Ngokuqinisekileyo, kwindawo yokuqala oko kuxhomekeke ekubeni amandla, umlingani kunye nobudlelwane kwintsapho. Ukuba le ntombazana inomnye umntu ukuba aphendule aze athole impendulo efanelekileyo, ngoko kulula ukujongana neengxaki ezinjalo. Umntwana osemtsha uhlala efuna inkxaso nenkxaso yabantu abanamava kunye nabalumkileyo. Ngelishwa, ngeli xesha, asilaphuli kubaphulaphuli kubazali, sicinga ukuba abanelungelo ngokufanelekileyo kwimicimbi enjalo. Yingakho balahla ubunzima, akunakwenzeka ukuba bancede, kodwa kubalulekile ukuxhasa udade ophethe igunya, umhlobo (umzalwana, umhlobo). Zinezo zonke iindlela kunye nezindlela zokumisa ukuphuhliswa kwezinto eziyinkimbinkimbi kunye nokukhusela umntu obizayo kwiingxaki ezahlukahlukeneyo zoluntu. Ukunceda ukulahla intombazana ukuba ingazithandi, eqinisweni, akunzima kakhulu, kuyimfuneko nje ukufumana indlela efanelekileyo. Izakhiwo ezincinci zonyango ziphiliswa ngoncedo lwonyango oluchanekileyo lwengqondo, olunokuthi lwenziwa ngumntu owaziyo lo mntu kakuhle kwaye aqonde iingxaki zakhe. Kulabo abanomdla wendlela yokulahla amantombazana asetsheni kumgangatho ongezantsi, unokunika iingcebiso ezimbalwa ezinokunceda ekuxazululeni iingxaki zomntu oselula.
Ngoko, amaninzi amantombazana amancinci athatha ngokugqithiseleyo kwiimbono ezahlukeneyo zabameli bobulili obuhlukile malunga nokubonakala kwazo. Ungalokothi ukhohlwe ukuba ebusheni, amakhwenkwe ahlala ekhangeleka kuphela kumfanekiso kunye nobuso. Njengoko baqala ukuqhuma kwe-hormonal, le mpawu iyaqondakala kwaye iyaqondakala. Ukuze ncedise intombazana encinci, kuyimfuneko ukuvavanya ngokwaneleyo idatha yayo yangaphandle. Ngokuqinisekileyo, umntu ohlala kwisiqhelo uhlala eyona nto ibhetele, kodwa, kule meko, kukulungele ukuba yi-pragmatic. Ukuba le ntombazana imnandi kakhulu, ngoko kufuneka uqinisekise ukuba akufanele ubeke ingqalelo kwizicelo eziyinyabi. Ewe, kwimeko xa yonke into ingenangqungquthela, kubalulekile ukuba unobtrusively uncede intombazana ifumanise isantya sayo kwaye isuke kwinqaba elibi ibe yintombazane enhle. Ngoko ke, ukuba ubona ukuba le ntombazana inenkinga kunye nomfanekiso - bonisa ukuba uhamba kunye nawe ukuze ufumane impilo okanye u-aerobics. Unokuphinda usebenzise ekhaya. Into eyona nto kukumqinisekisa ukuba uyinto enhle, kodwa ngenxa yezifundo zakhe uya kukhankanya. Ungaphinde ufundise intombazana ukuba idaye kakuhle. Khetha iingubo zakhe eziphathekayo kunye nezifashini, zifundise ukuba uziphathe kakuhle. Kodwa, ngaphezu koko, kuyimfuneko ukukholisa umntwana ukuba kufuneka ahlale ekhupha abantu abafuna ukuguqula. Intombazana kufuneka icacise ukuba ngokuthe kancinci kwaye ibhekise kumgangatho, ngakumbi uya kugculelwa. Xa unikeza iingcebiso, zikhumbule ngokwakho kule minyaka uze uqale oko kwenzekayo ngoko. Ungakulibali ukuba abantu abadala abadala baneengxabano ezincinane kunye nezindlela zokusombulula iingxaki. Intombazana kufuneka iqonde ukuba igama linokubethwa kabuhlungu kunokuba ibhokhwe, kwaye ukulwa akuyona ishishini lomfazi. Nangona, kwiimeko ezimbi kakhulu, naluphi na ukukhutshwa okufunekayo.
Enyanisweni, ekulwa nokunciphisa ubunzima kuya kunceda iincwadi kwizengqondo. Kodwa ngokukhawuleza kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele ukuba iimpapasho ezahlukahlukeneyo zobunobumba obubuzayo - oku akusikho okufuneka ufunde kubantu abatsha. Iincwadi ezinjalo azisebenzi nonke okanye zikhuphisa nje imeko. Ngako oko, kukulungele ukubonisana neengcali zeengqondo kunye nokuqokelela iincwadi kunye, eziza kuba lula ngokwaneleyo ukuqonda, kunye nokuqeqeshwa okusebenzayo kunye nolwazi. Abaninzi abaselula bancedwa ngokwenene ngeempapasho ezingenalo kuphela ulwazi oluthile, kodwa nezenzo ezahlukeneyo zokuqeqesha ngokuzenzekelayo ukuzithethelela kwaye zandise ukuzithemba. Kodwa, nangona kunjalo, akufanele uvumele uninzi lweengqondo, njengendoda encinci inokuthi ikwazi ukungena kwi-introspection kwaye iqalise ukufumana iingxaki engazange zibonwe ngaphambili. Ngoko ke, ungakhange ubheke i-unobtrusively ngenxa yokuba umntwana osemva akazami yonke i-pathologies yengqondo.
Ewe, le ntombazana ayikwazi ukusindiswa kuluntu oludla ngokuba luthando kunye nokuqonda njengoko singathanda. Kodwa kusekunjalo naye kuya kufuneka ahlale kunye naye. Ngoko ke, zama ukuchazela intombazana ukuba izimvo zabantu azisoze zithandeke kwaye kufuneka ukwazi ukucaca amagama kunye neembono ezingathandekiyo. Enyanisweni, kubalulekile uluvo lwabantu abasondeleyo abaluxabisayo size sizame ukunceda. Yiloo nto abayifunayo ukuphulaphula. Kwaye kunye nabangcikizi bokuqala bafuna ukubonisa ukuba amagama abo awanamathelisi ukuzithemba kwabo. Kufuneka sikwazi ukwahlula abantu abalungileyo kubantu ababi kwaye sibe nolonwabo. Awunako ukwesaba ukuthetha nomntu omtsha, kwaye ungagxininisi kwimpazamo emincinci kunye nokungaphumeleli. Bonke abantu abafezekanga, ngoko kufuneka ubalekele yonke into embi kwaye uqhubeke phambili nentloko yakho ephakamileyo.