Kutheni wenze isimangaliso? .. Okokuqala, ngenxa yomntwana into engalindelekanga - "ingqonge" inqaku lomlingo kunye neenganekwane; Iingcamango zomntwana zikhangela kwaye zifumana into engavamile ebomini, iindwendwe kunye neentlobo ezihlekisayo zikunceda umntwana ukuba ahlakulele ingcamango, abe nomphumo onomdla kwiminqweno yabantwana, kwaye ekugqibeleni, aphinde abonise inkwenkwe ukuba ihlabathi lizele kakuhle kwaye lilula. Kwaye okwesibini, isimanga "sokwenza" siya kukusondeza kumntwana, kukunceda ukwazi umhlaba ophakathi wengane. Emva koko, ngelishwa, abazali ba namhlanje bachithe ixesha elincinci kunye nabantwana babo, ngoko kutheni unganikeli iiyure ezimbalwa zovuyo "kumangaliswa".
Kakade, akukho mfihlelo eyona nto inokumangalisa ngayo umntwana isipho. Unokwenza nje into entsha yokudlala - ngoko ke umntwana wakho uya kuvuya, kodwa unokwandisa uvuyo lwakhe (kunye nawe ngokwakho) xa usondela kwi-presentation yesipho ngobuchule. Kodwa oku sele kuyimangalisa ngokwenene.
"Amabali emilingo." Ukuba umntwana wakho esakholelwa kwizidalwa zentombi, ama-fairies kunye ne-Santa Claus, ngokokuzonwabisa okunjalo kuya kuhambelana naye. Yakha usuku lwengane yomntwana wakho: lungise izipho ezincinane-izikhumbuzo, izikhethi ezizithandayo zomntwana wakho, kwaye uchaze ngokucacileyo ukuba izipho zaziswa ngefiryiry fairy. Unokuza kunye nemisebenzi elula eyenziwa ngumntwana wefeshe: ukwenza imisebenzi enjalo kumntwana kuya kumnandi, kuba konke oku kwenzeka kwi-story story! Into ephambili apha ukudala umoya wefriythi.
Kubantwana abadala, umdlalo wabazingeli bexabiso. Xa uhamba ehlathini okanye epakini "ngengozi" fumana ibalazwe lobutyebi. Kule mephu kunakho izabelo kunye nemigqomo eyokukunceda ufumane ubuncwane. Imisebenzi ingahluka: zama ukusebenzisa izifundo zesikolo. Imizekelo elula yemathematika (umzekelo, ukongeza amanani kwaye ubone ukuba mangaphi amanqanaba emthini kufuneka ayenziwe ngaphambi komnqamlezo onqwenelekayo kwimaphu) okanye ulwazi olusisiseko lwembali yendalo (misela ukuba ngasentla-ukwenzela ukuba kusengaphambili ukuba uqaphele ukuba i-moss yayivela kwicala "elifanelekileyo" lomthi). Unokuxelela nomntwana ibali elimangalisayo malunga nobani kwaye kutheni ungayifihla lo buncwane. Okanye ucinge ngolo lwazi ngomntwana: ngokukhawuleza xa uqala ukukhangela ubuncwane, umntwana uya kujoyina ngokukhawuleza umdlalo, kwaye ingcinga yakhe ayiyi kuyeka.
Enye indlela yokwenza isipho i-adventure ejabulisayo-into emangalisayo, kukudlala kwi "Ibhokisi leMnyama". Myeke umntwana ukuba acinge oko uya ku kunika: umzekelo, ngokwemiqathango yomdlalo, inkunzi iya kubuza imibuzo engaphendulwa kuphela "ewe" okanye "hayi." Okanye uzilungiselele kwangaphambili iimigqa, iimpendulo ezichaza isipho: umbala, ubukhulu, njl njl.
Indlela endala neyiyoyiyokuba idlala "ishushu kwaye ibanda": ufihla isipho, kwaye umntwana uyayilindela "ekuphakamiseni" kwakho. Ukwenza kube mnandi ngakumbi, ungazifihla izipho ezincinci kulo lonke igumbi, ngoko umdlalo uza kuhlala ixesha elide, oko kuthetha ukuba kuya kuba mnandi ngakumbi kumntwana nabazali.
Iimvakalo ezinjalo - iindwendwe zilungele iholide zezingane, ngoko ekufuneni isipho umntwana wakho uya kuncedwa ngabantwana bakhe - abantwana abanaloo ntengiso abayize bawulibale.
Kodwa akuyimfuneko ukulinda "usuku olukhethekileyo" ukulungiselela ukumangalelwa kumntwana. Zama ukumane uhlehlise yonke ibhizinisi lakho ngosuku kwaye ukhanyise ixesha lomntwana, kwaye uya kuqonda ukuba kumntwana akukho lonwabo olukhulu kunokuba adlale kunye nabazali bakho abathandekayo. Enyanisweni, into efanayo ingathiwa ngabazali ngokwabo!