Khangela umntu
Ngokuqhelekileyo kwii-subcultures, abo bantu abaselula bayishiya abanako ukugqiba indawo yabo ebomini. Aba bantu ngokwabo bahluke kwezinye iontanga, kodwa ngoku azinako ukuqonda ukuba yintoni kwaye njani, kwaye ingaqhelekanga njani. Yingakho abantu abatsha banquma ukuba yingxenye yenkqutyana, baxhomeke kwisihlwele, ukuze bangaziveki njengabakhulelwe. Uninzi lwaba bantu abancinci bangamaqhinga okudala abangazange baqaphele ukuba ukudala into engavamile. Ukongezelela, uninzi lwabahlobo abalinganiselweyo aluxhaseli ukulangazelela kwabo ukudala nokudala. Yingakho abafana bengacwangciswanga, kuba kuluntu olungacwangciswanga luhlala luqala ukudala kwaye akukho mntu ulahlwayo. Ngokuqhelekileyo abantu abanokwakha ngobuqili, nokuba bafumana, musa ukukhawuleza ukuba bashiye i-subculture, kuba baya kucokola nabanye abangaqhelekanga, ngokungafani nabanye abantu. Kodwa namhlanje, ubuninzi bezinto zokudala bayaqonda ukuba ihlabathi elingacwangciswanga, ngokwenene, alizimeleyo kwaye lizimeleyo. Kwaye konke ngenxa yokuba isigqibo sokungacwangciswanga ngokuqhelekileyo abantu abaselula abazithatha ngokuzimela nangokuzikhethela, kodwa phantsi kwefuthe labangaphandle. Ngokomzekelo, amaxesha amaninzi abantu abancinci baya kwi-subculture ngokubhikisha.
Ukukhusela
Abaninzi abaselula abavumelani neendlela kunye nezindlela zokukhuliswa kwazo. Icandelo lala bantwana lushukumisa ubuninzi bobuncinci, abanye bayaphulaphula, banyanzelela ukuthobela imithetho nemithetho ebavimbela ekuphuhliseni. Kodwa njengoko kwakunjalo, kwakubhikisha, aba bantwana banquma ukungabi njengabo bonke abantu. Ukongezelela koko, unamandla ngakumbi uxinzelelo kumntwana, omkhulu uya kuba ngumbhikisho. Ukuba njalo unina ubangela ukuba intombi iphathe ngokufanelekileyo, ibe yindoda yangempela, ukugqoka iingubo ezimhlophe kwaye ungakhohlwa ukuba amabhinqa kufuneka athathaka, athengise kwaye athobe, ngoko kuya kuba neengqiqo, ukuba ekugqibeleni, intombazana engafuni into ayibonayo umama, ekugqibeleni ugqoke kuwo wonke omnyama, uxhomeke entanyeni iikhilogram ezintathu zamaketanga ezinqununu, ezifutshane kunye nokushiya i-punk. Mhlawumbi akayi kuthanda iimbono kunye neminqweno ye-punk, kodwa ekhangela oko umama ayifunayo kuye, loo mntwana uya kuzama ukhethe i-subculture leyo ininzi yazo yonke iya kuphikisana nayo yonke imibono kamama. Kwaye kunenkani nakwimimandla engumntwana, inamandla ngakumbi iya kuba yinto engaqhelekanga kwimpahla kunye nokuziphatha.
Kwiimeko ezinje, abazali abaninzi benza impazamo enkulu, baqala ukunyusa ngakumbi kubantwana babo, bebagxotha, bebenqabela ukuba baphume esitratweni ngale ndlela. Kodwa aba bantu abaphulaphuli into kwaye baqala ukugoba umgca wabo ngokushisa okukhulu. Kwiimeko ezinjalo, oomama nabazali abaqondi ukuba abantwana baziphatha ngale ndlela kuphela ukuba bamkelwe njengabo. Nguye kuphela abazali abayeka ukuyeka umntwana ukuba aphile njengoko afuna, kwaye kungekhona njengoko afuna, ukwamukela iimfuno zakhe kunye nokuthandayo kwaye konke oku kubonakaliswa ngokungaqhelekanga kuya kugqiba ngokukhawuleza. Kodwa esikhundleni salokhu, abazali bayacinezela ngakumbi, abantwana banomsindo kwaye abafuni ukunikela. Yonke imihla bayakholelwa ukuba akunakuca ukushiya ukuhlangana okungekho emthethweni, kuba kuyaqondwa kwaye kuxhaswa khona.
