Ubuhlobo bomtshato

Ubuhlobo bomtshato-intsapho - olu luvavanyo olunzima kubo bobabini. Abantu abaninzi abaqondi kakuhle ukuba yintoni intsapho-ubudlelwane bomtshato bamaqela. Kule nqaku, sibheka kwiingcamango ezintle ezingekho ezintlanu ezihambelana nokulindela kwethu ukuhlala kunye.
Ubuhlobo bomtshato-intsapho - olu luvavanyo olunzima kubo bobabini. Abantu abaninzi abaqondi kakuhle ukuba yintoni intsapho-ubudlelwane bomtshato bamaqela. Ubuhlobo bomtshato-intsapho - olu luvavanyo olunzima kubo bobabini. Abantu abaninzi abaqondi kakuhle ukuba yintoni intsapho-ubudlelwane bomtshato bamaqela.
1. Ulwalamano phakathi kwabantu ababini luya kuba namandla ngakumbi xa ubhalisa ngokusemthethweni ubudlelwane.
Uninzi lwezengqondo zincoma ukuba abathengi babo bakhumbule ngokuthe ngqo indlela ulwalamano oluqhutywe ngayo ngaphambi komtshato. Ukuhlalutya, ngoko, inxalenye ethile yobomi, unokukhumbula ngokuqinisekileyo ixesha kunye neemeko ongazithandiyo. Abantu abaninzi bacinga ukuba umtshato oseburhulumenteni uyatshintsha kakhulu abantu, utshintshane ubudlelwane phakathi kwabatshatileyo, kwaye balindela ukuba ezo zimpawu ongazithandi ngaphambili nazo ziya kulahleka emva komtshato. Oku kukukhohlisa okulula, kwaye umntu akufanele athembele aze akhohliswe ngamathemba kunye neeminqweno ezingenakwenzeka. Ewe, kukho iimeko ezithile ezinokuphuculwa ngokwenene ukuze zomeleze ubudlelwane bomtshato phakathi kwamalungu (ukuthetha ngokukhawuleza kunye nokuqhubekayo, ukunxibelelana ngokukhethekileyo omnye nomnye, ukutyelela ngokukhawuleza kwi-sexologist kunye nengqondo yeengqondo). Nangona kunjalo, umtshato uyinto ejulile ngakumbi nangakumbi. Ayikwazi ukuthathwa njengoluhlobo lwesilungiso esiphucula ubudlelwane bamaqela.

2. Uya kuphucula imeko yakho yezemali neyezimali.
Kungenzeka ukuba uya kuphumelela ngokwenene ... Nangona kunjalo, umtshato, ngokusisiseko, awuyiyo isiqinisekiso semali kunye nokuchuma kwempahla kunye nokuchuma. Nangona iqabane lakho elizayo lifumana ngaphezu kwakho. Kwihlabathi lanamhlanje, indoda kunye nomfazi kufuneka basebenze, kuba kubiza ukuhlawula izindlu, ngoku kukho imali enkulu yomntu kwaye akukho mqinisekiso yokuba umtshato uya kuhlala uhlala njalo. Ngako oko, ukuba ufuna ukutshata into ebizwa ngokuthi "isikhwama semali" kwaye uhlala "emanzini amaninzi," ngelixa uchitha imali yomyeni wakho, cinga ngethuba eliza kwenzeka ntoni ukuba ngokukhawuleza umtshato wakho kunye nomntu ongekho kwaye uya kufuneka ufumane ubomi bakho.

3. Ulwalamano lwakho lomtshato kunye neqabane lakho liza kusekelwe kwintsebenziswano (kwanomdla kunye nezinto zokuzilibazisa).
Kungenzeka ukuba umyeni wakho othandekayo ufuna ukuchitha yonke ixesha lakho elikhululekile ngendlela ofuna ngayo. Kodwa, akusoloko kuyimfuneko ukuyithemba, njengoko kungenjalo, kwaye ukunyanzelisa iminqweno yakhe. Ekubeni umntu ofuna ukuyichitha ubomi bakho bonke kunye nookungabi nentshiseko ngebhola, ukudilika, okanye ukuthenga izitolo zakho zokuthanda i-antique. Ewe, kwaye kuyaqondakala, kuba nawe, akunakwenzeka ukuba uthanda ukuphulaphula isinyithi esinzima okanye ukuya kuwo wonke umdlalo weHockey. Ulwalamano lwentsapho kufuneka lwakhiwe ngokuvisisana nokulinganisela. Kufuneka ukhumbule ukuba akudingeki wenze izinto ezifanayo. Yenza oko kukukholisayo, wabelane ngezinto ozizonwabisayo kunye nabahlobo okanye osebenza nabo benza into efanayo.

