Ukutya ukutya akuyona into enomdla kunomdla oneminyaka emibili ubudala. Unezinto ezininzi ezibalulekileyo kunye ezibalulekileyo zokwenza. Umzekelo, ukuhamba ngeenxa zonke kwendawo, uphonononge nganye ikona, ubone ukuba luncedo kangakanani kwaye akunjalo, izinto zihleliwe. Kodwa oku akuthethi ukuba ufanele uqhubeke malunga nokungaqiniseki kwaye uphenduke phantsi, uzama ukumondla. Kukho imigaqo emininzi ebalulekileyo ekuncedayo ngaphandle kokuhamba ngokujikeleza kunye nemidlalo yokunyusa umntwana.
Yidla nomntwana.
Kubalulekile ukuba indlu ibe yindawo engapheliyo apho onke amalungu omndeni athabatha ukutya-itafile ekhitshini okanye kwigumbi lokuhlala. Ukubukela okwenzekayo ngeenxa zonke, inkunzi ifunda izinto ezininzi. Uzama ukuxelisa ukuziphatha kwabantu abadala. Ukuba ubona loo mama noyise, umzalwana omdala okanye udade odla etafileni, naye uya kufuna ukutya ngale ndlela. Ukuba intsapho yakho inesiko ekuhambeni, phambi kwethelevishini, icomputer okanye ukuma ekhitshini, i-crumb ayiyi kuba lula ukukholisa ukuba udle etafileni. Ukongezelela, umntwana uya kuphucula kakhulu ukutya, ukuba ubona loo mama noyise badle naye.
Musa ukudlala etafileni.
Abanye abanomdla kunye nogogo bazama ukunyusa umntwana osebenzayo ngokudlala naye. Ngubani ongazange avelele "i-spoon kumama, i-spoon kubaba" okanye "indiza ibhaptiza, vula umlomo wakho ngokukhawuleza"? Zonke ezi ndlela zisekelwe kukuphazamisa intsana into enomdla kwaye ingenakuqonda ukuba imondle. Ukuphazamisa ingqalelo imvumba ekudleni yiphutha elikhulu! Emva kwayo yonke into, inkunzi iqala ukuqonda ukudla njengomdlalo, uyayisebenzisa, kwaye kunzima ukumbeka etafuleni, ngoko ke ngokuzithoba kwaye nangona kunokwenzeka ukuba yidle ngokuzimela. Ukongezelela, iimvuthu ziyaxhalabisa ngeemidlalo ezifanayo phezu kwebhokisi, kwaye ngexesha ngalinye kufuneka uvelise into entsha, ukuze angakhathazeki okanye athukuthele. Le ngqungquthela eliyingozi.
Ukutya kulawulo.
Nondla kwiimfuno zintsana kuphela. Abantwana abakhulileyo, sele sele beqalile, banesondlo esongezelelweyo, kuyimfuneko ukondla ngokwemiqathango yolawulo. Isidlo sakusasa, isidlo sasemini nesidlo nsuku zonke kufuneka sibe malunga neyure enye. Le ndlela yokuphila yomntwana kwindlela ethile: ukuba udla isidlo sasemini imihla ngemihla ngehora, emva koko umfana uza kulamba ngeli xesha. Kwaye ngokwemvelo, oko, kuya kuba lula kuye ukuba agxile ekutya. Khawukhumbule ukuba akufanele umnike ieskese, i-cookies, i-sandwich kungekudala ngaphambi kokutya okuphambili.
Musa ukukhetha enkulu.
Ingane inqabile ukutya iparaji? Musa ukumcela ukuba adle indawo yakhe: i-yoghurt, isandwich kunye noshizi, i-omelette okanye isaladi. Ezinye iinketho ozenzayo ukukhetha, ziphakame amathuba okuthi i-karapuz iya kukwala ukutya. Njalo xa ubiza umnqweno ozayo, uya kuphinda athi "hayi!" Ngokunyuka kokunganeliseki. Ngoko ke, kungcono ukunikezela ngaphezu kweendlela ezimbini - i-karapuz iza kuziva ukuba uluvo lwakhe lunomdla, kodwa, ngelo xesha, akayi kudideka kwimenyu emininzi.
