Kodwa ngubani na oomdla? Wonke umntu ubeka intsingiselo yakhe kule ngcamango. Kwabanye, i-bitch ibhinqa elinamandla okupompoza nemali evela kumntu, abanye bacinga ukuba ngu-seductress ekhangayo, kwaye abanye bacinga le ngcamango eqingqiweyo, ukuba yenziwe yinto ekhwenkqisayo, ngabafazi besilisa. Ngoko yintoni na le nyaniso? Enyanisweni, akukho namnye kubo.
Ukuze ube yintonga yangempela kwihlabathi lanamhlanje, ibhinqa kufuneka lihlale lihlakaniphile, limnandi, kufuneka likwazi ukuthandana nabantu: kokubili amadoda nabasetyhini. I-Bitch ibonakala ngokungafani kwaye iyingqayizivele kuyo yonke into, idela zonke iindidi zeentlobo, iyanomdla, i-artistic imbonakalo, ibukeka kwaye ibukeka kakuhle. Ngendlela "u-bitch" ungakhetha ezo bincoko "njengowesifazane oyinyaniso" okanye "intombi". Umbono wentsimbi uquka ukhokelo, ukukwazi ukuzikhusela. Ngelo xesha, ibhinqa lihlala liyingumfazi ngandlela-thile, inomdla kubathandekayo bakhe kunye nomntu, unokuba ngumama olungileyo, kodwa uyazimela kwaye unelisekile. I-bitch yangempela ayivumeli ukuzihlazisa, uya kuhlala ephumelele. Kodwa ngamnye umfazi kufuneka aqonde ukuba ukuba yintlanzi ayithethi ukubamba intloko yakho ephakamileyo kwaye ukhangela wonke umntu ngokugculelwa emehlweni akho, "akayi kubona indoda yakhe", kungakhathaliseki ukuba yayinzima kangakanani. Ingqungquthela yangempela ayiyibuyiki i-bitch.
Uya kuthiwa ngumfazi wokwenene, othandekayo, ongaziwayo, onqwenelayo, onothando, owona mfuneko. Kuyabasetyhini abanjalo abayeni bashiya "iisayithi", ezibizwa ngokuba yi-bastards. Ukuba i-bitch ihlala inenzuzo. Wonke umntu kufuneka aqonde ukuba ihlabathi lanamhlanje likhohlakele, ukuba kukho ukhuphiswano olukhulu kuyo yonke indawo ebomini. Ukuqala ngomgca esitolo kunye nokuphelisa ubomi bentsapho obonwabileyo. Ehlabathini lanamhlanje, umfazi ufanele alawulwe yonke into ebomini bakhe, ukufezekisa yonke into, ukujonga yonke into kanye, ngaphandle kokulahlekelwa isithunzi sakhe, kufuneka enze konke. Wonke umfazi ufuna indoda ukuba imdumise, abaphathi bahlonishwa kwaye bayakwazisa, kwaye abahlobo bakhe baqonda kwaye bazinikele. Kodwa le nto ingafezwa njani?
Musa ukukhawuleza. Ukuba umntu ucinga ukuba inkohliso yangempela kwihlabathi lanamhlanje kulula, ngoko uphosakeleyo. Ngaba ufuna ukubonakalisa uthando lomntu? Kodwa abathengi bamadoda abahlonishwa nje, kodwa bayathandwa. Ukuba ibhinqa engazi indlela yokuzola kwaye ingenayo, ayiyonto. Ingqumbo yangempela inokwenza umntu akholelwe kwisifiso sakhe sokumlandela. Ibhinqa inemfuno ezine kuphela: ukuthanda, ukuthandwa, ukukhulisa abantwana kunye nokuziva kungcono. Nangona kunjalo, kukho konke oku, amadoda ayadingeka. Kungenxa yabo kwaye ijoliswe ngendlela yokuziphatha "i-bitch". Nangona kunjalo, ukuba uthetha indoda ukuba ibhinqa lakhe liyi-bitch, ngoko akayi kukukholwa, kodwa uya kuthukuthela ngokunyanisekileyo.
Inenekazi yakhe ethandekayo, ethandekayo kunye nentlekeleyo ingaba yintonga? Amadoda nje adibanisa i-egoist okanye isilumko nge-bitch, esezandleni zezithandwa zabo. Ingqumbo yangempela ehlala kwihlabathi lanamhlanje liqonda ukuba uye wahlala ngumgcini wendawo, kwaye ithatha ukuqokwa kwakhe njengomthombo wolonwabo lomntu. Ubufazi bakhe bunamandla kunokuzithemba, kwaye uhlonipha abantu. Umfazi oyinyani uyazi ukuba ngokunika uthando, unokufumana nayiphi na into ngokubuyisela. Ingqungquthela yangempela ngumfazi omhle onomyeni kuwo onke amacandelo uza kubonisa indlela umfazi wakhe onobuqili ngayo.