Ngelishwa, oku kudla ngokufumaneka kwiifrime okanye i-melodramas kunokuba ubomi boqobo. Ngoko ukujoliswa ekuphuculeni ukuqonda kwakho uhlobo luthando luyipropati ebaluleke kakhulu kwaye ibalulekileyo yomlingiswa wesifazane. Cinga indlela yokuwusebenzisa ngobulumko ukuba ube ngumfazi oyisilumko, kwaye ungabanjwa kwiwebhu yeengcamango ezingenangqondo kunye nolwazi olungenakuqinisekiswa, ukunyeliswa kunye nokubandlululwa.
Yazi wena
Esikhundleni sokunikela iinqwelo ze-Don Quixote kunye nokulwa nemimoya yomoya yonke, kubalulekile ukuhlala phantsi ucinge ngobomi. Iphupha, porefleksirovat, hlola i-biography yeenkwenkwezi okanye iimpawu zembali. Ewe, ude ufunde amanoveli ukuqonda uhlobo lwengqondo phakathi kwendoda nomfazi. Akuyimfuneko nje ukuba unqamle kwi-charm yamzuzu ngokufunda incwadi enomdla okanye ukubukela ifilimu ephumelelayo. Kubalulekile ukumisa ngamanye amaxesha kwaye ucinge-kwaye oko kubonwayo nokuva kulungile kum. Kanye njengoko ndasabela, kwaye ndiyakwenza ntoni ukutshintsha le meko ngendlela efanelekileyo.
Baya kunceda ngeentetho zentliziyo ngentliziyo kunye nabahlobo, kunye kunye nabanye abafazi. Nika ingqalelo kwintsapho yabazali, funda i-biographies yabazali bakho kunye nookhokho babo. Fumana amabali aphindaphindiweyo ngokumalunga namadoda, kwaye zama ukuqonda ukuba ufuna ukuhlala ngokuphathelele imeko enjalo okanye unqwenela ukuguqula ngokubanzi.
Tshintsha
Emva kokuba uqonde oko ufunayo kumadoda nobomi, kufuneka uhambele kwisenzo. Funda ukuphumla ngokukhululekile wamukele into oyithandayo kwaye ukhululekile kunye naye, kwaye ufunde ukulwa nokusilela.
Kukho iincwadi ezininzi ezinobulumko kwi-psychology, ifilosofi, inzululwazi, eziqulethe iingcebiso kunye nokuzivocavoca okwenza kube lula ukuqonda indlela yokuba ngumfazi ozilumko ekusebenzelaneni namadoda, kodwa nokuyiqonda ngokufanelekileyo. Zifanelekile kwimisebenzi elula, umzekelo, ukulwa nobuvila okanye ezinye izinto ezimbi.
Ingxaki ezinzulu zengqondo ekujonganeni namadoda zilungiswe kangcono ngeengcali. Ngoku kukho iindlela ezininzi zokuqeqesha kunye nokubonisana ngabanye kwimibandela yothando, intsapho kunye nomtshato. Ngona-nxalenye, awanakho nje ukuthenga, kodwa unokunceda ukuzonwabisa, fumana abahlobo abatsha kunye nokudibanisa.
Yazi indoda
Ukwazi amandla akho kunye nobuthathaka, ukuqonda iiminqweno ezifihlakeleyo kunye nokulwa nokungaphumeleli, kuyingxenye yempumelelo ekusebenzelaneni namadoda. Ukuba unomdla kakhulu kwimibandela malunga nendlela yokuba ngumfazi oyisilumko ngokumalunga namadoda, kufuneka ufunde izinto ezisisiseko zeengqondo zesintu. Zininzi iingxaki zobundlelwane buvela kuphela kuba ibhinqa ligweba indoda yedwa. Ngokukodwa kubandakanyeka ngabafazi abakhulela kwiintsapho ezingaphelelanga, apho kungekho ntata okanye ngabazalwana. Amadoda awona mbi kwaye akukho bhetele kunabesifazana, ahlukile. Bambona ihlabathi ngokuhlukileyo, cinga ngokungafaniyo, kungekhona nonke njengoko sifuna, babonise uthando lwabo. Ubuchule bokubona nokuqonda iinjongo zokuziphatha zomntu kumvumela ukuba akhe ubuhlobo obuhambelana naye. Ukongeza, njengokuba kunjalo kwimeko kunye noqeqesho, ukufunda i-psychology yamadoda ayiluncedo kuphela, kodwa kunomsebenzi onomdla. Okokuqala, kukho iincwadi ezibhaliweyo ezihlekisayo kwi-psychology yokohluko phakathi kwamadoda nabasetyhini (ikwabizwa ngokuba yingqondo yesini). Okwesibini, kukho ukuqeqeshwa okukhethekileyo apho amadoda nabesifazane bafunda ukuqonda kunye nokusekwa. Njengawo nawaphi na uqeqesho, ayinalo kuphela ingqiqo, kodwa neyokuzonwabisa.
Gwema ukuguqula indoda
Akukobulumko ukuba owesifazane ozilumkileyo ahloniphe indima yakhe ebudlelwaneni, nangona kunjalo nangobomi bomntu. Uthando luyomelele kunanoma yimiphi imigaqo, kwaye ngokuqhelekileyo luguqula zombini indoda kunye nomfazi, kwaye, njengommiselo, ukuphucula. Kodwa ukugxeka kunye nayiphi na imizamo yokuphinde ifundise indoda, inokuphazamisa nayiphi na, kunye nobudlelwane obukhulu kakhulu. Oku akuthethi ukuba kulungile "ukuthandaza" kumntu, kwaye usebenza kuphela kuwe. Kukho nawuphi na umba, kukho intetho yegolide. Ngoko uzama ukumkela umntu njengokuba kunjalo, nazo zonke iingeniso kunye nokungalunganga. Ukuba akayiyo idiot, uya kuwuqonda lo mqondo kuye, kwaye uya kuzama ukuba ngumhlobo wakho omhle kunye nomthandi obalaseleyo kwihlabathi lonke. Yaye ukuba usenokuba nobunzima okanye iimbambano, zama ukuthetha ngokungathethekiyo kwaye uthethe nendoda kangako malunga nokuba uyintoni na ityala ngaleyo ngxaki, ubuninzi malunga noko uvakalelwa ngxaki, kwaye ziziphi iindlela zokuphuma kwimeko u yabona. Amadoda anyanisekileyo kunamabango athile kwaye ayinyamezeli amacebo kunye neenkcazo. Ukwazi le nyaniso elula, unokukunqoba naluphi na ubunzima ekujonganeni nomthandayo.