Imoto yowesifazane ayiyinto yokunethezeka okanye into ekhethiweyo ngombala wekhwama, ukuze abantu bangathethi apho, kodwa kuyindlela efanelekileyo yokuthutha. Zigweba wena: kusasa kufuneka ube nexesha lokutya lonke intsapho ngesidlo sasekuseni, ukugqoka, ungalibali ukunyamekela izambatho zakho nokwenza. Ngoko ngokukhawuleza ukuqhawula abantwana kwi-kindergartens, izikolo kwaye ngexesha elifanayo ukulawula ukuba ungadluli emsebenzini, oya kuthi, njengommiselo, ungenye inxalenye yeso sixeko. Ngobusuku umzila uphinda ulandelelana. Ngebhasi, elalixhomekeke ixesha elide kuyo yonke indawo, qiniseka ukuba ufikeleleke kwenye indawo, kwaye kuhlale kubiza ukuhlawula abashayeli bamatekisi rhoqo. Ngoko kuvela-imoto yowesifazane wesimanje ifunekayo!
Konke oku kuqondwa, kodwa akusiyo wonke umntu oya kuphuma ekuqhubeni isikolo kwisihlalo somqhubi. Kwaye nabo ba dlulile, musa ukuqala ukuzithemba kwivili.
Ngokwesaba, amehlo aphezulu, kunye nabasetyhini ngokukodwa. Kutheni uloyiko lokuqhuba umnikazi wamalungelo esanda kuveliswa? Masihlalutye le nkxalabo ngokubanzi. Kuyatshitshisa ukuba yedwa kunye nendlela eya phambili okokuqala ngqa. Ndikholelwe, kungekhona nje wena! Amadoda kule meko, naye, uvakale ukuthuthumela. Oku akuyinto engaphezu kwesimo sokuzinyamekela - uncedo lwendalo kunye noluncedo. Kungcono ukuphaphama kunokuba ukhuphe, uphumelele ubomi.
Ewe, uhambo lokuqala alufaneli lubangele ukunyuka, njengesihlandlo sesibini, ngamanye amaxesha kunye neyesithathu. Ukuzithemba kuza namava, zinike ixesha elifutshane. Yaye khumbula, izazi zengqondo ziqinisekisa ukuba zethu iingcinga zizinto eziphathekayo. Ngako oko, akunakulungeleka, ekubeni e-cabin, ngokukrakra ukumela imeko yengozi ezayo. Soloko ugcina unyawo lwakho ekuhlahleni ukuze unqume nanini na. Kuya kuzinza kwaye kunika umgaqo wokulawula kule meko.
Bonke abantu bahluke, omnye umntu uya kulungelelanisa kwaye alwe ixesha elide, kwaye umntu uya kuziva ivili lokuqhuba ezandleni zakhe kwaye i-jim iya kutshabalala ngokwayo. Eyona nto inceda ukulungelelanisa uqeqesho kwisikolo sokuqhuba, kwaye ulwazi olufumene apha luya kuba luchanekile ngakumbi kuneenkcazelo ezide zomyeni osebenza njengomfundisi. Umlingani kulo mbandela akuyona into efanelekileyo. Yaye ukuba wena, uThixo makwenqabe, qhafaza imoto yakhe eyigugu - oku akuyikuphela kuphela isayensi, kodwa kunye nesimo sakhe esihle. Ngoko kutheni uthathe amathuba? Emva koko, kukho abaqeqeshi abaqeqeshwe ngokukhethekileyo kunye noomatshini bokuqeqesha, apho izicucu zothuli zingenakuvuthwa.
Yaye ungesabi ukuba isikolo sokuhamba siya kujoyina ngokukhawuleza uluhlu lwabafundi abaye bahamba emva. Ngokwezibalo ezifanayo, ininzi labesifazane bafunda kuzo, ukwenzela ukuba izinga lolwazi kubo bonke liza kuba lilinganayo. Iiklasi kumaziko anjalo ziqala ngokuhlwa, ngoko kungcono ukufumana isikolo kufuphi nendlu.
