Ngeendlela ezininzi, izigqibo esithathayo ziphethwe yimpawu zonyaka. Ngethuba lobomi bakhe, umntu uhamba ngeendlela ezininzi ezinzima ezinxulumene nenkqubo yokukhula, ukuba nokuphuhlisa ubuntu. Iintsholongwane zithandwa kakhulu kwizenzo ezingenangqondo, kodwa zilula ukuzivumelanisa naluphi na utshintsho. Abantu abavuthiweyo abaxhomekeke kwiminqweno yokutshintsha, ngokukodwa ukuba kukho izizathu. Kodwa ngaphezu kweminyaka, umntu udala indawo ebizwa ngokuba yintuthuzelo yendawo, equka imikhwa yakhe, iinkolelo, imigaqo, indlela yokuphila, indlela yokunxibelelana kunye nengcamango yakhe kunye nehlabathi. Umdala umntu, ngakumbi xa ehamba kunye nehlabathi lakhe kunye naluphi na utshintsho kwinkambo yokuphila yobomi.
Ngokuhamba kwexesha, nayiphina indlela esiphila kuyo, iya kuba yinto engasebenzi xa isakhiwo sayo singenakulungelelaniswa ngokwaneleyo. Siphindela kule ngxaki efanayo - siqhuba i-squirrels kwisondo. Ukuzama ukwenza utshintsho oluncinci ebomini bakhe, umntu uzive engakhululekile, uvakalelwa kukuba uhamba emncintiswaneni, kodwa uyayika isizathu sokuba abuyele ngendlela yakhe yokuphila. Ngako oko, abaninzi abaphuphayo ukuyeka ukutshaya, ukuqala ukubandakanya esangweni, ukwenza umsebenzi ophumelelayo, kunye neMvulo, ephawulwe kwikhalenda njengomhla wokuqala wobomi obutsha, isetyenziselwa ukutshatyalaliswa ngokupheleleyo.
Ukuze uqale usebenze, kwaye ungaphumeli isenzo, awudingi kangangoko kubonakala ngathi.
-Qinisekisa into oyifunayo.
Umzekelo, umgomo wakho ngumsebenzi omtsha. Ukuze uqale ukwenza into ukuyifumana, udinga ubuncinane isishukumiso esincinci. Zichaze ngokwakho, yiziphi iingenelo ozibonayo ekutshintsheni komsebenzi, yintoni okuya kuzisa lo tshintsho, kutheni uyayidinga.
- Ukuchonga iingxaki ezinokwenzeka.
Imingcipheko ibhetele ukuba ilungele kusengaphambili, inceda ukuphepha uloyiko olungadingekile. Ngokomzekelo, awukwazi ukujonga umsebenzi omtsha okanye awukwazi ukuphelisa isivumelwano sokuqeshwa kwangoku. Le miqobo, kodwa iyalula kwaye ayifanele ukuba ulahle iphupha lakho.
-Sula imisila.
Ngaphambi kokuba ungene kwi-whirlpool kunye nentloko yakho, fumana imicimbi yakho ngokufanelekileyo. Mhlawumbi utshintsho lwakho luya kubachaphazela abantu abathandayo, abahlobo kunye nabo osebenza nabo. Gqibezela izinto ezibalulekileyo emsebenzini, ncokola nosapho, ulungiselele umhlaba ubomi obutsha.
-Iveki yinto yokuqala yeveki esebenzayo.
Kodwa naziphi na izinto azikho ubomi obutsha. Kwikhalenda yakho, yonke iMvulo yekamva akufanele ibe yinto ekhethekileyo. Emva koko, xa usulungele utshintsho, kuya kwenzeka "apha nangoku," ukuba awushiyi umkhwa wokugxotha izigqibo ezibalulekileyo emva koko, akukho nto iya kutshintsha.
-Ungesabi imizwa yakho.
Vumela ukuba uzive oko uvakalelwa, ungagxothisi nayiphi na imiphumo. Ukuqala ishishini elitsha, sihlala sinemiva eyahlukileyo, kaninzi siyaphikisana. Ingaba kungakhuselekanga kunye nemihlali, ukungathandabuzeki nokuzimisela, ukwesaba kunye nomnqweno wokunqoba nayiphi na ubunzima.
-Buka ukwesaba emehlweni akho.
Ukwesaba utshintsho, ukungaqiniseki kophuhliso, ukungabikho kozinzo kunye neziqinisekiso eziyikisayo. Kodwa oku akunjalo ukwesaba okunokuthintela umntu ozimisele ukuyenza. Khangela kwikamva lakho: unqabile kwisilingo sokushiya yonke into njengoko ushiye kwaye ushiye ithuba lokuba ngumdali wempumelelo yakho. Ngaba uza kubona umfanekiso ovuyayo oya kubona?