4. Emva komtshato, ubomi kufuneka buguquke ukuba bube ngcono.
Ukuphupha, kunjalo, akulimazi .... Nangona kunjalo, ukuba usengqiqweni ukusuka kumbono weengcamango, umtshato awukwazi, umzekelo, ukwenza umsebenzi unomdla (ukuba awuwuthandanga ngaphambi komtshato), okanye udade wakho akayithandanga, okanye umama ovulekileyo kunye nokuqonda. Umtshato awukho umlingo, kodwa inyaniso. Oku kuyaqondakala kunoma yimuphi umntu omdala, ngokuqinisekileyo bonke abasandul 'ukutshata bahlale bekulindele ummangaliso, utshintsho olukhawulezayo olulungileyo!

5. Ndiya kumthanda ngonaphakade, kwaye akukho namnye ebomini bam uya kumthanda njengoko akwenzayo!
Abanye bakholelwa ukuba akukho mntu uya kuthathwa ngumntu okhoyo kunye naye, kwaye ubudlelwane bomtshato buyinto engcwele. Mhlawumbi oku yi nyaniso ye nyaniso. Ngokuqinisekileyo siya kudibana nomntu onokusithandayo kakhulu, uya kukhathazeka, mhlawumbi asenze sihlupheke. Kwaye mhlawumbi, kulo mntu siza kuthandana ngaphantsi kwesiqingatha sethu sesibini. Ngamanye amaxesha siyanqotshwa ngokungathandabuzekiyo, ngaba senze ukhetho olufanelekileyo? Kubalulekile ukuyeka ngexesha elifanelekileyo kwaye uhlolisise imeko. Ukongezelela, ngaba silungele ukuvuma ngokusemthethweni thina okanye akunjalo, kodwa sonke siyavuya kakhulu xa sigxininisa ngesini esahlukileyo!

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Ubuhlobo bomtshato-intsapho - olu luvavanyo olunzima kubo bobabini. Abantu abaninzi abaqondi kakuhle ukuba yintoni intsapho-ubudlelwane bomtshato bamaqela. Kule nqaku, sibheka kwiingcamango ezintle ezingekho ezintlanu ezihambelana nokulindela kwethu ukuhlala kunye.

1. Ulwalamano phakathi kwabantu ababini luya kuba namandla ngakumbi xa ubhalisa ngokusemthethweni ubudlelwane.
Uninzi lwezengqondo zincoma ukuba abathengi babo bakhumbule ngokuthe ngqo indlela ulwalamano oluqhutywe ngayo ngaphambi komtshato. Ukuhlalutya, ngoko, inxalenye ethile yobomi, unokukhumbula ngokuqinisekileyo ixesha kunye neemeko ongazithandiyo. Abantu abaninzi bacinga ukuba umtshato oseburhulumenteni uyatshintsha kakhulu abantu, utshintshane ubudlelwane phakathi kwabatshatileyo, kwaye balindela ukuba ezo zimpawu ongazithandi ngaphambili nazo ziya kulahleka emva komtshato. Oku kukukhohlisa okulula, kwaye umntu akufanele athembele aze akhohliswe ngamathemba kunye neeminqweno ezingenakwenzeka. Ewe, kukho iimeko ezithile ezinokuphuculwa ngokwenene ukuze zomeleze ubudlelwane bomtshato phakathi kwamalungu (ukuthetha ngokukhawuleza kunye nokuqhubekayo, ukunxibelelana ngokukhethekileyo omnye nomnye, ukutyelela ngokukhawuleza kwi-sexologist kunye nengqondo yeengqondo). Nangona kunjalo, umtshato uyinto ejulile ngakumbi nangakumbi. Ayikwazi ukuthathwa njengoluhlobo lwesilungiso esiphucula ubudlelwane bamaqela.