Ukuba isikolo sokushayela kunye nomqeqeshi sele sidlulile, kwaye uloyiko aluzange luphele - okokuqala uzame ukuthatha uhambo okanye umyeni okanye esinye isihlobo, umqhubi. Ngoko uya kuba noxolo kwaye unethuba lokukhanyela ngolwazi olufunyenwe phambi kwesihlobo malunga nokulingana okulinganayo.
Kodwa ngolunye usuku ufanele uhlale kunye nemoto enye kwenye. Musa ukwesaba. Zama ukuhamba kuqala kuphela kwiindlela eziyaziwayo. Jonga imozulu, kwiintsuku zemvula kungcono ukuba ngumgibeli. Gweba iindwendwe ngexesha lexesha lokukhawuleza, mhlawumbi kusasa, xa iindlela zikhululekile. Iindlela ezintsha kufuneka ziphuhliswe kancane kancane. Abantwana bazame ukungabathathi ngohambo, de ube uzive ukhululekile kwivili.
Amahlaya ngamabhinqa emva kwesondo adlala indima ekubunjweni kweengqungquthela. Kwabesifazana-amadoda amatshini, ukuwubeka ngokuthobeka, ngokukhawuleza. Kodwa, ngenhlanhla, akunjalo. Endleleni kukho nabalumkileyo abakulungele ukuza kuhlangula. Ungesabi ukumbuza ukuba ufuna ngokwenene. Njalo uthabathe ikiti yokuqala yokuncedisa, umcimi wokucima umlilo, intambo kunye nezixhobo ukwenzela ukuba umncedisi wokuzithandela unakho konke akufunayo. Gcina ngokuzithemba, unganqikazi ukubhekisela kwimo yowokuqala. Uthi, "Andiyena umlingo, ndifunda nje!" ". Kwaye uShumhumacher wahlala emva kwesivili okokuqala ngqa.
Yintoni enye eyoyikisayo yamantombazana omtsha asandula?
Ewe, ukubiwa kweemoto, ngakumbi xa kutsha kwaye kubiza. I-inshurensi kunye ne-alarm alarm iya kunceda ukujamelana nale alarm. Baya kunciphisa ukwesaba kwengozi ekhoyo. I-inshurensi, nangona kunjalo, ayiyi kuba yinto ephantsi, kodwa uxolo lwengqondo lufanelekile.
Enye i-phobia ephosakeleyo kukukhupha umntu. I-remedy ivela kuyo: landela ngokucophelela indlela, ungaphazamiseki ngeefowuni, jonga kwiibuko zecala. Akunabo bonke abahamba ngeenyawo abahambelanayo nemithetho yendlela - banokungena emgwaqweni omkhulu nganoma yimuphi umzuzu. Ukugxila kwendlela kuya kunceda ukuphepha iingxaki ezininzi.
Ukoyikwa kwamapolisa, okokuqala, ngokuzithemba. Ukuba awuphuli nantoni na, uyazi kakuhle le mfundiso, kodwa unamahloni, ubona abafana abaneentonga ezibethekileyo, khangela iinjongo kuwe. Mhlawumbi, uzibona ungumqhubi ongeyomfuneko, kwaye ukhangela abasebenzi abaqinileyo benkonzo yendlela yothutho, kuba iingcamango zethu, njengoko zikhankanywe ngasentla, zizinto eziphathekayo.
Kwiimeko ezinjalo, iingcali zengqondo zicebisa ngokusebenzisa iziqinisekiso ezintle eziqinisekisiweyo - iziqinisekiso. Kunqweneleka ukuwasebenzisa ngexesha langoku. Kulungile, ke, ngaphandle kweenxalenye ezintle. Oko kukuthi, awukwazi ukusho: "Andiyi kungena engozini! Andiyi kuhlawulwa! ". Ngethuba lovuyo kungcono ukuphinda: "Ndiye ndijamelana neemeko! Ndingumqhubi omhle! Kuye konke kuvela! "U
Kwaye konke kuya kwenzeka! Uvuyo oluya kuwe! Njengoko ubona, akusaziwa ngubani ofuna ukwesaba kwivili - ibhinqa okanye indoda.