Sebenza kwisiphumo sokugqibela
Ngokutsho kweFeng Shui, ukuba unesimo sengqondo esifanelekileyo, injongo iya kuba lula ukuyifumana. Ukuba ucinga umphumo wokugqibela wenjongo yakho kwiinkcukacha ezincinci, ukuya kwiimvakalelo ezintle kunye nephunga, ngoko impumelelo kuwe iqinisekiswe ngokuqinisekileyo. Ngokucwangcisa ngesondo lomntwana ongakazalwa, cinga ukuba wazalwa, waza wazalwa ngesondo owafunayo. Ngaba awukwazi ukuvelisa umntwana osanda kuzalwa okanye uvelise umntwana oneminyaka emithandathu ubudala, unyaka okanye unyaka kunye nesiqingatha? Kodwa nje ungazibonakalisi kumntwana oneminyaka engaphezu kweminyaka emine ubudala. Ubuza isizathu? Kulula ukuchazela-omdala umntwana, ubuncwane obungathandekiyo obuzama ukuzama ukuzenza. Umzekelo, yintoni eya kukunika uvuyo olukhulu - isinyathelo sokuqala somntwana okanye intsimbi yokuqala esikolweni? Ngokuqinisekileyo uthe isinyathelo sokuqala somntwana, kwaye kungekhona ukuba umntwana waya kwibanga lokuqala. Ngendlela, inkqubo yokucamngca iza kukunceda ukuba ubonise bhetele umgomo wakho.
Nantsi indlela elula yokucamngca, eya kukunceda ulungise isondo lomntwana kunye nophuhliso olufanelekileyo ngaphambi kokuzalwa. Ngaphezu koko, le ndlela yokucamngca ayiyi kunceda kuphela umama wesikhathi esizayo, kodwa kunye noyise ukuseka uxhumano lwamandla kunye nomntwana ozayo.
Ukucamngca kwesibini
Hlala phansi phantsi, uguqa imilenze phantsi kwakhe okanye kwindawo ye lotus. Indoda kufuneka ihlale emva kwakho, ibeke izandla zakho esiswini kwaye ucinge indlela amandla ahamba ngayo angena kwisisu sezandla zakhe. Cinga indlela ukufudumala phantsi kwezandla zakhe kutshabalalisa ngayo, kuhlutha kancane kwaye kukhululeke ngakumbi. Kufuneka ugxininise kwaye uzive ngethuba lakho, indlela amandla abantu aphuma ngayo kuwe kwaye ukhuselwe ngulo mandla. Ngoku bobabini bakhululeke ngokukhululekile kwaye bacinge ukuba unomlambo omhlophe wokukhanya ovela kwenye indawo ngasentla. Zama ukuziva ulusu ngolu khanyiso, uzive ufudumele (ungashushu) kwaye ukukhanya kwethenda kufinyelela phantsi kwesikhumba. Ngendlela, ungabonisa umntwana ozayo kunye nomntu wakho. Kusuka kwimeko yokucamngca, umntu kufuneka ahambe ngokucophelela kwaye ngokukhawuleza. Oku kuyimfuneko ukwenzela ukuba iindawo zakho zamandla zixhaswe. Ngaphezu koko, ukuba ushiya eli lizwe ngokukhawuleza, amashishini angeke abonise indlela ozive ngayo ngexesha lokucamngca. Olu hlobo lokucamngca luya kunceda ukwenza ulwalamano lwakho luhambelane.
Khetha usuku lokuzala
Namhlanje, kukho iindlela ezininzi zokucwangcisa ngesondo somntwana. Kodwa kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele ukuba akukho nanye yeendlela ezinganiki i-100% isiqinisekiso, ngoko mhlawumbi uhlasele umntwana uya kuzalelwa ngesini esahlukileyo, kwaye akayiyo into oyifunayo. Kuyafaneleka ukuba uqaphele ukuba indlela yokucwangcisa umgangatho wengane ngokweemfundiso zasendulo ze-feng shui ayikho i-100% isiqinisekiso sokuzalwa komntwana wesini esilungisiwe, abaphathi baseTshayina base-feng shui baqinisekisa ukuba yonke into isekelwe elukholweni. Kuvela ukuba ukuba awuqinisekanga malunga nento oyenzayo, ngoko kuya kuba nzima ukufezekisa injongo yakho. Kuyavuma, kukho inyaniso kule nto.