Inkxaso
Kwilizwe elingaqhelekanga, abantwana baninzi bafumana ukuba ukuqonda nenkxaso, engenazo eziqhelekileyo. Kule nto ayikho into emangalisayo, kuba iqela le-neformalyyavlyayutsya yezinto ezithandayo, abantu abanento into efanayo. Ngoko ke, kulula kakhulu ukuthetha, bahlala benemixholo yengxoxo. Yonke into engeyiyo yohlobo ihlangene nomzabalazo kunye nehlabathi langaphandle, elidla ngokubaphatha ngokubandlulula, kwaye ludla. Ngako-ke, ebusheni, abantwana banomtsalane nakwii-subcultures. Izibonda zeVtsivilnyh azihlali zikwazi ukubonela uncedo kunye nenkxaso yazo onke amalungu eqela. Ngokuqinisekileyo, abantu abangaqhelekanga abagqibekanga. Ngokomzekelo, abantu abahlukileyo abahlakulelayo bangaba nobutsha phakathi kwabo, bahlele ukulwa kunye njalo. Kodwa ukuziphatha okunjalo kuvele kubonakalise abantu abakhethileyo, kwaye akusiyo i-subculture yonke. Abantu abaqhelekileyo abangaqhelekanga banokubambisana ngokukhawuleza kunye nomnye ngendlela eqhubekayo yokugxotha abo abafuni ukuwamkela njengoko banjalo. Kungenxa yoko, ukujonga ngeengcinga ezahlukeneyo, abantwana baya kwi-subcultures, bafuna ukuqonda nokuxhasa. Ngokukodwa ngokuqhelekileyo, oku kwenzekayo nalabo abaye bahlaselwa kwiqela labo lentlalo (umzekelo, umntwana ochanekileyo noqondayo ufunda kwiklasi phakathi kwintsiphu engumntu oyimthiyayo kwaye amhleka), kwaye ufuna ukufumana abo bantu abanokuthetha nabo ngoxolo, ukuba ngomzuzwana ozayo uya kuhleka okanye aphuke. Uluntu olungacwangcisiyo loo matyala ayenzeka kakhulu kwaye isizathu salo ngokucacileyo asiyiyo ingqondo okanye umnqweno wokwenza into abanye abakwaziyo ukuyisebenzisa. Yingakho abantwana banjalo njengama-subcultures.
Ubuhle bangaphakathi
Iingqungquthela zidla ukutsala abo bacinga ukuba bangendawo. Kwilizwe elingalululwanga, baya kwamkelwa njengabo. Phakathi kwabantu abangacwangciswanga abakwazi ukudibana nabantu abalungileyo. Ngokuphindaphindiweyo kwi-subcultures iqokelela, ongenalo ubuhle obungaphandle, kodwa ngenxa yoko, akafuni ukuziva ephosakeleyo. Kwilizwe elingaqhelekanga, ukuxabisa kakhulu, ukuzithetha ngokwakho, ubuchule, ngaphezu kwamehlo, iinwele kunye nobuso. Kwabantwini, ingakumbi amantombazana ahlala ekhuthazekile ukunyeliswa kwabanye ngokuchaneka ngenxa yokubonakala kwawo, esi simo sengqondo siba ngumphunga emphefumlweni, ngenxa yokuba abagonyanga ngeengxaki kwaye abagxeki kubo, bayamkela oko bafana nobuhle babo bangaphakathi, kwaye kungekhona impumlo elungileyo kunye neenyawo ezinkulu. Kakade ke, ungacingi ukuba phakathi kwabantu abangacwangciswanga akukho nto abafana namantombazana amnandi. Bengazi kakuhle, kodwa abaqhayiseli ngobuhle babo kwaye abazami ukuhlazisa abo bantu uThixo abanikezele ngezinye iimpawu ezilungileyo. Ngokwendlela, ukwamukelwa komntu njengokuba nguye nguye isizathu esona sizathu sokuba abantu abancinci bangene kwi-informal. Ngamaxesha nje, ezinye zazo zi-perebaryvayut zazo zidibanisa kwaye zishiya kulo, kwaye ngandlela-thile azikwazi ukuhlangabezana nazo, ngoko ke zihlala zingahambelani ubomi.