Umgaqo wokuqala wokuziphatha ngomhla kunye nomfana osemtsha ubhekisela ekuqalekeni kolwalamano. Kungcono ukuba indawo kunye neemeko zomhla wokuqala ziya kunikwa ngumfana oselula. Inxaxheba kulo mcimbi kufuneka ivela kuye. Kwaye nangona intombazana ingayithandi into ephakanyisiweyo, yithi - awuyena umfana wale ndawo yokutyela, ngokokuqala ngqa akufanele wenze isiluleko sakho. Enye into, ukuba umfana ucele kuwe malunga nokukhetha, ngoko unokumxhoma, ungathanda ukuthini. Kwiintlanganiso ezilandelayo, iimeko kunye neendawo zingavunyelwana phakathi kwakho, kwaye intombazana ngokwayo ingenza iziphakamiso.
Umfana uya kubonisa ithowuni elungileyo xa ebiza emva kwexesha lesibini kwaye uthi ukhangele phambili kwiintlanganiso ngokungapheliyo, kwaye uya kuchaza ukuba izicwangciso zitshintshile. Kodwa, ukuba oko akuzange kwenzeke, akufanele ubize.
Umgaqo obalulekileyo wokuziphatha ngexesha lomhla - ungathethi kwifowuni kwaye ungathumele i-SMS ngaphandle kwemfuno ekhethekileyo. Ngaloo nto ubonisa ukungakhathaleli kwintsebenziswano, kunye nokunyaniseka. I-call ebalulekileyo kunye nengxoxo ephuthumayo nomhlobo weendaba zakutshanje zizinto ezahlukeneyo.
Xa uhamba ngomhla wokuqala, ungadluli nge-makeup kunye namafutha. Zama ukubukeka kwendalo kunye nefanelekileyo. Izambatho kufuneka zihluke ngokuya kwiifilimu, epakini okanye kwindawo yokutyela. Kwaye khumbula ukuba "bahlangana kwiingubo", ngoko uzama ukukhangeleka.
Omnye umgaqo wokuziphatha kwimini kunye namadoda aselula. Inyaniso yokuba intombazana kufuneka ifike emva kwexesha, ingumzekelo ongasemva. Ukwenza ukulinda kukubonakalisa ukungahloneli. Ingakwazi ukulibaziseka imizuzu embalwa ukuza emva kweqabane lakho.
Musa ukundixelela ngobuhlobo bakho obudlulileyo. Ngokuqhelekileyo, uvalwe kwingxoxo, ungaxeli ngokukhawuleza malunga nazo zonke iziphoso zakho kwaye udumise isidima. Vumela loo mfana ukuba abe yinkosi yentetho. Lumkela iimbuzo ozibuzayo. Musa ukubuza malunga nengeniso yesatellite kunye nempilo yayo.
Omnye umzuzu osisigxina - intlawulo yowiso-mthetho, umzekelo, kwindawo yokutyela ekupheleni kwesidlo sakusihlwa. Indoda kufuneka ithathe amanyathelo kwaye ihlawule umrhumo-mali, kodwa ukuba unyanzelekile ekuhlawuleleni isigamu, ngoko-satellite kufuneka ingayenqabeli. Ukuhlonela imigaqo kunye nemikhwa yomnye nomnye kuyisitshixo ekuphumeleleni.
Ungazami ukukholisa iqabane, uvumelana naye kuyo yonke into. Kufuneka ube nombono wakho wokujonga. Kodwa ukuba ihluke kwimbono ye-interlocutor, ngoko kufuneka ibonakaliswe ngokuzithobayo, kwaye ingabonakali ngokungahambi kwayo.
Ukuba umntu akavusisi uvelwano lwakho kwintlanganiso, musa ukukhawuleza ukufikelela kwizigqibo - okokuqala ukucinga kungalunganga. Emva kwakho konke, intlanganiso yinto enomdlalo, kwaye kungakhathaliseki ukuba unzima kangakanani, abathathi-nxaxheba baziphatha ngendlela engokwemvelo ... Naluphi na umzekelo, hlala uhloniphe kude kube sekupheleni kwaye ungaphenduli ngokukhawuleza ngokukhanyela ngokukhawuleza kwintlanganiso yesibini, kungcono ukushiya umbuzo ngaphandle kwempendulo ecacileyo. Qiniseka ukubulela ixesha elimnandi nelityebileyo elichithwe. Kwaye umyalelo wokugqibela, ekupheleni komhla, unganikeli intlanganiso elandelayo kuqala. Yaye, ukuba ifowuni ekulindelwe ixesha elide alizange ifunyenwe kwiintsuku ezimbalwa ezilandelayo, ungabonakali umgaqo ongeyomfuneko kwaye ungenzi izigqibo ngokukhawuleza.
Imigaqo yokuziphatha kwimini kunye namadoda amancinci ayilula, kodwa ukuphunyezwa kwabo kuya kunceda ukuvelisa umxholo owufunayo. Ngokuqhelekileyo, imithetho imisela, kodwa ungakulibala ukuba uya kwintlanganiso nomntu othakazelisayo, kwaye nokuba kukho into engalunganga, cinga, mhlawumbi ukhathazeka? Yiba nobungane, umomotheka kwaye yonke into iya kulungeleka!
Inhlanhla kuwe!