Ngenyanga
Unokuphinda ucwangcise ngesondo lomntwana ngeenyanga. Ukusebenzisa le ndlela, kufuneka uqulunqe itafile encinane, uthathe imigaqo ethile.
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1-12 yinyanga yonyaka (igama le nyanga nguJanuwari-Disemba). Imashumi amabini anesibini (kumzekelo wethu) - minyaka emininzi yomama wesikhathi esizayo (bhala iminyaka epheleleyo) .22, 23 ... 33 - yile mali efunyenwe ngokungongeza iminyaka kunye nenyanga. Ngokudala itafile enjalo, unokunyusa intombazana okanye inkwenkwana kwintsapho yakho. Ilungelo lokuzalwa kwentombazana landa, ukuba ngexesha lokunyusa kwithuba leenyanga unayo inani. Ukuba ngethuba lokudibanisa inombolo engaqhelekanga ifunyenwe, ithuba lokuzalwa komfana landa. Kodwa kufanelekile ukukhumbula ukuba le ndlela ibuye ingekho.
Yemihla ngemihla
Kukho enye indlela eqhubekayo kuyo yonke into, ekuncedeni ubukhulu becala beprogram efunwayo ngokwesini - ukucwangciswa kwimihla yokukhulelwa.
Ukuba umntwana ukhulelwe kwi-4-16 (nokuba iintsuku) ngosuku lwesithuba-sokuya kwesinye isikhathi, ngoko kunokwenzeka ukuba umntwana unyuke. Ukuba umntwana ukhulelwe kwi-5-15 (iintsuku ezingaqhelekanga) ngosuku emva kokuya esikhathini, ithuba lokuzala umntwana wesetyana landa.
Iingcebiso zomphathi weFeng Shui
Abaphathi baseTshayina be-feng shui babelana ngeengcebiso ezilula ezinokuzicwangcisa ngesondo esifanelekileyo somntwana ongakazalwa:
- Ukuze uzalise intombazana ucebise ukuba ulale ukuya ngasezantsi. Ukuba ufuna inkwenkwe, kufuneka ulale ngasentla ngentloko.
- Ukuphupha kwentombazana? Emva koko, iintsuku ezi-7-14 ngaphambi kombono ohlongozwayo, nidla intlanzi encinci kunye nenyama. Le ngcebiso kufuneka ilandelwe kwi-trimester yokuqala yokukhulelwa. Akuyimfuneko ukuba ingabandakanyi ngokupheleleyo le mveliso ekudleni, kwanele ukunqumla ukusetyenziswa kwayo amaxesha amathathu. Hamba ukutya kwezityalo.
- Ukuba uphupha malunga nenkwenkwe, kufuneka udle inyama, kodwa ungenakufikelela kwimida. Ungakulibali ukufaka ukutya kwezilwanyana kunye neentlanzi ekudleni. Ukuba ufuna inkwenkwe, kulunge ukugatya iimveliso zomgubo (ukuba kunokwenzeka ukuba kunjalo). Yidla "ngendlela entsha" akufanele nje wena, loo mntu kufuneka aqale nokutya ngokufuna umnqweno womntwana.
- Faka indawo yomntwana (inkwenkwe okanye intombazana, ngokuxhomekeke kwisini esifanelekileyo) kwindawo "yabantwana". Ummandla "wabantwana" usempuma kwendlu. Inani lomntwana kufuneka lihlale licocekile kwaye akufanele libukeke likhulu-luyinkimbinkimbi yokukhulelwa, ukukhulelwa. Beka ecaleni kwesimboli sedoli, unakho kwi-crib okanye kwi-stroller. Usoyika ukuba awukwazi ukubeka ngokucacileyo umfanekiso womntwana, ngoko ummandla "abantwana" unokusebenza ngombala omhlophe.
- Ummandla "osapho" akufanele ushiywe ngaphandle kokuqwalaselwa.
Zonke izicatshulwa ezinikezelwe kwinqaku kufuneka zenziwe kwinkimbinkimbi, ngoko ke amathuba okuba nomphumo oyifunayo uya kuba mkhulu!