U-Rosenberg uthi into elula: "Amagama avame ukukhokelela ukulimala kunye nentlungu, kwaye indlela yokunxibelelana onobundlobongela incedisa isibini esithile esabonisana nengcali evela kwi-NGO ukuba ifunde:
1. Zivakalise ngamazwi;
2. Ukuva nokuqonda enye . Unxibelelwano kwintsapho, ukusuka kwimbono yengqondo, luhlala lugonyamelo, ngumzabalazo ongundoqo. Ngoxhaswa ngama-NGOs, amagama ethu "indawo yokuzenzekelayo, i-subconscious and often response aggressive answers to be a response, based on the fullness of what is happening and position of the partner."
Umfanekiso oqhelekileyo: indoda iya ekhaya emva komsebenzi, iphendulela iTV kwaye ifuna ukuba wonke umntu amshiye yedwa. Umfazi uthatha ukuziphatha kwakhe entliziyweni. Xa ebona ukukhathazeka kwakhe, uvalelwe ngakumbi kuye, uwela phezu kwakhe ngokuhlambalaza. Iskripthi siphinda ngokuphindaphindiweyo usuku nosuku, kwaye abafazi basecaleni lomtshato. Kule meko, amaqabane kufuneka aphendukele kwi-psychologist. Umgaqo onxibelelwano onobundlobongela ulula: abantu bafundiswa ukuba bachaze ngokucacileyo imeko kwaye baveze iimvakalelo ngazo, kwaye bachaze umphumo oyifunayo kunye nesenzo sabalingani. Emva kokuba omnye umlingane uthethe, isazi seengqondo sifuna omnye ukuba achaze oko wakuva nokuqonda kwintetho yesinye. Kwaye njalo, kude kube ngamazwi athethayo omnye aze avezwe ngabanye. Ngokomzekelo, kwimeko echazwe ngasentla, kuvela ukuba umfazi uzizwa elunxwemeni, kwaye indoda iyaxinezeleka.
3 Inkqubo yokuchonga iimfuno kunye neemvakalelo eziqinisekileyo zinika isibini ithuba lokwenza intsebenziswano inxibelelwano. Basenokufumana iindlela zokwanelisa iimfuno zomnye nomnye. Ngokomzekelo, umfazi uya kuzama ukusebenzisa ixesha lakhe kunye nabahlobo bakhe emva komsebenzi, kwaye umntu uya kufumana ukuhlwaya kwengqondo "ukuphefumula" ngeli xesha kwaye, ngokukhawuleza xa eqonda ukuba ukhululekile, ulahle ixesha lakhe, uyeke ukuvalela kuluntu lwakhe aze "aye kwiTV" njengoko kwikhulogi yengqondo.
Xa amabini omabini ephulaphula iimfuno zenye, indlela yokuphuma ilula ngokumangalisayo.
Izigaba ezi-4 ze-NGO NGO.
Umzekelo wesine wendlela yokunxibelelana nonogonyamelo uyaziwa ngokuba yi-PSC: Inkcazo, iimvakalelo, iimfuno, iimfuno.
Isinyathelo 1 : inkcazo. Chaza imeko ngokuchanekileyo, ubalekele kwizigwebo.
Isinyathelo 2 : iimvakalelo. Zive kwaye uzibonakalise iimvakalelo zakho ezibangelwa ingxabano.
Isinyathelo esithathu : iimfuno. Fumana uze uhlele oko ufuna.
4 inyathelo : izicelo. Nika umnqweno wakho ngendlela yesicelo sekhonkrithi kunye nesisenokwenzeka.
PPPP, nangona ifana nesicatshulwa esibuhlungu esiphuthumayo, yindlela nje yokuphepha nayiphi na imeko engxamisekileyo. Lo mzekelo wolonxibelelwano unokusetyenziswa ukusombulula nayiphi na ingxaki: ukungaqondani ngokungahambisani, ukudibanisa kwezimfuno emsebenzini kunye neengxoxo zezopolitiko.
Ndinguwe, nguwe.
Unxibelelwano olungaphelelanga lusekelwe kuvelwano, ukukwazi ukungena ngengqondo yomntu omnye. Ngokusebenzisa ii-NGOs, uqala ukufunda ukuzivalana nawe-ukuziqonda iimvakalelo zakho kunye neemfuno zakho - uze uzivele nabanye ngokuthi "ukuqiqa ukuqonda" kwintetho, umzekelo, ekuphenduleni ithoni yomnxibelelwano: "Ufuna ukuba ndikuve kwaye uyayiqonda kangcono? "- okanye ekuphenduleni amabango:" Ngaba ufuna ukuba ndikunake? "
Nangona ukuba ukucinga kwakungalunganga, wabonisa umzamo wokuqonda omnye umntu, kwaye uvakalelwa kukuba nomoya onobubele novelwano, oluququzelela ukuqonda. Yaye ukuba ukuqikelela ukuba kulungile, ke ukukhawuleza kwemilingo, ngokukhawuleza kwimiba kunokwenzeka ukuba kube ngcono.
Ngokuqinisekileyo, ukuqonda okunzulu ngokuqhelekileyo kusekho umphumo wemigudu ehlangeneyo, ngakumbi kubantu abadala abanokuziphatha okugxininise kakhulu.