I Kisses.
Ukubamba isilathisi sokuqala ongayigwebayo okwenzekayo kunye nolwalamano lwakho. Indoda ethandana novuyo kunye nokumanga ngothando umfazi wakhe oyintanda, le ngxaki ye-caress engekho kubantu bonke. Indoda inokutshintsha, kodwa ungayibandakanyi ukubaluleka kuyo, kulo mzekelo akayi kumanga umfazi oguquka naye. Kodwa ukuba ukubanga kusemsebenzini okanye ukuyeka konke, kuyafaneleka ukuba ucinge ukuba uthathe loo ndawo ebomini bakhe ngokuqhelekileyo igcinelwe abo "abangabalulekanga" abasetyhini?
Mkele.
Ukwamkela kukubonakalisa iimvakalelo. Khumbula ukuba kaninzi kangakanani walala ndawonye, uvuma, ngaphambi kokuba uxolongo lufike ebomini bakho. Ukuba ngoku ubona umva wakhe, ukuba uphendule iinzame zakho zokufumana ukunganeliseki okanye ukungazihloneli, kuthetha ukuba nangona umntu athembekile, ingxaki enkulu ivele ebudlelwaneni bakho. Ngokukodwa kule nto kuyafaneleka ukuthobela ingqalelo, ukuba akukho zimpikiswano kungekudala, kwaye uyaqiniseka ukuba indoda ayikho isizathu sokukhubeka.
Caresses.
Ukuqwalasela impendulo yomyeni ngexesha lokusondelana. Thelekisa iimvakalelo ozitholile kwangaphambili kunye nazo ozifumanayo ngoku. Ngaba uvakalelwa ukubuyela, kubonakala ukuba umntu ufumana uvuyo? Ukuba enye ibhinqa ibonakale ebomini bakhe, apho ebambelela khona kubaluleke kakhulu, indlela awasabela ngayo xa uzama ukusondela kuya kuba nzima. Indoda ayikwazi ukuvumela izibetho eziqhelekileyo, ingakhankanyi into engakumbi. Ngamanye amaxesha oku akusobala, umntu angakhononda ngokukhawuleza okanye ezinye iimvakalelo ezimnandi, kodwa akatsho ukuba akafuni nje ukuba unqabile.
Inombolo yefoni.
Ngethuba lobudala beefowuni, iifowuni ehamba rhoqo ingaba vavanyo lwe-litmus, ebonisa oko kwenzekayo kulwalamano lwakho. Ukuba umyeni wakho ngokukhawuleza wathandana ne-sms ende - idilesi kunye "nomhlobo" okanye "umphathi", ukuba umnxeba usoloko ehleli naye embhedeni, ukuba uhlala ebeka ifowuni kwimodi yokuthula, oko akusibonakaliso lokunyamekela uxolo lwakho, kodwa isihlandlo sokucinga malunga nokuba umthandayo uyazifihla inxalenye yobomi bakhe.
Ngesondo.
Ukuba uqaphela ukuba ubulili ebomini bakho bube buncinane kakhulu, akuthethi ukuba umntu uyatshintsha. Kodwa kubalulekile ukujonga imeko ngokuzinzileyo - ngaba zikho naziphi ezinye izizathu zokubangela ukuba ngokungazelelwe kube njalo? Ityala likaTom, ukuba umntu uphilile, akabonakali naziphi na iimpawu zokungcatsha, ngoko, mhlawumbi, akukho ngxaki. Ukuba uva iimbambano eziqhubekayo, ukuba akukho zizathu ezibonakalayo zokungala, kwaye amanyathelo avela kumadoda awasekho, akufanelekile ukucinga ngento embi kakhulu.
I-Orgasm.
Khumbula, yintoni indoda yakho ebhedini kwaze kwaba yilapho uqala ukumrokrela. Ngaba wayeyinyamekele kwaye ayikhathalele, ngaba wayezama ukukukholisa okokuqala? Ukuba ngoku isondo kunye naye kufana nesiganeko esithandekayo esenzeka kuphela kwikethi, mhlawumbi, oku kukunye okubonisa ukuba kukho omnye olwalamano lwakho.
Zininzi ezinye iindlela zokufumana ukuba umntu wakho uthembekile. Kodwa ezona zichanekileyo zizo zihambelana nobomi bakho obusondeleyo. Ukuba umntu ngokukhawuleza unqwenela ukufuna isondo kunye nawe, ukuba akanakunomdla kunoma yiyiphi i-caresses kunye neqhinga lakho, kodwa asikho esinye isizathu sokubanda, unesizathu sokubuza ukuba kukho omnye umfazi entliziyweni yomyeni wakho. Kodwa kukufanelekile ukukhumbula ukuba amadoda ayenzizidalwa eziyimfihlelo, kwaye ukuziphatha kwabo akusoloko kubonisa ukungcatsha. Ngokukhawuleza wayecaphukile ngenxa yokuba iqela lakhe lebhola lebhola lebhola liye lahleka kwakhona?