Ikhwele liphikisana
Umntu ngamnye ngumntu ngamnye-oku kungabikho mfihlelo, kwaye ngamnye uguqulela umxholo wenkululeko yeentlobano. Ngokuqhelekileyo kwenzeka ukuba kuwe isenzo esithile singenakucinga kwaye sidlula imida, kwaye enye yinto eqhelekileyo kwaye yena ngokwakhe, mhlawumbi, uyasebenza. Okufanayo kunye nombono wobugwenxa. Kuwe, ukungcatshiswa kusenokumomotheka okanye ukumkela kakuhle, ngokuba enye ingabalulekanga kwaye akayi kubuyela kuyo. Musa ukwenza izigqibo ngokukhawuleza kwaye ungagxininisi imeko, kukulungele ukunyuka kwaye ufumene ukuba isenzo sithetha ntoni kumntu. Ukuba kwenzeka njalo ukuba owakhethiweyo uyathanda ngokuthanda ukukholisa abanye abafazi ngokuncoma, kuya kufuneka uwamkele okanye ube yinxalenye yalo.
Ukuba nomona kubonakala kukuzingca
Abantu abaninzi basetyenziselwa ukuba baphile ngomgaqo othi "mna, mna, wam," kwaye yonke into abayibonayo malunga nabo kufuneka ukuba yiyo, okanye ingabikho. Unjalo uhlobo lomntu. Sinyanisekile. Ngendlela umntu ethetha ngayo, unokumisela ukuba ubuninzi bobugovu. Umzekelo, "Ndiyayifuna" endaweni yokuba "unokuthi" okanye "Ndifuna ukuya kwindawo ethile" esikhundleni sokuba "ufuna ukuya kwindawo ethile." Ukuzingca kukhathalela ubuhlobo bothando. Ngokomzekelo, ukuba abantu baqala ukutshata, omnye wabo ucinga ukuba omnye uyipropati yakhe, engayithathi nantoni na. Kodwa oku kuphosakeleyo, ihlabathi alikho imarike kwaye umntu kufuneka alwe nothando, angathengi. Ukuba ucinga ngako, asikho thina.
Ukuba uhlala ufuna ukusondelana nomthandayo, akuyikwesa, kodwa kulungile. Kodwa into oyithandayo ayiyiyo ikhibhodi kwaye awukwazi ukuyifaka kwisikhwama sakho kwaye uyenze yonke ixesha. Kufuneka ikhunjulwe ingqondo yokuba wonke umntu unengxaki yokuzikhethela, ongenakuhlala efuna ukwabelana okanye ukuthetha ngawo. Ngaphezu koko, nokuba ngaba utshintshile, kunzima ukubonisa ukuba lo mntu ngokwakhe akaqapheliswanga kuyo yonke into. Akudingeki ukuba wenze ingxabano xa umthandi wakho ephulile usuku okanye ekuthiwa nguwe. Umvakalelo weshwele wenza intombi ibambe entloko yakhe imifanekiso eyahlukeneyo yendlela umthandi wakhe "aphumla ngayo" kwenye indawo kwindawo, ukuba akayi kuthatha ifowuni okanye ihambe. Kodwa eqinisweni yonke into ilula kakhulu, mhlawumbi, kuloo mzuzu ukuba ukhetha iintyatyambo ukuze uzive ulungile.
Ikhwele libhubhisa ubuhlobo obuhle
Naluphina ubuhlobo alukwazi kuthiwa luhle xa bengenalo ithemba kunye nokuqonda. Akuyi kuba nobuhlobo obusondeleyo kude kube lula abantu ukuba bathembelane. Ubudlelwane obungabikho ubungqina obusondelene nabo besigaba xa ubheka kuphela okanye uqale ukudibana. Yaye ukuba ukutshatyalaliswa kwendoda okanye ukungazange kubonakale emva komtshato, ubuhlobo obunjalo buya kuba bukhulu kakhulu kwaye bogqibeleni baya kubhujiswa.
Ikhwele liyakhubeka
Ukuba unomona ngomntu othandekayo ngenxa yokuba eneneni uye wanikela isizathu kunye nesisisombululo sizathu-kodwa siqhelekileyo, kodwa xa unomona ngenxa yesizathu esithile - kubi. Okokuqala, uyamthuka umhlobo wakho ngokungathembeki. Kodwa nangakumbi uyazihlambalaza, xa uya kuba nomona ongenangqiqo, ngoko uyavuma kwaye uqinisekisile ukuba umthandayo uyamthanda ngakumbi omnye umfazi. Kodwa ungcono kunabanye bafazi!
Ukuba nomona ongenangqiqo kubonakala kubomama abasweleyo
Abafazi abaninzi, xa beba nomona, baba njengabantwana abancinci. Sonke sasibukele, xa esesitolo umama onomsindo uzama ukuzolalisa intombi yakhe, efuna i-toy entsha okanye iilekese kuye. Kwaye zonke iinkcazo zomama, umntwana uqala ukufumana ingxube. Ufuna i-candy! Kwakhona, abafazi abanomona bavela kwindoda yomntwana, kwaye umyeni osweleyo, enendima yomama, akwazi ukuzincoma umfazi onxenayo.
Ndingathanda ukuqokelela ...
Umona ungathinta njani ulwalamano lwethu nothando? Ukuba ubukhwele busekelwe ngokufanelekileyo kwaye buchaphazeleka kuyo akukho nto iyingozi, kuyimfuneko ukuthetha ngamava akho ngokucophelela nangokuzithoba. Ngaloo ndlela, uya kubonisa ukukhula kwakho kwaye ubonise intlonelo kumntu obathandayo, kwaye ngokuphindaphindiweyo uya kuqonda kwaye, mhlawumbi, nokuba imeko iya kutshintsha ibe ngcono.
Musa ukwenza izigqibo eziphambi kwexesha kwaye ulinganise yonke into!