Ngoko yintoni umehluko phakathi kokungcatsha kwamadoda nabesilisa? Kutheni ukubonakaliswa kobulili obufanelekileyo, ukulungisa zonke iinqwelo kunye neziseko, ngokunyuka ukukhangela uthando olududuzayo embhedeni, kungekhona nomyeni osemthethweni, kodwa kunye nomthandi? Masizame ukuhlalutya. Njengomthetho, umfazi uguquka, ngokusisiseko, "ngenxa yothando". Ngokungafani namadoda, apho isiqhelo sendoda esomeleleyo, ibhinqa elingama-90 kwimiba engama-100 ayibheki ukuxhamla, kodwa ukuxhamla ubudlelwane, okwenene, buhlungu umyeni wakhe. "Akangandithandi", "umthandi wakhe ungcono kunami", "uya kundishiya aze aye kumthandi wakhe" - malunga neengcamango ezinjalo aziphumuli umntu. Kwaye simele sivume ukuba abade kude nenyaniso.
Emva koko, ukuba umfazi uthatha isigqibo sokuba athathe isinyathelo esinjalo, kuthetha ukuba ubomi bakhe bentsapho abufanelekanga kuyo nayiphi na into - kungakhathaliseki ukungabikho kokunxibelelana nokuqonda, okanye ukuqhelaniswa nokungabi nelisekile, okanye ukunganeliseki kubomi obusondeleyo, okanye iingxaki zempahla. Kwaye mhlawumbi zonke ezi ngasentla. Kwaye ngoku inqaku elithi "ukutshatyalaliswa komfazi onomthandi" unqabile ukubonakala ngathi uyasendle kunye nococeko - emva koko, ubomi bubunye! Yaye loo ntombazana "iya kuyo yonke into ebalulekileyo" - ingakumbi ukungabikho kokuthintana nabantu abesini esahlukileyo, abaninzi abasetyhini abaninzi abanalo: oogxa babo, amaqabane amashishini, abaqeqeshi, abaqeshisi, abaxhasi. Abaninzi babo banomdla, ngakumbi abasebenzi beenkonzo.
Ukongeza, abafazi bafuna ukuziva bekhangelekile kwaye banqweneleka! Kwaye "indoda yomthonyama", ngaphandle kwebhola kunye ne-intanethi, ayiboni nantoni na, kwaye inika iintyatyambo kuphela ngo-Matshi 8, kwaye ikhohliwe malunga neenkomfa emva komhla wokuqala lomtshato. Ngendlela, inxalenye yowesifazane uyadumala ngokukhawuleza kubakhethiweyo abatsha, ekuqaleni abo bathandekayo, kunye neentlungu zokuzisola babuyele kumadoda abo. Kodwa ixesha liqhubeka, akukho nto iguquka, kwaye iphinda ikhangele into entsha yothando.
Ngoko ke unokululeka njani amadoda akho ukukhusela ukutshatyalaliswa komfazi wakho nomthandi wakho? Iingcebiso zilula, kodwa ngokusebenza, njenjalo! azifaneki zenziwe.
Isalathiso sokuqala siqwalaselwa ngakumbi. Lezi zincomo, kunye nezipho "ezingekho", nokuvavanya ingubo entsha okanye ikhanda, kunye nomdla emsebenzini wakhe kunye nezinto ezithandwayo.
Ibhunga lesibini lithandana kakhulu. Masihambe kwindlela yokuqhelanisa kunye nokuqhelekileyo - bayaziwa ngokubulala ubudlelwane. Ukuphuma kwepikinikini, ukuya kwi-cinema, ukuhlwa kwamabhanyane okuthandana naye - konke oku kuyimfuneko kubo bonke abafazi.
Isicatshulwa sesithathu sisantlukwano ebomini obusondeleyo. Akuyimfuneko ukuphinda ufunde i-Kama Sutra, ukufunda iimeko ezintsha, kodwa ukuba unika umfazi wakho, umzekelo, izitokisitsha ezintsha okanye ukugqoka isambatho, uya kumangaliseka ukuba ubuninzi bakhe bunjani. Okanye uzame ngesondo kwindawo engavamile (ngokuqinisekileyo, ukugcina imithetho yokuziphatha!). Ukubhalwa kweencwadi kulo mbandela ngoku uvavanyo olwandle!
Ibhunga lesine lizinto ezithandanayo. Kungaba nayiphi na into - nje ukuba ibe kunye. Mhlawumbi wakho umfazi uya kufisa ukuloba.
Kwaye into ephambili kukuqonda ukuba ukuba isibini sinalo ubudlelwane obunxulumene kwaye kukho uthando, ngoko akukho mntu uya kukhangela iindwendwe kwicala. Kutheni oko kuyimfuneko, ukuba kukho iqabane elithandwayo eliyintandokazi owaziyo, njengalo, liphi na elihle kwaye likhululekile?