Kwiminyaka edlulileyo, izazinzulu zenze ukuba abantu babone ihlabathi ngokuhlukileyo. Abanye bakhokelwa ngumfanekiso (iziboniso), abanye banamathele ngokubaluleka kakhulu kwizinto abazivelayo (ezivakalayo), okwesithathu kubona ihlabathi "njengelikhumba" (ezi zizintlu). Uyithanda njani umfana wamaphupha akho, ukuba uyazi ukuba unjani na?
Ukubetha enye intliziyo, ungakhohlwa ukuba abafana abanakunqwenela ukuba bangene kwiimpawu eziqinileyo, ukuba unomboniso oqhelekileyo, oku akuthethi ukuba uyisithulu kwaye ulahlekelwe yikhono lokuhlukanisa iphunga. Kuyabantwana, kunye nawe, zonke iindlela ezintathu zokubona ihlabathi ngokuthula, esinye sezizinto ezisisiseko, kwaye ezinye zisekondari, ngoko akunzima kakhulu ukuthanda umfana. Ukususela kwesi sigqibo: sebenze kuzo zonke iinkalo, kodwa kwelinye lazo ngokucophelela, uze ufumane ukuthanda okunamandla kwendoda.
Siya kuthandana nomboniso.
Uthanda umfana xa uhlawula ingqalelo ngokubonakala kwakho. Umntu-obonwayo kubo bonke udibana neengubo, ngoko ke ungagcini imali yezinto ezintle, i-glo gloss kunye ne-nail polish. Kwakhona umfana wamaphupha akho uya kuqonda ukuba uya kutshintsha rhoqo - uvavanyo lweenwele, utshintshe isitayela sakho, xa ukhetha iimpahla, ungalungisi kumbala omnye. Mthumelele imifanekiso yakho, okhangeleka ngayo, kwaye ukuba ufuna ukuba akuve, thumela i-sms-uyabona nayiphi na enye ingcaciso ebonakalayo engcono.
Yehla othandweni kunye noluntu.
Ukukhawuleza ukuthanda umfana, kufuneka umbize ngegama, uhlebeze zonke iintlobo zentengiselwano endlebeni yakho, uphumele ngaphandle ukuhleka kwaye uzuze amaqela akhethandayo. Uninzi lwazo zonke inomntu-uluntu uthanda ilizwi elihle kunye neengcamango ezithambileyo, kwaye ukuba usasaza, ngoko ke awunayo intengo. Ungalokothi umemeza kuye, ungabi namanyala. Ukuba ufuna ukuwamkela ngothando, mxelele ngqo okanye ubize, kodwa nakubani na ukuba ungathumele i-SMS okanye i-imeyile.
Siya kuthandana nobudlelwane bezilwanyana.
Ukukholisa umntu, kufuneka wenze umzimba wakho / iimpahla zifudumeze. Akhathalele ukuba ulandela indlela okanye awukho, kodwa iingubo zakho zifanele zibe mnandi kwi-touch, ukuze xa ekugubungela, akayi kuluma, kwaye akayi kukubamba. Ngokuqinisekileyo, ziqhumisa zonke izinto, enoba ziyakuthandayo, kodwa ukuba ungazi izinto ezikhethiweyo, khetha i "flappy" flavour: i-vanilla, i-watermelon, i-strawberries - ngokuqinisekileyo uya kufana nomfana ngokukhawuleza. Ukuphatha ipayi yomama wakhe, ndibizele indebe yekhofi. Mxelele ngakumbi ngeemvakalelo zakho.