Xa uzama ukuqonda ukuhambelana nomlingane onokuthi, abantu badla ngokuya kwiinkwenkwezi. Yile nzululwazi enika ulwazi olunzulu malunga nethemba kunye nobunzima obuya kuvela ngokubambisana. Kodwa kukho nezinye iindlela ezilula zokufumana ulwazi oluyimfuneko. Enye yeendlela ezikhoyo zibonelelwa ngamanani. Ukubala ukuhambelana, akudingeki ukuba ube nolwazi olukhethekileyo kwaye ungene ngaphakathi kule mfundiso. Ukukhathalela kuphela, uxwebhu lwephepha kunye neepeni kufuneka kuwe.
Ukubalwa kokuhambelana nomhla wokuzalwa
Iimpawu zokumisela: indlela yenombolo 1
Ixabiso lokumisela: indlela yenombolo 2
- 1 - Ukuhambisana kakuhle, ngokusekelwe kwiinjongo ezifanayo kunye neminqweno. Bobabini iqabane lilungele ukwenza imizamo ngenxa yesizathu esiqhelekileyo. Baya kuxhasana kuzo zonke iinjongo. Umzabalazo onokukwazi ukufumana ulwalamano kulwalamano. Ukuze imanyano ibe namandla, enye yeqabane liza kufuneka inikwe.
- 2 - Ukuhambelana, njengomgaqo, kusekelwe ekuncedeni. Kule mibini kukho iimvakalelo, kodwa akukho mvakalelo enobudlova kunye nomdla. Imitshato yokulungelelana isoloko isomeleza kwaye ide ngaphezu kobudlelwane nothando, ngoko ke abaloli beembalo baxela kwangaphambili ikamva elihle lomanyano.
- 3 - Kwinqanaba lokuqala lolwalamano, kunokubonakala ngathi amaqabane ahambelana ngokupheleleyo. Kukhona iimvakalelo phakathi kwabo, bachitha ixesha elininzi kunye, baqonda omnye nomnye. Kodwa ixesha elimnandi le-bouquet lithatyathwa yinkathazo ngendlela yokuhlambalazana, amabango kunye neemfuno. Ekugqibeleni, isi sibini silinde ikhefu elibuhlungu.
- 4 - Ukuhambelana kakuhle kwabakhonkco ababini abakhetha ukuzinza nokuthuthuzela. Kumntu, ubuhlobo obunjalo bubonakala bubuhlungu, kodwa amaqabane omabini aya kuzinyameka kwaye azinzileyo kulo mbambano.
- 5 - Ukunxibelelana kakuhle kokomoya kunye nesondo. Ulwalamano olulolo hlobo luhlala luphela emtshatweni, kuba lusekelwe kwintando, inhlonipho kunye nokuqonda.
- 6 - Ukuhambelana okulungileyo, ukuba ngumbuzo wobuhlobo okanye ubambiswano bezoshishino. Kodwa umanyano wothando uya kulahlwa. Ukuphila okuhlangeneyo kuya kuba ngumsebenzi wokubambisana, kwaye umnqweno wokuhlakulelana ubudlelwane uya kuphuphuma ngokukhawuleza.
- 7 - Ukuhambelana okupheleleyo. Umanyano onjalo unokuthiwa ngumgangatho, kuba ugcwele ngokuvisisana. Ngaloo mibini, iingxabano zivame ukuvela, njengabalingani bobabini banomdla ekuphuculeni nasekuqiniseni ubudlelwane.
- 8 - Ukuthandana kokuthandana kuthatha uxhomekeke oluqinileyo linye iqabane kwelinye. Kunokwenzeka ukuba ubize inyunyana enxulumene neloluhlu olubanzi. Ngokuqhelekileyo i-gap iqaliswe ngumlawuli.
- 9 - Ukunxibelelana kakuhle komoya. Abalingani balwela ukuvisisana nokuqonda. Ukuba ulwalamano aluqineli iingxaki zemihla ngemihla kunye nobunzima bezezimali, umanyano uya kuba namandla kwaye uhlale.