Ukwabelana ngesondo, mhlawumbi, akuyi kuguqula ubomi bakho, ukuxazulula iingxaki, akuyi kukuvumela ukuba ungene kwiimfihlelo zendalo yonke. Kodwa ke, xa ephosakeleyo, yinto, uyabona, ukuxhathisa. Ngokukodwa ukuba iqabane, ngokusemthethweni, akukho nto: kwaye lihloniphekile, kwaye linyamekela, kwaye liya. Kodwa indlela efika ngayo kwigumbi lokulala, uqala ukucinga ngemibhede eyahlukileyo. Sisiphi isizathu sokuba "ukungalingani"?
1. Unokuba ujikelezayo kwiindlela ezihlukeneyo
Kuqala kuphela ukujonga ukuba uthando alukho imida kunye nemingcipheko. Ngobusuku obuthile bothando ekuqaleni kokuthandana, mhlawumbi awuyi kufuna iimbali kunye nolwazi lukaShakespeare kwintlandlolo. Kodwa ngokuqhubekayo umahluko kwimfundo, ukukhuliswa, unqulo luya kuthetha ngokunyanisekileyo igama layo elinzima ekuphuhliseni ubudlelwane bakho.
USergei waya eFransi. Ngesinye i-cafe wadibana nomfazi. Umfana omhle wenza impembelelo kumfazi waseFransi kwaye, njengesiqhelo kweli lizwe elimangalisayo, lona wesifazane ngokwakhe wanquma yonke into. Baya endlwini yakhe, akukho nto yokuthetha ngayo. UmFrentshi wayengamazi isiRashiya, uSergei wayazi isiFrentshi kuphela kwisikhululo se-movie "Three Musketeers". Saqala ukulala ngesondo, kwintlanzi etafileni, emgangathweni ngendawo yomlilo, kwigumbi lokulala embhede ... Ngomhla wesibini, lo mntu akazange alindele: Wamangaliswa ukubona ukuba isondo esinye ngesondlo esipheleleyo asanele.
2. Ifowuni encinane
Ukususela ngamaxesha, ngamnye wethu unxungubele into ethile kwaye, ephakamisa kwisikhundla "somthetho womntu," uzama ukuphulaphula kanye kunye nayo yonke imimiselo ekhoyo. Ngokuqhelekileyo kunokuthintela kakhulu ubudlelwane kunye nesini esahlukileyo.
U-Irina-intombazana evelele, amadoda ayehlala emnyamekela, kwaye unokukwazi ukukhetha abaviwa kwindawo yabo. Ngaloo busuku ukhetho luwe kwi-brunette ende ende. Wambheka ngeliso elifanayo, apho i-sweet languor isasazeka kuyo yonke umzimba wayo. Kwiiyure ezimbalwa kamva balele embhedeni. Ukuqhawula iimpahla zakhe, wakhonkxa, wamanga ... rhoqo, akaze ayeke, naphi ... ngaphandle nje emlonyeni.
U-Irina wacinga ukuba ekutshiseni komnqweno wokuqala kwaze kwaba yilapho uthando lungafikeleli. Kodwa ngomhla wesibini baphinda benza ngaphandle kokubanga. Ngolwesithathu, wasusa ngokuqinisekileyo intombazana enamathele kuye waza wachaza ukuba akazange amanga umlomo wakhe, enjalo imigaqo yakhe. U-Irina wayengenakukhetha ngaphandle kokushiya umntu ohluphekileyo yedwa kunye nemigaqo yakhe.
3. Ngaphandle kwezilindele
Sonke siza kwigumbi lokulala kunye nemithwalo yamava adlulileyo. Umthandi wakho odlulileyo uyakuthanda xa ukhona, kwaye ngoku uyazisebenzisa ngokuzenzekelayo eli qhinga kumlingane omtsha. Uyaqinisekiswa: xa udlule ixesha lokugqibela, uya kudlula "nge-bang" kwaye kule nto.
UAndrew wayebathande abafazi, bebathanda ukwenza izipho kubo, ukuba baqhubeke bezandla zabo baze bavule ebhedini. Ngentombi yakhe yangaphambili, wazama zonke iintlobo zesini, kodwa ngokukhethekileyo yaqala xa, ngokukhawuleza ukubethelela iinqumlo zakhe ngezandla zakhe, ngokugqithiseleyo ukuba angene kuyo. U-Andrew usetyenziswe kule nkalo ngobomi bentlobano ayenjenjalo nentombazana yakhe entsha. Wamangaliswa kukuba le ntombazana ayizange ithathe le nto. Ngokukhala kwentlungu, wamgxotha kuye, kwaye, ekunikeleni konke okucingayo ngaye kunye nokunyaniseka kwakhe, waphuma. Ithuba lokuvuselela i-Andrei lingazange linikezwe.
4. Into ephosakeleyo
Ukuba, ukususela ekuqaleni, into ecasulayo kumlingane wakho iyakucasula, ungaziboni ngokucinga ukuba kuya kudlula. Ngokuphambene noko, kuya kwandisa kwaye, ekugqibeleni, kuvimba yonke i-pluses yayo.
U-Ella wadibana nebhadi nendoda enhle. Baphuza ubhiya, bathetha. Umnxibelelwano wayemnandi kwaye umhle. U-Ella wanquma-kutheni kungenjalo, kuba wayengazange abe nendoda ixesha elide. Banga ngetekisi, kwizitepsi, bebanga xa uElla ezama ukufaka isitshixo kwisitshixo, ebanga ebhokisini ... ade anxibe. U-Ella wabona iinyawo zakhe. Amanqina amancinci amancinci ayemangalisekile ngobukhulu. Isondo asizange sisebenze.
5. Khangela kwenye indawo
Ngaba ucinga ukuba wena ngokwakho ubulili bobuqu bakho buye balahlekelwa yinto ekhangayo ngaphambili? Ukhawuleza ukuba ubhale kule minyaka, ukukhathala, umsebenzi oxakekile kunye nerekhodi ende yokuhlala kunye. Kwaye mhlawumbi isizathu sihluke kakhulu? Mhlawumbi ukukhanga kwakho akulahlekanga nonke, kodwa umntu osebenza naye?
UAna wayemthanda kakhulu indoda yakhe yesikhathi esizayo. Ubuncinane, ngoko kwakubonakala kuye. Njalo, ukucinga ngaye, wakhumbula umntu onamandla, umgijimi, ezama ukuphumelela nokuphumelela. Wayekhumbula indlela amkhusele ngayo kuma-hooligans, indlela awayephethe ngayo ingalo yakhe esibhedlele xa ephula umlenze wakhe, ukuba wayithengise njani umlindo wakhe kuphela ukuba athenge umhla wokuzalwa. Wayemthanda kangakanani!
Uyathandwa? Yaye ngubani owamthanda ngoku? I-flabby, i-bald ubhiya othandekayo, kunye nombono ongapheliyo ojikelezayo ejikeleze indlu kunye nokulinda, xa uya kumdlalo olandelayo kwi-boxing, uya kumkhonza i-sausage plate. UAna wayekhangele ngokumangaliswa yinto ebizwa ngokuba ngumyeni wakhe, waza waqonda ukuba akayena yena, kungekhona kuyo yonke into, kungekhona lowo wayemthanda kakhulu!