2. Uya kuphucula imeko yakho yezemali neyezimali.
Kungenzeka ukuba uya kuphumelela ngokwenene ... Nangona kunjalo, umtshato, ngokusisiseko, awuyiyo isiqinisekiso semali kunye nokuchuma kwempahla kunye nokuchuma. Nangona iqabane lakho elizayo lifumana ngaphezu kwakho. Kwihlabathi lanamhlanje, indoda kunye nomfazi kufuneka basebenze, kuba kubiza ukuhlawula izindlu, ngoku kukho imali enkulu yomntu kwaye akukho mqinisekiso yokuba umtshato uya kuhlala uhlala njalo. Ngako oko, ukuba ufuna ukutshata into ebizwa ngokuthi "isikhwama semali" kwaye uhlala "emanzini amaninzi," ngelixa uchitha imali yomyeni wakho, cinga ngethuba eliza kwenzeka ntoni ukuba ngokukhawuleza umtshato wakho kunye nomntu ongekho kwaye uya kufuneka ufumane ubomi bakho.

3. Ulwalamano lwakho lomtshato kunye neqabane lakho liza kusekelwe kwintsebenziswano (kwanomdla kunye nezinto zokuzilibazisa).
Kungenzeka ukuba umyeni wakho othandekayo ufuna ukuchitha yonke ixesha lakho elikhululekile ngendlela ofuna ngayo. Kodwa, akusoloko kuyimfuneko ukuyithemba, njengoko kungenjalo, kwaye ukunyanzelisa iminqweno yakhe. Ekubeni umntu ofuna ukuyichitha ubomi bakho bonke kunye nookungabi nentshiseko ngebhola, ukudilika, okanye ukuthenga izitolo zakho zokuthanda i-antique. Ewe, kwaye kuyaqondakala, kuba nawe, akunakwenzeka ukuba uthanda ukuphulaphula isinyithi esinzima okanye ukuya kuwo wonke umdlalo weHockey. Ulwalamano lwentsapho kufuneka lwakhiwe ngokuvisisana nokulinganisela. Kufuneka ukhumbule ukuba akudingeki wenze izinto ezifanayo. Yenza oko kukukholisayo, wabelane ngezinto ozizonwabisayo kunye nabahlobo okanye osebenza nabo benza into efanayo.

4. Emva komtshato, ubomi kufuneka buguquke ukuba bube ngcono.
Ukuphupha, kunjalo, akulimazi .... Nangona kunjalo, ukuba usengqiqweni ukusuka kumbono weengcamango, umtshato awukwazi, umzekelo, ukwenza umsebenzi unomdla (ukuba awuwuthandanga ngaphambi komtshato), okanye udade wakho akayithandanga, okanye umama ovulekileyo kunye nokuqonda. Umtshato awukho umlingo, kodwa inyaniso. Oku kuyaqondakala kunoma yimuphi umntu omdala, ngokuqinisekileyo bonke abasandul 'ukutshata bahlale bekulindele ummangaliso, utshintsho olukhawulezayo olulungileyo!

5. Ndiya kumthanda ngonaphakade, kwaye akukho namnye ebomini bam uya kumthanda njengoko akwenzayo!
Abanye bakholelwa ukuba akukho mntu uya kuthathwa ngumntu okhoyo kunye naye, kwaye ubudlelwane bomtshato buyinto engcwele. Mhlawumbi oku yi nyaniso ye nyaniso. Ngokuqinisekileyo siya kudibana nomntu onokusithandayo kakhulu, uya kukhathazeka, mhlawumbi asenze sihlupheke. Kwaye mhlawumbi, kulo mntu siza kuthandana ngaphantsi kwesiqingatha sethu sesibini. Ngamanye amaxesha siyanqotshwa ngokungathandabuzekiyo, ngaba senze ukhetho olufanelekileyo? Kubalulekile ukuyeka ngexesha elifanelekileyo kwaye uhlolisise imeko. Ukongezelela, ngaba silungele ukuvuma ngokusemthethweni thina okanye akunjalo, kodwa sonke siyavuya kakhulu xa sigxininisa ngesini esahlukileyo!