukugxotha izandla zakhe", ngumqondiso ophazamisayo. Mphelisa umntu onjalo ekhaya. Ukuba ubona ukuba into esongelayo ingeyona eyakho, kodwa umntwana womnye umntu, unobungakanani bemeko engabonakaliyo - ungadluli, zama ukumnceda.
Kwinqaku
Abanye abaqhubi beefowuni banikela abazali inkonzo ekhethekileyo ebizwa ngokuthi "Mayachok". Ukuba umntwana wakho unomnxeba, ngokuthumela isicelo, unokubona indawo yakhe kwimephu yedolophu. Oku kulungeleka kuba ungeyidonsa umntwana kunye neefowuni eziqhubekayo kunye nemimiselo, ukuhlakulela kuye "ubunzima bokulawula".