Ungasondli iimvuthu xa engalambi.
Ukuba umntwana ekuboneni i-spoon uvala umlomo wakhe, uhambelana, uphendulela intloko yakhe - oku kuwuphawu lokuba akalambile nonke. Cingisisa umbono wengane, kwaye ungamphoqeleli ukuba adle. UMthetho ngokweemfuno zomntwana, kwaye ungalandeli iimpawu ezihlakaniphile kwiincwadi malunga nokutya kwabantwana. Musa ukunyanzelisa umntwana ukuba adle yonke isabelo esityelwe ukuba uneminyaka yakhe, ukuba uyacacisa ukuba sele esele atywe. Ukuba wenza ngokuchasene nentando yentsana, inkqubo yokutya iya kudala kumbambiswano kunye nemvakalelo engathandekiyo. Kungokwemvelo ukuba umntwana uya kufuna ukuwaphepha. Nika i-crumb ukuba "isebenze" isondlo. Ngaphambi kokutya, ukuba kunokwenzeka, mkhuphele umntwana ukuhamba. Ngexesha elifanayo, unike umntwana ngomsebenzi ophezulu wokudlala umzimba: ukudlala imidlalo yeemidlalo, ugijima ibhola, gxuma. Ukufuduka kwomoya omtsha kuphucula isondlo somntwana.
Lungiselela ukutya kunye nosana.
Ukuba uvumela umntwana ukuba athathe, nokuba yinto encinci ekuphekeni, ngoko ngokuqinisekileyo umntwana uya kufumana ithuba lokukhupha isitya sakhe kwisidlo sakusihlwa. Ngoko vumela umntwana ukuba "ancede". Ewe, emva kokuncediswa kwakhe, kuya kufuneka uhlambuluke ekhitshini, kodwa akuyiyo incumo evuyayo yecandelo elincinci kunye nesidlo sakusihlwa esidliwayo?
Imvakalelo emihle kuphela!
Ewe, ukutshiza isobho, owachitha iiyure ezimbini ukulungiselela, kuya kuphazamisa nabani na. Kodwa ke zama ukuhlala uxolo. Ukukhala kunye nosongelo, awuyi kuzuza nantoni na. Uvakalelwa iimvakalelo zakho ezintle ezinxulumene nokuziphatha kwakhe, inkwenkwe iya kuba neentloni, kwaye ukutya kuya kuba yintloni kubo bobabini. Ngoko yenza ibhetri kwi-positive! Ukuba umntwana akafuni ukutya, musa ukumnyanzela. Kwaye ukuziphatha kakuhle etafileni kunye nokutya kwasemini kukukhuthaza nokudumisa.
Ukuhlobisa izitya zezingane.
Zama ukwenza ukutya kwentsana kubonakale kunqwenelekayo. Ukuhlobisa izidlo ezilula kakhulu, umzekelo, isantiwich, yenza ngendlela yobuso obuhle, uhombise isaladi ngeenkwenkwezi ze-kroti, iitato kunye nemifuno ukuze isobho sibe ngamanani angavamile,
Iiplati ezikhanyayo ezikhanyayo ezinamaqhawe ezivela kwiintandokazi zintando nazo ziza kuncedwa, ziya kunceda umdla womntwana aze amgcine etafileni. Ekuqaleni kuyacetyiswa ukuba kuthenge iiplastiki ezingenakuqhekeka kunye ne-sucker. Siyabulela oku, isitya asiyi kululela kwitafile, kwaye i-crumb ayiyikuyihlamba. Iipuni zokuqala kunye neefoloko kufuneka zibe yiplastiki okanye i-silicone ukuze umntwana akakwazi ukulimala ngabo xa edla. Ngenxa yokusela umntwana, khetha indebe-engeyi-spillweb eneendlebe ezimbini. Xa i-crumb iya kufunda le safile, unako ukuya kwikomityi eqhelekileyo.